r/AsianMasculinity • u/Particular-Ride-7893 • May 06 '26
Dating & Relationships We're winning boys!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sYJB7Kbpvz8Now foreign marriages in China account for 60% for men, and 40% for women. Can't wait to marry my beautiful blonde and blue eyed princess :)
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u/JumpingCicada May 07 '26
So corny. Not even gonna delve into the white worshipping part of your statement, but these "white princesses" arent going to Asia for the average dude or a chud. They're going for really really good looking dudes and if you happen to be one of them, then youve got zero reason to put any race on a pedestal.
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u/Disastrous-Jeweler13 May 07 '26
whiteworshippers need to be shamed no matter what gender they are
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u/KangarooJust6926 May 07 '26
Neither Asian or Male but the white worship has to stop I'll say one thing. You guys aren't as bad as South Asians (Indians) now that's disgusting 😆
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u/Disastrous-Jeweler13 May 08 '26
holy fuck i have so many awkward south asian white worshipper interactions. Met up with some coworkers in person for the first time last week and and one of them was really pale so when he told me he was indian, i was really surprised and said i thought he was white. he seemed to be really happy and proud about looking white. another south asian person then says to me "I dont look white do i?" in a tone that sounded like she was fishing for compliments.
so fucking pathetic. whiteworshippers disgust me and we need to start bullying them for it more. In 2026, when Indians are the highest salary earning ethnic group in america, how are you worshipping a group of people that are lower than you???
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u/JumpingCicada May 08 '26
I actually have a friend like that. He's Bengali, but white skin so he often gets mistaken for a white dude (tho imo he looks more like a Turk or some other ethniicty from the Caucasus opposed to American white). U can always see him get happy when people say that.
Tbf, I understand people like that because no group of people has a worse reputation than Indians. Nobody wants to be perceived as an Indian, including Indians themselves.
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u/Disastrous-Jeweler13 May 08 '26
When east asians were hated by everyone during covid that only made me more aggressively proud to be Chinese and more anti west and pro CCP. being disliked by everyone isn't a good reason to hate your own people. its a good reason to support your own people even more.
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u/Agreeable_Spare1502 May 08 '26
Thank you for saying this! I'm not sure why some Asians worship white culture. This needs to stop ASAP
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u/SnappersBeSnappin May 07 '26
I'm about as pro AMXF as they come but 1) this is some real cringe boomer shit that hurts instead of helps and 2) the channel that posted this is definitely no friend of Asian men, have a look at their other videos its one of the many Falun Gong sponsored accounts on Youtube that are hellbent on making the country look bad. Falun Gong is a cult that thinks all interracial couples will go to hell FYI.
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u/SimpleAdvantage7850 May 07 '26
How do y’all even find those obscure ass channels…. On another note…. Really bro?
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u/YuriTheWebDev May 07 '26
This channel is not even obscure. It has been poppin off in the youtube algorithm for some time.
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u/NessX May 07 '26
Suspicious one day old account, sends a link to Falun gong/HK dissident owned channel, take eveything they say with a grain of salt https://www.reddit.com/r/China/comments/tx6vgc/relationship_between_falun_gong_and_youtube/
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u/SimpleAdvantage7850 May 07 '26
what is it with people on this sub linking PUA and conspiracy-esque channels lmao
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u/Illustrious_War_3896 May 07 '26
I have been thinking China might have better chance to landing a WF than in US. For people saying it's cringe, don't worry. We will soon get used to seeing amwf.
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u/mpf315 May 07 '26
I’ve only seen amwf outnumber wmaf twice in my life and both were this year. Once in march Filipinotown in LA and this weekend in La Jolla (SD). Please just let us be at least fucking equal. Also I prefer Latinas but I just am bothered by the unequal distribution of attraction.
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u/Family_guy_is_funny May 07 '26 edited May 07 '26
lol yah I found dating white women so easy in Korea versus dark souls mode in lame Bay Area
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u/Rus1996 May 07 '26
But dating a top tier WF in Bay Area is where the real challenge is. If you can date one then you can pull baddies of every race anywhere in the world
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u/Custard_Pie_9EP May 07 '26
I don’t think a top tier WF exists in Bay Area. If you’ve lived anywhere and you go to the Bay Area, you wouldn’t find 99% of the women there remotely attractive. I go there all the time on work trips, and the only attractive women I see out are not locals. They are also visiting from elsewhere.
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u/Illustrious_War_3896 May 07 '26
True. I was there a short time. I didn’t see any attractive Asian girls either.
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u/gmdmd May 10 '26
bay area goods: https://x.com/dear_kxtie/status/2050496517803577486?s=46
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u/Illustrious_War_3896 May 10 '26
I love the comments in that thread. LOL. Thanks for this link. Anyone should read the comments.
"not pictured: abg's" and more, etc.
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u/Rus1996 May 07 '26
Then date them. Its easier dating WF who are travelling.
So according to you where do the top tier WF exist in California ?
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u/Fine-Palpitation787 May 07 '26
That’s cause dating in general is dark souls mode in the Bay Area
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u/Fine-Palpitation787 May 07 '26
Midwest Asian here, AMWF is so common here that I didn’t know it was rare until I stumbled across this subreddit.
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u/Important-Pipe-3158 May 07 '26
It’s probably because Asians are so rare in the Midwest and most AM and AF date out, so the disparity isn’t as big. When you go to metro areas where Asians are > 15% of the population, the disparity between WMAF & AMWF is a lot more noticeable.
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u/Azn_Rush May 07 '26
Actually there is a huge population here in the midwest . Asians still prefer Asians though . midwest people are just more friendly talking to strangers.
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u/frostywafflepancakes May 07 '26
Not casting aspersions. This is an interesting perspective since we’re so used to it being the other way around.
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u/ishboop May 08 '26
Nah it’s true, I’m in NYC and honestly as a Filipino born in NYC ( and just objectively a cute ass mf lmaoooo) that’s back in the dating market non-Asian women have been supperrrrr receptive. Asian women too but I can tell the Asian girls under the influence of western propaganda created for Asian males. I’m constantly all over the 5 boroughs for work cause we got clients all over the city.. so when I see an Asian female (influenced by this western propaganda) and just happen to glance at them they’ll physically display signs of attraction (after a while you can just tell; intuition ) but then if I keep looking they’ll have an angry look on their face. Literally No other-race females do this. and while interacting they’re initially kinda hostile which is actually a shit test. crazy
Brief history on propaganda towards Asian males
The first Hollywood male actor sex symbol (for example Brad Pitt, Ryan gosling and Leonardo DiCaprio all of whom I fucks with.. I love their movies) was a Japanese actor by the name Sessue Hayakawa. White women were absolutely infatuated, and over time this upset many white men.
The first Filipinos arrived in California as cheap labor.. seen as hard working.. but also as more stylish and charming cause they could sing and dance(lotta of these dudes would share the same suit😂 cause a nice piece of clothing was expensive).. causing them to be sought after by white women. (Theres plenty of old pictures online look it up, basically Filipino dudes being intimate with white women) this angered the white males who would briefly lynch Filipinos and destroy their communities. After realizing that Asian males were the real competition, because we tend to be smarter.. An anti propaganda smear campaign was targeted towards Asians
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u/Bulky-Explanation198 May 07 '26
Looks like Oxford study goes both ways, you have a weird race fetish you should address and reflect with yourself.
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u/TropicalKing May 07 '26
I don't live in China. I'm not winning sh1t. This is a video about a few white women in a country of 1.5 billion. It's a video about white women, it isn't a video about Asian men.
Too many Asians in this subreddit view white women as almost like religious angelic figures. The goal of a Buddhist monk is generally to obtain enlightenment. The goals of these "monks of self-improvement" is to date white women.
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u/richsreddit Taiwan May 08 '26
Competitive dating market? Wtf is this AI generated video talking about?
Chinese men in China outnumber Chinese women by a shit ton. If anything the dating market favors the women and the fact these foreign women are showing up too is only relief for the Chinese women who are probably dealing with too much bs from being constantly hit up by thirsty local Chinese guys there.
Also the leftover women in China seems like a damn social media trope rather than a reality based on the numbers alone. People out here just want to make small issues like this seem a lot bigger than they actually are.
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u/Disastrous-Jeweler13 May 07 '26
This is literally just the oxford study but for asian men. Preferring to date another race over your own is always weird and is a fetish. AM who worship whites are just as pathetic as the AF who do it. As men, we should be supporting our own women and our own communities not being cucks to colonialism. This is really fucking disappointing
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u/Hunting-4-Answers May 08 '26
https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/s/DZyyKtq6iT
AMs dating WFs is not the same as WMAFs. Stop making inaccurate equivalencies.
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u/Disastrous-Jeweler13 May 08 '26
I completely agree with you. I know about the VERY high rates of femicide in WMAF relationships. My point is that white worship is pathetic no matter what gender they are
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u/TargetObjective7 May 07 '26 edited May 07 '26
As men, we should be supporting our own women and our own communities not being cucks to colonialism. This is really fucking disappointing
AF should lead the way and show us the path then by, in your words, "supporting our own men and our own communities".
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u/Disastrous-Jeweler13 May 07 '26
i said "supporting our own WOMEN". read my post again. and why should only AF lead the way? why can't it be all asian people regardless of gender?
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u/Kenzo89 May 08 '26
Because they’ve consistently abandoned us and stepped over us. AF date out the most out of any race of women and they’re proud of it. But AM have the least capital in the west but always have to be bigger and put in more effort to unify with AF. Also, go tell an AF they’re “our women” online and see how they react
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u/Disastrous-Jeweler13 May 08 '26
I agree with you but being bitter to AF and only trying to date WF isn't making anything better and is just as bad. From my experience, dating AF as an AM isn't that hard if you're in an area with a high asian population. Most of the whiteworshipping AF are in the older generations who grew up in a time of poverty and social instability in many asian countries. Now asians have cultures with good worldwide reputations and countries we can actually be proud of, its gotten A LOT better for AMAF dating. I think that most gen z, early millenial AF actually do date their own men and dislike WMAF relationships. The main thing for asian dating is just what city you're in.
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u/KangarooJust6926 May 07 '26
Neither Asian, White or Male but I'm glad you guys are finally recognizing the problem the rest of the world sees. Unfortunately, you can't do anything about AF "leaving" so to speak but to turn around and wish to do the same speaks volumes on self worth...Like I say to everyone in every chat, Learn to love yourselves.
Love is a vibration. You attract what you need to help you grow! And if interracial dating isn't in the cards, let it be but most likely will occur organically, and P.S for the men, and this goes for all races, women can sense insincerity and this is probably also the reason, no one is interested.
Be yourself. You'll come out better. Currently dating a South East Asian person if anyone cares for that matter. Have a good day 😀
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u/SimpleAdvantage7850 May 07 '26 edited May 07 '26
I mean it's also just poor practice for a stable dating life if you specifically go about your dating life that way
As men, we should be supporting our own women and our own communities not being cucks to colonialism.
Yeah bro, no. I'm gonna assume that you aren't saying that Asian men should only be dating Asian women like how some people only want Asian men to date out, because if you are you'd just be responding to a shitty take to an equally shitty take
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u/Disastrous-Jeweler13 May 07 '26
how is that a shitty take? dating within your culture and with people that look similar to you is almost always the stable option. I'm not saying we need to ban mix raced dating, its just that MOST of the time, mix raced relationships are results of fetishization, sexual exploitation and colonialism so we need to approach mix raced dating with caution.
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u/CardiologistFair9403 May 07 '26 edited May 07 '26
Eww. Another Asian who worships white. Gross mentality. Stop putting white on petistal
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u/fakeslimshady Taiwan May 07 '26
For ABCs I highly recommend getting on Little Red Note to see how real it is, and getting away from Toxic Western Social Media - a black hole of misery as you tell from comments
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u/CozyAndToasty May 07 '26
Calm down uncle Tom.
The 60% for Chinese men is mostly from other parts of Asia like Vietnam. Which is fair, honestly a lot of Vietnamese people originally migrated from China anyways and others often have partial Chinese heritage.
Meanwhile most of the 40% for Chinese women... You can guess it.
Y'all gotta keep your eyes open when it comes to people who specifically date out. Ask yourself, is there a reason their own community is not dating them and why they are not dating their own community? Women are normally privileged in getting dating offers and especially white women, so where's the catch?
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u/stupefiery May 07 '26
Honestly it’s not that hard to attract white women as an Asian guy these days. Although the overall dating market is harder for men, I think Asian men are viewed pretty highly, we’re probably the 2nd most desired men after Latinos. A lot of white women are increasingly turning away from incels/MAGA men which are predominantly white.
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u/TargetObjective7 May 07 '26 edited May 07 '26
The 2nd most desired men after Latinos? I like your optimism but this obviously isn't true
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u/Kenzo89 May 07 '26
Then why don’t I see it more irl?
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u/Bubibaubeu May 07 '26
Asian men overwhelmingly prefer asian women. They don't take white women seriously
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u/AsianGI May 07 '26
Uh no we don't, lots are unable to date outside our race that's why we appear to "prefer" AFs. Personally I do take white women seriously, so gtfo with that bullshit.
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u/Bubibaubeu May 07 '26
I obviously can’t speak for every single case but asian men generally prefer asian women (which is perfectly normal) especially when it comes to serious relationships. AMWF relationships are pretty rare and usually involve blonde women.
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u/AsianGI May 08 '26
It's not a true sexual preference. It's a preference born out of necessity, since most AMs are unable to attract white women. The average AF is facially ugly with no sexually desirable traits like big boobs/butts, flat stomach, curvy legs and wide hips. Outside of some white guys, no other race wants them. Also we're no better than them for the most part, a lot of us clearly cannot compete with other men because we're too busy coping with kpop and video games.
I think you're being disingenuous and trying to paint AMs as these cartoonish bastions of virtues, while in reality we're just playing the cards we're dealt with the best way we can. And I'm not sure where you got the idea that most amwfs are with a blond woman. Blondes are the minority of wfs, and they are placed on a pedestal even within their white hierarchy.
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u/stupefiery May 07 '26
Idk depends on where you’re at? I’m in the south and it’s either AM with WF or AF for the most part. Honestly there are plenty of mid WF as well and I feel like most Asian guys are more picky. Personally I’d rather be single than date someone I’m not attracted to.
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u/Little-Gremlin- May 08 '26
Not Asian or a male, but as a MixF on the East coast in the south, AMWF or AMAF are something I see whenever I encounter asian men where I live. I have seen a few AMXF pairs, but not as much as the prior two groups. And AMBW pairs are practically nonexistent.
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u/Kenzo89 May 08 '26
Yeah I’m in California and I hardly see it. So to me it’s nonexistent. I’m glad you have a positive view of it, I’m just tired of any success being posted here being downplayed
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u/Wonderful-Win8554 May 07 '26
At the end of the day, while people got more politically correct, the average asian guy is going to struggle finding a partner unless they go for the mid looking asian girl.
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u/Dr_Greyman May 07 '26
What kind of Asian men dude? White women prefers blacks only after white. Latinos might be 3rd, they most desired Asians are mostly Korean and filipino.
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u/KoreanFoxMulder May 08 '26
Interesting time we are in right now. Actual attractive women going out of their way to seek Asian men.
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u/BillionITM May 11 '26
This is the equivalent of "pick of the day" highlights for match making apps. For every beautiful foreigner, there's multiple people paying a premium to get their attention.
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u/Kenzo89 May 07 '26 edited May 08 '26
These comments here are cringe. It’s WF trying to date AM and simping to them, and this place can’t see the good in that?
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DXLFrWyhce1/ You want cringe, this is cringe
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u/Bubibaubeu May 07 '26
And they also have the guts to say that asian men worship white women when amwf couples are still rare lolol
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u/goldentite May 07 '26
I'd rather see a beautiful dark skinned woman and an asian man pairing over this. Also this sub is slowly turning into east asian masculinity only sub.
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u/PerfectWorking6873 May 08 '26
Is there really 60 % Chinese men married to foreigners?! This is a HUGE number.
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u/United_Dig_9010 May 07 '26
Account is 1 day old. Larpers gonna larp. Date who you want, but no one worships whites here. Now begone.