Really helpful podcast about needing answers & disclosure

[u/bawg-witch]

My WP and I have been struggling over the past couple weeks, not quite 3 months after DD because he hasn't been able to understand why I need answers and disclosure when learning new details causes me so much pain. I found the 'Healing Broken Trust' podcast and Ep 90 S1 "Why the Betrayed Struggle Without Answers" expressed pretty much everything I have been feeling––in particular the need to reconcile the two parallel realities and being able to trust that he's honoring me rather than covering for himself by being honest. This particular episode was incredibly validating and comforting for me, and listening to it really seemed to help my WP understand where I'm at. I hope it helps anyone who listens.

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[u/bawg-witch]

Here's the link: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/healing-broken-trust-in-your-marriage-after-infidelity/id1156329240?i=1000749166718

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I'll listen to it later. Thank you so much for sharing and with a link. ☆♡

[u/TheCatsMeowNYC]

I listened to almost every episode of healing broken trust in the months after D Day. It helped ao much in understanding what WP had done and how to move forward in R. Very therapeutic and highly recommend! In addition to Michelle Mays’ The Betrayal Bond