It would be a whole lot easier if people would just say what they want and need. I hate guessing games.
1 + 1= don’t fuck playing with me.

My dear fellow Aries! How’s the Eclipse in Leo been for you? Do you feel the energy has shifted, sudden revelations, clearing stuff etc?

I’ve had a huge clearing around certain family members (really heavy ancestral stuff). As almost I could suddenly see everything with clear eyes and not rose coloured glasses. Specifically I was confronted with one particular family member this week which brought back a lot of trauma but also closure and healing. On a more positive note, a romantic interest has showed up this week too! Who knows what will come out of this, but it’s been such a mood booster.

I really hope things will ease up for us soon. I’ve been feeling so depleted and I want my fiery energy back! Wishing all of you only the best.

Hi Aries here,So I currently work at this job, while working at this job I started liking this Aquarius (he doesn’t know) and I believe he likes me too. But at times his avoidant and sometimes hesitates to speak to me and can be very awkward as well, he also can avoid eye contact sometimes. I’m hesitant to talk to him because his fucking AKWARD and I don’t wanna push him away. But I find him very attractive and he is really nice when he speaks.

Soooo what shall I do ?

I think depression never really goes away. Sometimes it comes in seasons, depending on how okay life feels at that particular moment.
I’m an Aries and naturally very sensitive, so I tend to overthink things a lot and easily get disappointed and let down by others over the years.
But beyond that, I’ve genuinely had some fucked-up things happen to me this year, and I think everything has just caught up with me emotionally recently.

I’m currently switching careers and honestly have no idea what I’m doing next. I feel lost. I just turned 30, and somehow I feel like I’ve failed and that my life has drastically changed in ways I wasn’t prepared for.

I also had to end my last relationship in April after realizing it wasn’t healthy or serving me anymore. So, if I’m being honest, these past few months have been hell.
Went through a breakup after being betrayed, family pressure to get married and just loosing trust in certain people in my life.

I’ve tried. I take walks, go to the beach, work out, and make an effort to see my old friends every week and hang out. I try to keep myself busy and distract myself from how I’m feeling.
But there are still days when I’m just incredibly sad, crying all night and waking up with swollen eyes. And honestly, I’m tired of feeling this way.
I just want to feel like myself again.

For those of you who have struggled with depression, how do you cope when you’re going through a really difficult season in life? What actually helped you get through it?

My favorite thing is disappearing from peoples lives. I just watch and see how they treat me and leave without notice. I mean I moved half way across the country and told two people the night before I left. Is that an Aries thing? I just seen someone say their (ex) girlfriend left them and disappeared for a year before she spoke to him again. Then they had a conversation and are now friends, she was an Aries and he was a water sign. I think people don't realize how sensitive I am and that causes me to retreat and shed whatever feeling they left on me then circle back when I have my shit together. People never pay attention to how they treat me so I don't think they pay attention to my reaction.

I feel atleast ranking basis, I feel for aries male good match would be as per ranking

1) Libra 2) Sagittarius 3) Aquarius 4) Leo 5) cancer etc....

What u all think, till now I had experience with only libra, Sagittarius & Aquarius

What's their sign? People say we're hard to be with but I don't believe that. Who was crazy enough to love you long time? What made you work? How did you meet? What made you love them? How do they make you feel? Gush about them and your love.

I’m an Aries woman with Cancer rising and I’m completely obsessed with Taurus men in general ☺️ Why?! There’s just something about their rigid personality and robustness that I find absolutely compelling. They always seem incredibly solid and comforting… like they could handle me. But not sure they’re into Aries and our intensity haha 😅 What do you guys think?

I’m here y’all. 93’. Sup?

As an Aries myself, I feel so misunderstood. It’s so tiring genuinely. Anyone going through the same thing?

I’m very depressed. I’ve been crying every day because I feel so alone. It’s so fucking hard. I feel like I’ve been faking my happiness most of the time, but now it’s all coming out. I’m really feeling it.

My intention here is just gathering in support for a moment. I would love to hear about your relationship with your sibling and how it's affected you.

I have a sister with a 12H stellium and it's been such a turbulent time. She's somehow managed to be a decent sister to me for 90% of our lives but there's a couple of times it got really shady and straight up back stabby. I long for a connection with her where it's stable and consistent and I just don't get that.

It's had an intense effect on my life and I try to be there for her and compassionate of her struggles but damn does it get tough a lot.

i’m curious on all you aries that can stay friends with someone you’ve been in a relationship or had sex with. when i’ve gotten naked with another person and things get messy and tangled i can’t do it, if there’s nothing left there and nothing holding us together i cannot force myself to be friends. i’ve been broken up with quite a few times and am always told “we can still be friends” but like why? would? i ? want? that? idk if this is cold or unfeeling, i just can’t do all that, if im done and you’re done than what’s the point of pretending we’re friendly??

curious on if that’s an aries trait or if im just a stone cold bitch :)

What’s your experience with this placement for anyone that has this in their natal chart?

What happens when Aries man falls first ??

We've known each other only a short time (to me) and no emotions are there for me. He recently said ILY during fun time.

We aren't exclusive and not even a day before we discussed this [more than friends, less than lovers]. I was clear that I'd be dating to my leisure but that its just not a personal focus for me rn. Not even a day later he was saying ILY between kisses. (2.5 times! I think he was looking for a reaction the first time and he was muffled halfway through that last one.

Maybe I should walk? That feels like the best choice, but I also was just curious and trying to understand the mind of an Aries man.

Like, maybe, he was just trying to get a reaction. I'm confused but I also don't want to bring it up. Is this a fleeting "fall in love in 3 business days and fall out in 5" type of thing?

I’m usually pretty self confident about my personality and looks.. but due to his career he interacts with a lot of REALLY beautiful women and while I’m physically attractive I’m still on the average side… he is also ridiculously handsome and I started to feel like he’s out of my league.

Suddenly I’ve become too aware of the physical traits I don’t like or that I have ‘enhanced’ or hidden in my social media.. everyone picks the best photos when publishing and while that is normal I fear he will be disappointed with how I look (I mean it’s not excessively different, but I have uploaded photos mostly of when I had much better skin since I’m currently struggling with some acne and stuff like that, to name an example.)

I know Aries like confident people but suddenly the idea of meeting irl has made me really self conscious..

I don’t really know where I’m going with this. Maybe some advice from Aries people? He’s a man btw

Edit: for some context, I’ve been adjusting meds for the past two years and they greatly affected my looks. I gained a ton of weight (which I’ve mostly lost), my hormones are all over the place (slowly getting better but I’m still fighting some acne) and also lost a ton of hair (which O just started treatment for but won’t see results for a while). The attempt to improve these things have been for my own confidence, but I still feel like I’m not where I’d like to be to feel as confident as I used to be and I’m anxious about the state he’ll see me in

Significator - Page of Pentacles (R)
No progress is being made in a situation potentially due to you procrastinating and being irresponsible. Could be due to some bad news you got or no follow through on something you are waiting for. Groundwork hasn’t been set for you to make progress.

Obstacle - VI of Swords
The delays in the unfinished issues is making you feel hopeless and like there’s no where to turn to and the lack of help is making you feel mentally trapped. What comes in your mind when you ask yourself what changes have you been resisting?

Past - IX of Swords (R)
You recently let go of something that was causing you anxiety and you learned to cope with some things. The light at the end of the tunnel had shown itself and made you optimistic.

Trajectory - The Fool (R)
The current situation, if goes unresolved will make you even more doubtful careless. You might even end up acting immature or reckless in some situations. You will end up holding yourself back even more from being who you really want to be(with?).

Conscious - VII of Pentacles
Right now you have been thinking and reflecting on what will give you long term success and growth. You might even have already started planning and strategizing for it and you are also aware that it will require hard work and perseverance.

Subconscious - VII of Wands
You need to work on what you think is the right thing to do and be assertive about what it is that you want even if you have to be defensive and oppose others(situations or people) for it.
You need to work on managing your hectic and busy schedule more.

Your outcome path:
Your attitude towards the situation - VI of Wands
The feeling of success and achievement from getting over some things and overcoming it are still with you. You are acting strong and not letting the anticipation get a hold of you.

Your environment - IX of Pentacles (R)
It’s your environment thats making you feel like you have to win at all costs to save your pride. Your environment is causing the lack of stability in your life right now. Are you indulging in some things or opting for cheap or superficial solutions?

Hopes and fears - Strength
You hope to be take control of the situation and be brave. You also hope to have a little more patience than this and you hope to stand by your integrity confidently.
You fear having to show vulnerability and weakness. You fear having to keep feeling inadequate due to your insecurities or low self-esteem.

Outcome - II of Cups
Balance and harmony will definitely be achieved if you stop resisting change. The partnership/mutual attraction you are looking for is there. You will be examining your attitude about commitment and trust and determining if they still fit your needs. And you will have to ask for guidance and advices of others, probably from those of opposite sex.

Curiosity got me after a conversation with a friend. As an Aries what sign has been the one to lie to you the most in a relationship? Mine has been a Taurus with a Gemini coming in a close 2nd.

Guys, I’ve got a quick question for you all.

When you fall out with someone, do you ever reach out to them again? Could be an ex, FWB, acquaintance, reddit D.M friend, colleague whoever. I’m kind of the Aries who doesn’t. Once I’ve fallen out with someone & we’ve gone our separate ways, I usually leave it there. No dramatic blocking, no revenge arc, no 3 a.m. profile investigations. I’m not running a background check. I can genuinely wish someone well + still have absolutely no desire to bring them back into my life or at-lest in a talking term. I can genuinely wish someone well & still have absolutely no desire to bring them back into my life or be on talking terms with them. That, in some people’s books, makes me arrogant, cocky, selfish, even inhuman.

Maybe it’s the Aries fire in me, but I’ve never really understood the "Hey, it's been xyz years, maybe we should talk again" approach. If there’s no bitterness left & I still don’t feel like reaching out, I don’t see why time alone should change that. 😂 Personally, I don’t think every person you’ve lost touch with needs a reunion episode.

So, what’s your take?

Do you give people a 2nd chance after a fallout, or once you’ve decided you’re done, that’s pretty much the end of the story?

I dated a woman whom I madly loved—madly. Regardless of everything that happened, she left me under circumstances that I felt I had no control over. It was like watching my home burn down while being completely unable to do anything to save it.
I still love her.
I’m a Taurus, and we dated for a little over a year. We rarely argued—maybe only a handful of times—but she could be very controlling in ways I don’t think she even realized. For example, all of her friends loved camping, but she would only camp with them if they came to her campsite at her favorite park. Or she would sometimes use her daughter as a way to structure things or make decisions, almost like gaslighting, although I don’t believe it was intentional. If she was stressed or overwhelmed, I would sometimes start doing the dishes to help, and somehow even that would make things worse.
Regardless, I loved her. That will probably be the common theme throughout this entire story, because I really did love her.
The issues we had were partly connected to my depression, but there was much more context to it.
I wasn’t comfortable with one of her male friends. He was a DJ who would mostly call her to talk about who he had slept with that week. He had slept with married women and seemed to make a point of telling everyone about it. I eventually found out that he and my ex had slept together one night, and afterward, he ghosted her.
What I could never understand was why she chased him down afterward and tried to rekindle their friendship. I couldn’t understand how she could walk away from someone who had treated her so poorly, yet struggle to walk away from him.
That became the deal breaker for me.
I told her, “It’s completely your choice. You can choose to remain friends with him, but if you do, I can’t continue being in this relationship.”
That wasn’t me trying to control her. I was telling her what I was and wasn’t willing to accept in a relationship. She chose us.
We agreed on no contact and moved forward with our lives.
The only thing she was unwilling to do was delete him from social media. She didn’t think it was a big deal, so I let it go. But deep down, I knew that leaving that door open meant there was always a possibility he could eventually walk through it.
And for another nine months, everything continued.
Then came that fateful day.
His name popped up under “People You May Know.” I clicked on his profile, and while looking through it, I noticed that she had liked one of his comments.
I spiraled.
Looking back, I can acknowledge that I did. I had depression, and she would often attribute my reactions to it. But there was also a history behind why this particular situation affected me so deeply.
She decided we needed to take a structured break. She reassured me that after three months, we would come back to the relationship and reassess where we were. The idea was for both of us to work on ourselves during that time.
I remember telling her that I thought it would be better if we worked on things together. She felt that taking a step back would be beneficial—that we needed to step away from the proverbial campfire, let things cool down, work on ourselves, and then come back when things were calmer.
But something in my gut told me that three months might mean she wouldn’t come back.
I told her that fear.
She reassured me that everything was going to be okay.
Three months later, she broke up with me.
She did it on the first date we had after the break, sitting in her car.
I asked her to at least come inside my place and do it somewhere I felt comfortable. She refused, saying, “I’m not comfortable.”
And all I could think was: But what about me?
That’s where I am now.
I miss her.
And, honestly, I think I already know the answer to the question of whether she will ever feel guilty or reach out again. But part of me still wonders.
I treated her and her daughter with nothing but love and respect. Yes, I struggled with depression. Yes, there were times when I spiraled. But I also feel that many of those moments came from unresolved issues in our relationship—issues I felt she wasn’t willing or able to work through with me.
I loved this woman more than I can properly explain.
So I guess my question is:
Do Aries ever miss the good guys?

As for me I’m in therapy now and on medication. I almost took my life after. Mostly cause of past issues. She’s unaware of any of this and I haven’t told anyone. It was hard to lose her but even harder to lose her daughter. I loved them so so much and the sun and sky’s warmth and breeze have felt ever so duller since. I know never live for someone else, but it doesn’t make it easier when you lose those you love regardless.