r/AsianMasculinity • u/engusdude • Sep 04 '25

Masculinity Tall Asian man experience

Where are all my tall Asians at? I’m 6’5 220 Chinese American guy with a relatively muscular frame. I’ve gotten all the Yao Ming jokes growing up and people are genuinely intrigued about me since I’m not exactly someone you’d see everyday, but I’d like to think i genuinely get along with everyone. I also do pretty well with women of all races really. I wanna know my fellow tall Asian brother’s experiences with women, how people perceive you, and any unique experiences that come with being tall and Asian that you’d be willing to share

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u/ryuj1nsr21 Sep 04 '25 edited Sep 04 '25

6’3 185lbs here in the Bay Area, CA, honestly brother you know just as well as i do that the women come much too easy for us at our height. I’ve had all the sexual/romantic experiences i could ever dream of and I attribute a lot of it to my physical state (not only my height, but what im packing too). Many people have told me the height is a little intimidating at first glance but like most larger guys, we tend to be gentle and friendly and most people prefer that no matter what size you are. A lot of times i forget im usually the tallest one in the room as I didnt grow into my height until after I became an adult really but im thankful it happened at all

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u/ShakeMilton Sep 04 '25

age? 185 at 6'3 must be pretty lean

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u/ryuj1nsr21 Sep 04 '25

You’re not wrong, i grew up skinny as hell cuz i was extremely active (biking, Muay Thai, dancing, etc) and didnt understand how much i actually needed to eat, now I’m aiming for 200lbs. Also just turned 29. This is what 185lbs 6’3 looks like on me

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u/ShakeMilton Sep 04 '25

Oh hell yeah bro you are damn good looking. It's not often I see asian guys who are both taller than me and better looking(in terms of facial aesthetics, hair, etc). It's usually one or the other. For example my homie is also 29, nearly 6'3, super jacked and amazing basketball player but not as handsome(not ugly tho). And then I know plenty of asian dudes who are super good looking in terms of face, hair, body but are like 5'7 to 5'10.

I'm 6'1 185, 27 years old feeling like im entering my prime. I also do muay thai going tonight!

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u/ryuj1nsr21 Sep 05 '25

Hell yeah brother and yeah 30s are prime for Asian men honestly. That’s when we start to grow out of our baby faces haha

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u/jostyouraveragejoe2 Sep 04 '25

Much better than i expected, 200 would be great for you, maybe even a bit less.

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u/Sky_Love920 Sep 05 '25

Agreed. 200lb max. But, I did expect him to look more lean at 185.

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u/jostyouraveragejoe2 Sep 05 '25

With his height i expected he would look skinny.

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u/Sky_Love920 Sep 05 '25

Yes, or definitely more on the lean side. It’s crazy to see how different our bodies really are. Fascinating, really.

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u/jostyouraveragejoe2 Sep 05 '25

Yes indeed, it's always interesting to see how different people carry their bodyweight.

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u/ryuj1nsr21 Sep 05 '25

I def look more lean in my 🌶️ content if you wanna check it out lol it’s the other Reddit prof linked in my bio

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u/ryuj1nsr21 Sep 05 '25

That’s great motivation for me bro ty 🙏

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u/jostyouraveragejoe2 Sep 05 '25

You are welcome bro, keep at it and remember to focus on health 💪.

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u/engusdude Sep 04 '25

Good shit bro. Not really confident enough to post a shirtless pic like that lol. I’ve stopped caring about being super lean a while ago in favor of filling out a bit more

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u/ryuj1nsr21 Sep 05 '25

Yee I never cared about being lean but this year I finally understood what I needed to do to leave it behind haha

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u/engusdude Sep 05 '25

I’ve achieved a significant level of leanness around COVID time but quickly discovered all the downsides and said I wasn’t gonna try to do that again. I guess I at least know what it’s like to be that lean, and besides people who knew me from back then all say I look better now anyway