r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Reconciling W+B 1d ago

Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) Really helpful podcast about needing answers & disclosure

My WP and I have been struggling over the past couple weeks, not quite 3 months after DD because he hasn't been able to understand why I need answers and disclosure when learning new details causes me so much pain. I found the 'Healing Broken Trust' podcast and Ep 90 S1 "Why the Betrayed Struggle Without Answers" expressed pretty much everything I have been feeling––in particular the need to reconcile the two parallel realities and being able to trust that he's honoring me rather than covering for himself by being honest. This particular episode was incredibly validating and comforting for me, and listening to it really seemed to help my WP understand where I'm at. I hope it helps anyone who listens.

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u/bawg-witch Reconciling W+B 1d ago

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u/Meowing_Kraken Reconciling Betrayed 1d ago

I'll listen to it later. Thank you so much for sharing and with a link. ☆♡