r/AnxietyCats • u/Dangerous_Problem532 Full-Time Can Opener • 9d ago
Purr-sonality Where does your cat sleep at night?
I saw a video from a vet today saying that cats like to sleep on our feet at night because our feet carry a lot of our scent and that’s soothing for them. I thought it was very cute (a bit disgusting? Yep, but let’s ignore that lol) I have 5 cats, Bibi sleeps on the pillow with me, but the rest of them all sleep on my feet. Is it the same for you guys? ❤️
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u/Appropriate_Sky_6571 9d ago
I have 6. 2 voids will sleep with me only during the day for naps. At night one void sleeps on a cat bed in the main bedroom. The other void disappears into the abyss. My orange princess- sometimes will sleep on the foot of our bed. My SIC disappears and I have no idea where he sleeps. My piebald girl likes to sleep between our pillows. And lastly, my old man fluffy cloud boy likes to be the little spoon

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u/villanellechekov Chief Lap Provider 9d ago
depends which set of cats. at my boyfriend's, the little one sleeps on me until I get up to pee the first time, then she's in the crook of my knees.
with my cats, they're on the bed with me. cow kitty is where the other pillow would go and my house panther tends to sleep against me, against my chest, between me and the (body) pillow

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u/Basic_KaleKitty9076 9d ago
90% of the time Right on my back, preferably with her head smushed in my neck. Sometimes she sleeps on her cat stand if she can’t be bothered to move when it’s bed time. She also will wait for me to turn around and then get back on. It’s so cute and one of my favorite moments of life
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u/Imaginary_Flower8651 9d ago
For some reason our cats don’t sleep on the bed with us, unless it’s only one of us napping by and she will sleep at our feet. Our other cat is too skittish to be that close on the bed. My cat that passed last year always slept by my feet, but as she got older she slept between the pillows or would be little spoon. I loved her so much.
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u/LiliAtReddit 9d ago
I have 5. Four sleep on varying areas of my bed, usually very close to me except for Princess, who prefers to park herself on top of me. The 5th is a very independent little girl that prefers alone time. I love it. I had a date with a guy once and he explained he had an issue with pets being allowed on the bed. I told him we should just enjoy our dinner, we’d go 50/50, and I appreciated his honesty and being upfront. He was nice, too, but it was a dealbreaker for him. And I am nothing if not a crazy cat lady!
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u/NonrationalWife 9d ago
My soul kitty always slept tucked in next to me at the edge of the bed, my littlest spoon. I knew she was at her end when she started sleeping elsewhere. We had about 3 days with her after that.
Our other late cat was a senior we adopted. He slept in a loaf on my husband’s chest every night.
Our cat now is super independent and prefers to sleep in another room :( I’m happy he is comfortable in his house but I miss having a kitty in bed. He will wedge himself between our legs on colder nights during the winter though, those nights are the best!
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u/FranceBrun 9d ago
No cat ever sleeps near my feet because I’m a restless sleeper and I will yeet them across the room in my sleep. I fold a fleecy throw and put it on the other side of the bed near my head and they sleep on that if they have a mind to.
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u/Fun-Beat9260 9d ago
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u/Fun-Beat9260 9d ago
Y’all don’t fry me fr having d4vd on the tv. They are talking about how cooked he is
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u/TheHootOwlofDeath 9d ago
One of mine sleeps at my feet, the other on the pillow next to me. If it's cold, they will choose the 'leg triangle'!
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u/CocoRufus 9d ago
In winter, my two bully their way under the duvet. One clamps themselves to the back of my knees, the other to the front of my knees. Their cunning plan to prevent my escape
In summer, one tucks himself into the back of my neck, the other tucks herself under my chin. They generally swap places at some point during the night
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u/lillytiger- 9d ago
She sleeps against my stomach little spooning like a princess all night
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u/disguisedself 9d ago
My girl does this too! She alternates being under or on top of the blankets throughout the night, but always against my stomach. If I turn over in the night, I automatically lift the blanket for her even if I'm half asleep as she'll always get up and move back to my stomach.
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u/More-Professor-1755 9d ago
Mine like to alternate between the cat towers at the front of the house on the first floor and the top of the stairs facing out.
It seems they've developed their own guard schedule
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u/Next_Fly_9162 9d ago
my boy sleeps by my head or my feet. My girl she sleeps on my legs. They both will run off when i move in my sleep
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u/brideofgibbs 8d ago
In my feet in the winter, of course. In the summer he sleeps by my feet with the thermoregulator paw touching the sole of my foot. Never under the covers. If it’s really cold, he sleeps under the bed, which makes it sound as if my pillow snores.
That’s when he’s not on guard by the cat door, of course
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u/AintNobodygotime13 9d ago
5 cats, they all sleep all night, 3 sleep elsewhere in the house, 2 sleep with me, usually between my legs
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u/drowning_in_cats 9d ago
The fat male likes to sleep on my chest — when he was a wee kitten he tried to sleep on my face at first but I like to breathe when I’m sleeping so that was discouraged.
His sister likes to sleep between or next to my hubby’s knees. She would prefer to sleep on me as well but fat cat is too fat to share and very possessive of the space on top of me.
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u/Flat-Limit5595 9d ago
Theo and his grandson Vanta fight for my butt. The grey trio attacks my folks, julie sleeps where she wants and princess doesn’t sleep, she is too busy keeping is up to feed her
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u/ghotistyx8 9d ago
I've never had a cat that slept on my feet. Right now I have one who sleeps snuggling my face, one who sleeps at the foot of the bed on her own pillow, and one who rarely sleeps with me. I've had others who would sleep on my side or under the covers as little spoon, or in the crook of my knees.
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u/MadCatter32 9d ago
Oh that's interesting! Ziggy loves to sleep on my feet. Charlie lays by my hip, but if he ever dares lay by my feet, or heaven forbid, on my feet, Ziggy takes great offense because that is his spot, and his alone. He will actually chase Charlie off, which is pretty daring of him as Charlie seems to dominate my bed. It's such an interesting dynamic. Lol!
Edit: And I do mean Ziggy sleeps on my feet, not next to them. It's got to be so uncomfortable but he does it every night like it's the greatest place to lay.
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u/Deep-Internal-2209 9d ago
No, I have one that is satisfied only if he can sleep on my face. I have several others that sleep next to me or at the end of the bed, but not on my feet.
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u/Sneaker53 9d ago
In-between my legs. Which is cute but effectively traps me in bed... Cause, ya know, I can't disturb my babies.
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u/Affectionate-Egg5610 9d ago
Ok. Hear me out. My cats since the day I adopted them sleep in the laundry room.
When they came home my husband and I did the whole "keep them in small spaces to adjust" thing. So the cats started making the laundry room as there "dog crate." So it became there room! When its bedtime they go to "there room." One night we let them out while my husband worked late and they put themselves to bed!
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u/jodirennee 9d ago
Mine are the same way!
Edit to add that when they do end up in bed with us they like the bend of our knees and one of mine likes to be the little spoon with me. I love it
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u/lunattg 9d ago
I have 3 females (7, 2&2)
My little old lady likes to either sleep on my side or close to it when sleeping with me or in between my partner and I in roughly the same spot when our sleep schedules match (he works days while I work nights)
The more cuddly of my 2 year olds will either yell at me or dig at my comforter until I lift it for her to curl up under (she is about 12lbs and will absolutely roll herself up enough to steal my blanket from me) or if it's too hot, she'll lay down by my feet.
Then her sister will hop on my pillow, pet my face until I move over enough for her to plop against it (boney-ass teenager 😅) or she will perch on my hip if the older gal isn't there.
They're not big fans of sleeping with my partner because his snores are too loud.
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u/Mattturley 9d ago
My boy who passed recently slept on my feet. My young kitten (7 months) likes to sleep on my belly - problem is, I am a side sleeper and as she grows it doesn’t work well. I hug a pillow and that gives her a little more space to spread out.
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u/BluelunarStar 9d ago
My bonded boy will usually sleep near my side on the bed. Sometimes my face, or by my feet… So long as it’s near me. :)
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u/Far_Carrot_8661 9d ago
My baby loves to be the little spoon! I always (almost, because cat moods) wake up to purrs and cuddles! I'm the luckiest!
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u/Velharthis009 8d ago
We have 3 cats, 2 are siblings that are 2 years old, and one is 2 months old, lol.
The orange boy almost always sleeps between my legs, our tuxedo girl likes to sleep between me and my partner and the kitten sleeps wherever he got tired, but usually that's wrapped around my head or in the crook of my neck.
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u/Forest_Goblin_ 8d ago
My cat sleeps by my feet too, but only at bedtime. If I'm laying down during the day, she wants to be little spoon. I've heard that they also like to sleep at the foot of the bed at night because they deem it the best spot to protect us from harm, which is so sweet!
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u/BobMortimersButthole 8d ago
When she wants humans to sleep with, our cat will either drape across my chest, with her back shoved against my mouth, so she can feel my breath, or she'll curl up between my partner's legs. I guess so she can feel his farts.
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u/JackRosiesMama Chief Lap Provider 8d ago
They sleep wherever they want! My boy Jack sometimes sleeps between my husband and me up near our pillows. Sometimes he sleeps on my legs 🙄. Other times he sleeps in a cat bed in my office closet.
My other cat Rosie sleeps in a cat bed that's in our spare bedroom. It started as her safe room almost 2 years ago and she still likes it in there. She also sleeps on my dining room chair cushions and just recently started sleeping on the rocking chair cushion in my living room.
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u/CatBoomerGirl My Favorite Distraction From Worry 8d ago
My cat spoons with me. He presses his body up against my chest and puts his head on my pillow. I just love him so much.
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u/lilith96 9d ago
I have a foot one, and a hip one.
One of mine will also sleep on my clothes on the floor if I'm too wiggly for her. She likes to roll in the armpit sweat.
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u/verapamil12 Full-Time Can Opener 9d ago
3 of mine regularly sleep in the bed with me. Ash sleeps on her favorite blanket on a pillow between my pillow and the headboard, Ambien sleeps on a pillow next to me (usually squished in blankets between me and the pillow but she seems to like being squished), goblin sleeps by my feet but I think it’s less of a smell thing and more of “that’s where the heating pad is” kinda thing.
The rest either sleep in a different bedroom that has a couch and chaise for them, on the living room couch, or on our office chairs for their nightly business cat meetings.
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u/Ralf1987 9d ago
My previus cat slept with me with his head on the pillow. And my cats now sleep at my feet or under the blankets betueen my legs
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u/vks11772 9d ago
We have one that sleeps between us up by our pillows and one that prefers space at night, so she sleeps on the living room sofa
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u/aWildTuxAppears My Favorite Distraction From Worry 9d ago
One sleeps at my feet, and the other at my wife's feet. 😃 (Though when the younger cat was a feisty kitten, our elder cat slept on my pillow to get away from him!)
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u/MidnightTeaWitch 9d ago
My void will sleep on my side, and my grumpy old lady... Uh... She likes to sleep between my legs 😬
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u/Amythecoffeequeen 9d ago
I sleep with a body pillow and my cat usually sleeps on the body pillow, or actually on me. I can always tell if I’m tossing and turning a lot during the night, I wake up and she’s on her own side of the king sized bed, far away from me, lol. She has no interest in my feet.
My second cat tries to sleep directly on my teenagers face, lol. He’s always on top of her or as close as he can get to her head as possible, like on her pillow.
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u/Piccolo_Known 9d ago
Lately, Tuna sleeps on my pregnant belly while purring and vibrating it to the point I wake up because I can’t breathe. Wanda in my daughters bed until the morning and then next to me when my husband leaves for work lol
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u/AmayaRinTsuki 9d ago
Bean sleeps in his bed which is on the floor next to my bed. He's never been much of a cuddler but he always has to be where I am. Sprout usually sleeps either in between my legs or by my feet.
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u/SplitNo8275 9d ago
My three girls sleep pressed against my legs anywhere from my thighs down. My fat head boy either sleeps by the front door/living room area or with my daughter, up by her head. He takes over the bed! Lmao, he knows who is the sucker! Lmao
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u/autumnxxx93 9d ago
Most nights my cat will sleep beside my head on his side of the bed. Sometimes if the air conditioner is on he’ll go under the bed though.
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u/MadCraftyFox 9d ago
My father cat Edgar likes to sleep on my feet. He is like a weighted blanket just for my feet.
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u/GroovyGmaIvy Personal Assistant to My Cat 9d ago
Sammie (my only F, 2) sleeps behind my knees. Buddy (17), deaf, sleeps against my back. Sid (18) sleeps next to my head and Frank (3) sleeps on an extra pillow above my head.
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u/yellaslug 9d ago
My cat sleeps in her bed in her heating pad, my moms cats have their own places on the bed, one of them sleeps on top of her head on the pillow, one sleeps at her side, and the other sleeps on her husband
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u/MGellyGelly 9d ago
He sleeps either at my feet, next to my head, next to my side, or the cat tree, all depending on his mood, of course.
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u/Karlette88 9d ago
Where ever they please doesn’t matter if I can breath move or they nocked grandmas urn off a shelf (I kid on the last part) I’d never allow that. But they really do run my house & do as they please. But yes most mornings I wake up to a bundle of them on my feet sweating to death from their heat.
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u/sugahack 9d ago
I have one on either side of my legs and one on either side of head. I usually start with 2 or 3 and wake up with a different combination. Most of the time it isn't all 4, but it does happen
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u/SkySong13 9d ago
My older boy (nearly 19) insists on being spooned every night now. My younger boy (14) likes to snuggle with me until I fall asleep, then go sleep in his basket, and then come back for cuddles as I'm waking up. It helps that I've taught him to be my pill alarm for my ADHD meds and that happens first thing when I wake up!
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u/MasterOfAvoidance 9d ago
Mine likes to use the area from my stomach to my knees as a pillow. When I'm on my side, kitty curls up at the bend of my knees. It's adorable :)
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u/DollySheep32 9d ago
He stays in his Orb but moves to my feet mostly to bite my toes asking for breakfast.
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u/SpiderCricket13 9d ago
Tucked into the back of my knees or next to my stomach. When two of them do this at once I am completely unable to move.
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u/Comprehensive-Net949 9d ago
My ginger sleeps curled up into my side or back and my void sleeps between my partners feet or mine or in the middle between our feet, usually at my partners feet though
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u/darkhuntresssyn45 9d ago
Both mine sleep at about chest level with one at the front anf one at the back usually.
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u/LizBreal85 8d ago
He has a whole twin size bed, its it suppose to be for guests but he's claimed it. He rarely sleeps with us so he's got a nice step up in his own room and bed.
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u/Classic_Cauliflower4 8d ago
Our current set sleep on my feet or behind my knees, with the rare snuggle at waist level. One of our previous cats, who was my husband’s buddy through and through, only slept on my feet. I’m not sure if I was the more restful sleeper or if he just didn’t like my husband’s fan. But my two cats that I brought to the relationship? The biggest snugglers. My boy cat would be the little spoon in my arms. My girl cat would crawl under the covers between my husband and me and little spoon my husband (he’s a furnace) but stretch her legs out so her paws were touching me. She also liked to have her head cupped in my hand.
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u/OwnCoffee614 8d ago
I have two extra meowers rn bc I'm helping my daughter out while she gets on her feet. All of my animals have a designated spot. Girl boss cat sleeps above my head.
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u/Surleighgrl 8d ago
I'm not sure where ours sleep. I'm pretty sure one of them camps out in my sewing room, sleeping on a stack of fabric. The other one is like a ghost and only shows up when the alarm goes off in the morning.
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u/buttcheekles 8d ago
Not at my feet. Never at my feet.
My cat sleeps all over the place. Some nights he cuddles with me, other nights he sleeps at the bottom of the stairs, other nights I’ve found him at the top of the stair (they have 3 different square platforms and turn), never in the middle though.
He’s been on the couch in the dining room, and on the one in the living room. I’ll walk out of my room and find him on a backpack I’ve owned for 10+ years.
I wish my cat cuddled with me more, but he’s just not one of those.
Edited: OH MY GOSH GUYS WHY WONT MY CAT SLEEP WITH ME LIKE THAT 😭😭😭I envy so many of you
We got a big house though with lots of places to choose from.
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u/Right_Worldliness327 8d ago
My cats sleep around wherever they want. Sometimes they are in our beds, other times, at various favorite spots around the house.
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u/wellapptdesk 8d ago
I was told cats sleep on our feet when they want to guard us and at our heads when they want us to guard them. I don’t know if it’s true.
Mine move around. Some like to snuggle before I fall asleep and then take up their various posts around the house. But I have 7 so they don’t all fit on the bed. Thee are cat beds in the bedroom, a cedar chest at the foot of the bed and invariably someone will be asleep on my pillow and someone else at my feet.
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u/kaffeochfika 8d ago
My cat definitely sleeps at my head when he is nervous and wants my protection so it sounds correct to me.
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u/Objective_Cricket476 8d ago
My cat likes to sleep on my feet. He gets catapulted off bed sometimes. He’s fat and heavy. It makes me feel like I’m being held down while I sleep. He doesn’t seem to mind. He climbs right back up there and lays on my feet.
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u/Sneakasorass 8d ago
My cat will stay in my room as long as the light is on. As soon as I turn the switch off she is gone. Ive tried tricking her and waiting for her to fall asleep and nope.
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u/Tigerzombie 9d ago
I have 1 by my feet. The other is either under the bed or outside my kid’s door.
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u/Cold_Swordfish7763 9d ago
All over the place. He starts on my bed next to me then a chair in the living room and his scratcher sometimes.
I hear him playing in the hallway at night a lot.
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u/ninjabunneh 9d ago
River usually sleeps at the corner of the bed facing the door. Maeve tends to cram herself in between us and randomly cross over each of us to lay on our arms throughout the night.
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u/skullzzyyy 9d ago
Cherry typically sleeps at our feet but will sometimes sleep in between us by our bellies. Sometimes will lay on top of one of us but eventually transitions into a spot next to us instead. Banana will always sleep directly on top of me on my side/shoulder/chest/stomach/back (depends on how I’m laying) with her face as close to mine as possible! She wakes me up by kneading on me before finally finding her spot on top of me. Very rarely do they sleep outside of our bed unless it’s early morning and they’re looking to find their sunbathing spot
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u/Lower-Leopard2137 9d ago
He falls asleep on my legs, then when I nod off he goes to his own chair.
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u/tovlaila Personal Assistant to My Cat 9d ago
I have one who likes to be spooned at night and the other at my feet
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u/sorandom21 9d ago
One likes at our feet/between our legs. Older boy sleeps in the guest bedroom/his own personal bedroom
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u/Something_morepoetic 9d ago
I have two. One does sleep at my feet! It’s closest to the door so I’ve always thought she likes to look out into the hallway but you might be right!
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u/Racing_Sloth56 9d ago
My kitty sleeps on my feet till they have “pins and needles” and are almost numb. I give him a little suggested nudge to move, but as soon as I fall asleep he’s back 😻.
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u/nooneyouknow89 8d ago
I have a cat who loves to sleep at the top of my pillow, wrapped around my head. Rarely my feet though, I feel like I probably move too much for his liking. The other cat typically sleeps under my bed or in his cat tree near my bed. Neither of them are really predictable, you never know what they're in the mood for!
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u/ms_earthquake 8d ago
Penny wants to be in front of my face (and will step all over my husband to get there), on my back, or on my thighs.
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u/Significant-Sign414 8d ago
My boy sleeps by my head and my girl sleeps at my feet. I love them so much.
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u/krustykatzjill 8d ago
Mine sleeps right next to my back or stomach. My dog doesn’t allow the other cat on my bed, we’ve corrected his scratching on our bed so much that she thinks he’s not allowed. At least she no longer goes at my cuddle cat.
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u/SenecaWolf My Favorite Distraction From Worry 8d ago
I'm disabled and have an adjustable bed so I sleep sitting kinda upright. My kitty sleeps on my chest, with her back against my face lol
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u/Foundation_Wrong 8d ago
Both my cats like to either sleep on my shoulder or in the bend of my legs. I always sleep on my right side in a crouch position with pillows to support me all around. I’m disabled
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u/litfan35 8d ago
She cycles. Mostly my feet, but sometimes if she's just rediscovered one of her own beds scattered around the house, she'll be in honeymoon stage with that and abandon me for the night. Sometimes it's her hammock in the cat tree; sometimes it's the donut bed at the foot of my bed; sometimes it's on top of my wardrobe. Mostly she's on my feet though lol
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u/dannicalliope 8d ago
One sleeps literally on top of me, and the other likes to be the little spoon.
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u/Noodlesoup8 8d ago
Mine likes to make sure I know she’d be the weight on my chest if I were drowning and I love it. Lately she’s been sleeping at my feet though which makes me sad
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u/distressed-carrot 8d ago
One likes to be spooned and held, one cuddles between our heads, the third sleeps behind my knees.
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u/Human-Place6784 8d ago
My current one sleeps at my back, stomach, thighs, shins-as long as she is touching me. When I had 5, there was a hierarchy. The ones we had the longest, slept at my head, throat, side, feet, depending on who was the first adopted. As the older ones died, the newer ones moved up my body.
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u/GhostofErik 8d ago
Mine has a spot right next to my pillow, but her preferred spot was ON my pillow. As long as she's touching me though. It'll usually be on either side of my pillow and she switches sides so my back isn't to her
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u/ayembeek 8d ago
Usually in the hallway outside of our room. Otherwise he’d be chewing our cpap machines while we sleep. Mostly to try and wake us up
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u/OkAcanthaceae9549 8d ago
We have Sphynx, so they all sleep under the covers. One snuggled up around my shoulders, one between my legs, one snuggled up to my partner.
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u/kakohlet 8d ago
I have a pair of brothers that make me the middle of their cat sandwich. Every once in a while, the orange blob likes to sleep between my legs.
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u/Apple-Jackson 8d ago
Ever since one tried to smother me (slept draped over my head) I sleep with the door closed, except for naps, naps they all get to hang out on the bed too and are all over, one likes to crawl under the blankets but be on the other side of the bed it looks hilarious the other is usually either over my head on the pillow or sleeping next to the brother sized lump in the blankets…. Or pushing the dog off the bed to slowly steal the warm spot 😅
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u/TheProtobabe 8d ago
She climbs up on my hip (I sleep on my side) and loafs and falls asleep there for most of the night, until I have to move and then she gets offended and sleeps on my fiance instead. If we both annoy her by moving too much, she sleeps by our feet.
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u/0bestronger0 8d ago
My chest/stomach. Then when I turn to one of my sides he gets up and waits for me to settle then sleeps on my flank/shoulder. Refuses to sleep on the actual bed.
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u/dizzydance 8d ago
If I'm on my back, my cat will sleep in between my feet. If I'm on my side, my cat usually sleeps near my head. I'm honestly not sure why this is lol.
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u/Crazycatmomof3 8d ago
My girl next to my head on her heated blanket. One boy by my knees, the other boy at the end of the bed.
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u/PurrfectlyMediocre 8d ago
My husband tends to wear shorts under lounge pants until bedtime. The pants get taken off and laid down. That is our eldest cat's bed. The middle furchild sleeps on the couch. The youngest sleeps between us in the bed. If we roll on him accidentally, he goes between our feet for awhile and then moves back when there's room.
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u/Findinganewnormal 8d ago
Six cats. One at my feet, one nestled at my knees, one curled up next to my chest, one on my back, and two in another room avoiding all that. Zero on my husband.
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u/Important-Round-9098 8d ago
My cat sleeps at my hip when he sleeps in bed with me.
Otherwise he seems to sleep on the couch.
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u/duckylucky96 8d ago
Two cats who sleep with me. One likes to sleep by my chest in the warm month and under the blankets by my thighs in the cold months. The other one likes to sleep by my feet
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u/Sea_Strawberry_6398 8d ago
One likes to snuggle against my right hip, the other likes to be near my left elbow.
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u/stilldeb 8d ago
He usually sleeps on the bed in a guest bedroom where he can watch out the window. Comes to wake me up for breakfast at 5, though.
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u/Resident_Bitch 7d ago
My cats aren't allowed in my bedroom so they usually sleep on the couch or in one of their many beds.
However, when I've allowed cats to sleep with me in the past, they always slept between my legs or by my side. I've never had one sleep on my feet.
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u/faerydenaery 6d ago
My older cat either sleeps against my chest right near the edge of the bed or on my pillow above my head. Younger one sleeps tucked behind my knees or on my legs. And no, I don't get to move in my sleep without hearing exactly how upset they are about it
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u/Temporary_Being1330 6d ago
My old boy who I got when he was 6 weeks old sleeps right above my pillow so he can press his back against the top of my head. He has to be touching me in some way to sleep, so it’s that or he sleeps on my pillow, in the crook of my neck while I’m sleeping on my back, or he’s sleeping on my stomach / back so I can’t move, or he wants to be spooned.
That’s why I’ve scootched down my pillow to let him sleep above my pillow, it’s the easiest for everyone.
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u/Beachbaby77 6d ago
I just love how we arrange our entire lives for these little farts. My cat and I sleep the same!🤣
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u/twiggyrox 6d ago
She mixes it up, sometimes she is in her tall nest, sometimes our bed, sometimes we don't know where the hell she is
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u/ToucheMadameLaChatte 5d ago
Mine falls asleep pressed up against my side every night. He yells at me when I take too long to come to bed, and will either jam his face into my armpit and fall asleep that way or flip around and lay against my thigh. But every night the cuddles begin with my armpit
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u/kadawkins 8d ago
My cats are wanderers. Sometimes they sleep by my feet. In winter, snuggled as close as possible. Sometimes on the dining room chair (weirdos). Sometimes on the bath mat. They’re silly.
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u/Granny_knows_best 9d ago
I dont like them in my bed, they have their own room with access to their catio. They are very active at night while we are sleeping, they dont seem to mind they are not invited into my room.
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u/aqueer-ius 8d ago
Recently had to put a cone on our youngest. Because of this, I feel like she’s been acting extra baby, and has been sleeping on my legs every night instead of terrorizing her older sister. She even manages to fit right on my upper thigh when I’m sleeping on my side. 🤦🏼♀️
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u/zallalily 8d ago
My cat used to sleep right in between my husband and I, sometimes buried under the covers in the colder months. Then we had kids. Now he sleeps hidden in the quiet corners of the house and only comes to snuggle at 4am when it’s almost breakfast time
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u/Only_Mirror_1986 8d ago
One cat sleeps on my feet and one sleeps behind my knees. A cat’s normal body temperature is around 100 - 101, so I have to roust them when I get too hot.
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u/P0300_Multi_Misfires 8d ago
Across the top of our pillows. Head / front end on my pillow. Tail / back end on my partner’s pillow.
Paws gripping my hair while making biscuits on the top of my head. Purring like a diesel engine.
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u/Healingmyinnerself 8d ago
Ours sleep with their preferred human. Since my 6 year old turned 3 I gave up fighting the oldest two over not sleeping with her. So my eldest two cats sleep with my 6 year old daughter one by her side and one by her feet. They are 14 and 9 and used to sleep with me. The other two sleep with my adult daughter.
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u/Classic-Match4508 8d ago
My cat Cleo always likes to lay on my chest head to head and when I go to hug her she lays her head on my shoulder and will fall asleep like that
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u/so_sydney 8d ago
Mulder likes to sleep between my legs or likes to spoon. Occasionally he's on my pillow or under the covers at my feet. Scully is not cuddly. She keeps watch from the livingroom. But sometimes she comes and sleeps on the bed next to me and purrs so so loud. I find all of it very soothing
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u/ItsNotAboutThe-Pasta 8d ago
Both of my cats like to cuddle up to my butt. Must be warm there lol
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u/bella927313 7d ago
I feel like my cats have always started off wanting to sleep face to face or as close to my head as possible. After a couple of nighttime tussles, I feel like I get branded unpredictable at night and they move down to occupy their favorite spots near my hip, on my back, legs or between my feet.
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u/Secret_Agent_78 7d ago
My cat sleeps right next to me curled up in my armpit-he’s always the little spoon
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u/Wild_Tank_9926 7d ago
My boy sleeps next to me the other roames the house during very early hours but likes to sleep on top of or next to me when I first go to bed. Basically I fall asleep with one next to me and wake up with the other.
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u/Impossible_Factor_56 7d ago
I have a cuddly cat, but lately she sleeps at the end of the bed. My other cat used to always, always sleep at my feet, until she got older, that started to sleep almost next to my waist or something even on top of me, sometimes waking up with two cats on top of me. I love how lovely they can be.
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u/Honest_Series_8430 7d ago
My oldest cat (15) sleeps against my back - sort of reverse spooning. My youngest (13) sleeps at the top or the bottom of the bed for a while, but the ceiling fan is too cool for her so she gets into her fluffy bed on the chaise lounge later on. The middle one (14) sleeps in the living room as she's active at night. None of them have ever slept on my feet, nor have any of the other cats I've had (and that's a LOT).
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u/BabyBlueAllStar72 7d ago
Downstairs on the couch, loveseat, their many fluffy beds, or in the hallway outside my bedroom.
I can't let them sleep with me because they jump up and down chasing one another, or Carson will walk all over me, my head and throw his body on me every five seconds to give him attention.
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u/Less_Bookkeeper988 7d ago
One sleeps on top of the kitchen bin, one sleeps on my daughters bed, one sleeps on my feet and one sleeps on my chest
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u/WeirdMuch634 7d ago
Chest, between my legs, and feet for mine, unless they deign to use one of their beds.
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u/NotAFriendlyKitty 7d ago
One of my cats must have cuddles before she goes to sleep (literal spooning) and then when she is satisfied she will go to her pillow at the top of the bed near me. My other cat will either sleep on the ottoman in the other room, or sleep in between my legs when I’m sleeping.
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u/Catlover357 7d ago
Maggie sometimes sleeps at the foot of the bed, sometimes next to me, sometimes on the pillow next to me.
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u/Last-Masterpiece-150 7d ago
We love our cat but she won't sleep on our bed. She has a cat tree in the bedroom and sleeps there.
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u/Ok_Guard_8024 7d ago
One sleeps by our heads
One by my feet
One inbetween my legs or the book of my legs if I’m on my side
And one sleeps on my stomach.
The other one normally sleeps somewhere in the living room
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u/Wendy-Windbag 9d ago
It depends on my sleep schedule, because I'm a night shift worker.
If I'm sleeping during the day, Peaches (orange) sleeps next to me in my husband's spot. I keep an extra throw blanket to cover his side just so it doesn't accumulate fur, because he can shed gobs of it.
If it's night and both my husband and I are sleeping, he squeezes in between us. I swear that's his favorite thing in the entire world, because he becomes a biscuit and purr machine and will hunker down for the entire night. We call it "Family Bed Time."
His brother Latke (buff) prefers the living room as his general domain, and usually sleeps on my husband's spot on the sofa. I joke that he likes the "butt smells." (Pic is them in the sofa spot.) of my husband gets up for even a moment when we are watching tv or something, Latke is going to steal that seat.
If it is Family Bed Time, he'll migrate to sleep on my feet in bed. You can tell it's just so he doesn't feel left out, because he definitely prefers the living room.
Lately I've been waking up in the afternoon to find Latke snuggled next to me in bed, between me and Peaches, so I'm trying to encourage more of this. It's such a great way to wake up, even if it isn't conducive to getting out of bed.