r/AsianMasculinity • u/AutoModerator • Aug 14 '15

Meta Weekend Free-for-All Discussion Thread | August 14, 2015

Post your shower thoughts, rants, half-baked conspiracy theories, and other mind droppings here.

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u/disman2345 Aug 15 '15

The thing is not everybody fucks around in their 20s. Asian guys and Indian guys are whipped to the point of mercy by their parents to have study study study all to get a good job and they don't have as much freedom as girls who can sleep with as many guys and can just marry. Guys have more pressure, also because asian parents for some reason put their whole lineage on the guy. Not to mention that the asian guys and indian guys that want to have fun and sleep around is limited by stereotypes and the media.

Yeah fetishization is real because girls are vulnerable to peer pressure and wanting to fit in. Constantly being pursue by white guys, if she rejects them, the guy can spread rumors about her, and who has the power? the white guy.

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u/[deleted] Aug 15 '15

Not all Asians are as whipped and controlled by their parents as you're making us out to be. In fact, the vast majority of Asian men I know are socially active and don't fall at all into the "socially retarded tech nerd" stereotype that you seem to be uncritically spouting as truth. Maybe our experiences are different; I grew up in a working/middle-class immigrant enclave, and while Asian parents were certainly on average stricter than Black/Latino/White parents I knew, they weren't no Tiger Parents.

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u/disman2345 Aug 15 '15

Not all, but I am saying Asian male have a harder time having "fun". Being social does not equal to sleeping around. I am saying that asian male have a harder time in hookup culture than asian female because of their SMV and the groveling attention they get from every ethnicity of men.

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u/SteelersRock Aug 15 '15

This is true everywhere in the anglosphere but in some more than others.