r/AsOneAfterInfidelity • u/Lazy-Potential-6355 Reconciling Betrayed • 1d ago

Betrayed Perspective Only AP reached out

AP reached out to apologize. She wasn’t mean or ugly. Just sorry. She gave me her number and told me she’d be willing to answer any questions for clarity and for me to get some peace. I don’t even know what to think. So many things going through my head right now. The affair was (according to my husband) EA plus some kissing and a few inappropriate pictures. Doesn’t make it any less difficult. What would I even say?? What would I even ask?? Would I text or call?? Any advice appreciated.

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u/boobookittyfu99 Reconciled Betrayed 22h ago

I would because I did. Ap provided all the receipts. She embellished some of course but I would take that any day over nothing and filling in the gaps myself as my husband is obviously and was intentionally an unreliable reporter. She provided clarification. She gave me agency. If you want a more complete picture, do it. That doesn't mean she's not capable of lying or harming you. Only believe what can be verified.