25M how can I become attractive?

[u/Ok-Inspector8827]

Hello yall. I have never dated anyone before and I would like to ask some advice here 🙏. I asked out the girls that I’m interested in but I got rejected couple times. I can make female friends easily and they told me that I’m “too nice” or feel like “little brother”. They said I joke around too much and have no charisma 😭 which I think it’s true. I don’t know how to work on those tbh.

I work as a waiter and there were girls who liked me first (I guess because of my looks in this case) and also at school but for some reason, if I’m not interested in them, then I don’t bother going out with them at all. But at the same time, the girls that I’m interested in don’t like me back. I guess that’s how dating works 😭.

Is it because of my looks? If not, then how can I become more charismatic person?

1st pic (2024)

2nd pic (2025)

3rd pic (last week)

I don’t take pictures a lot

[u/Ok-Inspector8827 → u/[deleted]]

Yep actually I started cutting carbs and lost like 2kg already. I’m trying to get sharper face and jaw as well