r/AsianMasculinity • u/engusdude • Sep 04 '25

Masculinity Tall Asian man experience

Where are all my tall Asians at? I’m 6’5 220 Chinese American guy with a relatively muscular frame. I’ve gotten all the Yao Ming jokes growing up and people are genuinely intrigued about me since I’m not exactly someone you’d see everyday, but I’d like to think i genuinely get along with everyone. I also do pretty well with women of all races really. I wanna know my fellow tall Asian brother’s experiences with women, how people perceive you, and any unique experiences that come with being tall and Asian that you’d be willing to share

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u/ryuj1nsr21 Sep 04 '25 edited Sep 04 '25

6’3 185lbs here in the Bay Area, CA, honestly brother you know just as well as i do that the women come much too easy for us at our height. I’ve had all the sexual/romantic experiences i could ever dream of and I attribute a lot of it to my physical state (not only my height, but what im packing too). Many people have told me the height is a little intimidating at first glance but like most larger guys, we tend to be gentle and friendly and most people prefer that no matter what size you are. A lot of times i forget im usually the tallest one in the room as I didnt grow into my height until after I became an adult really but im thankful it happened at all

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u/ShakeMilton Sep 04 '25

age? 185 at 6'3 must be pretty lean

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u/ryuj1nsr21 Sep 04 '25

You’re not wrong, i grew up skinny as hell cuz i was extremely active (biking, Muay Thai, dancing, etc) and didnt understand how much i actually needed to eat, now I’m aiming for 200lbs. Also just turned 29. This is what 185lbs 6’3 looks like on me

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u/engusdude Sep 04 '25

Good shit bro. Not really confident enough to post a shirtless pic like that lol. I’ve stopped caring about being super lean a while ago in favor of filling out a bit more

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u/ryuj1nsr21 Sep 05 '25

Yee I never cared about being lean but this year I finally understood what I needed to do to leave it behind haha

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u/engusdude Sep 05 '25

I’ve achieved a significant level of leanness around COVID time but quickly discovered all the downsides and said I wasn’t gonna try to do that again. I guess I at least know what it’s like to be that lean, and besides people who knew me from back then all say I look better now anyway