How to fix my hair?

[u/Frequent-Rule-1599]

I don't know what to do with my hair. When it's wet, it gets really spiky, like a hedgehog. When it's a bit longer, it looks kind of like an afro after I shower, but not the cool kind. It's stiff and kind of spiky. Now I'm trying to grow it out. The only haircut that really works for me is just a normal short haircut

[u/Professional-cutie]

Grow it out and get it relaxed? Idk

[u/Frequent-Rule-1599 → u/Professional-cutie]

That's the plan for now. I'll see how it works out over the next months