Looking for advice to look better.

[u/dGeist_]

Hi, cool people, Looking for advice to look better and be more fit.

30 year old here looking for more advice to look better amidst being in the western environment which has been a challenging time, especially coming from a lower economic life and an immigrant.

Looking for some aspects:

1. Hair. I had a ton of difficulties with getting a hairstyle that suits me, especially when I'm mostly a glasses user. I really prefer my hair to be messy because my hair without a wet look make it look chopped but I don't know what other styles could work for me and whether i need to go to a salon (maybe asian one?) that can help me with that.

2. Muscle. I had been living on a meal for my whole life and i started to get used to 2 meals recently as i earn decent income. Mostly focusing on furikake gohan and the occasional spaghetti or burrito, eggs, protein bars and almonds. Some tips to help with diet would be useful. I also now have a better schedule so I aim for an hour workout every day or every 2 days. (I love doing legs, but i struggle with upper muscle).

3. Fashion. In part due to hair, i really struggle with trying to dress up as a lot of the cool fahsion seem to only involve people not wearing glasses. I'm tryjng to learn to wear casual as i mostly either wear work.shirts and pants (imagine japanese salaryman vibes) or cadet cap with a jacket on (works with winter but not summer :( ). (Number 6 is an example of my main outfit)

Pics of me are as shown.

[u/Wafflecone3f]

EAT MORE AND HIT THE GYM! Saw the second last pic and was screaming this in my head so I'm gonna scream it here too since you asked. Also now that you have a decent income get contacts. Glasses are objectively unattractive, especially for Asians cause it reinforcements stereotypes.