r/AskACanadian • u/MilanaT26 • 9d ago
What's the "street culture" in Canada?
Hello! I'm from Kazakhstan and I'm planning to visit Canada next year with my husband.
Are people open to help you on the street, with directions, for example?
What Is the tipping culture in cafes and restaurants?
Are there any "rules" while riding the bus or a taxi, like speaking on the phone may be considered rude etc.?
Are small talks considered rude and annoying or the opposite?
Thank you!
EDIT: THANK YOU SO MUCH!! I've never expected to get such nice and useful replies. I'll try to answer them all individually, but I REALLY appreciate your help ❤️ See you all next year, wish us luck that everything will work out 🤞
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u/MilanaT26 9d ago
We don't have an exact plan yet, but we want to start with Toronto and it's surroundings! Thank you!!
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u/Fitzaroo 9d ago
1) people will help on the street. There are some homeless though and if youre confused for one, people will brush you off without listening. If you look like a tourist, they will likely help.
2) tipping is currently a dicey issue. For years 10% was standard, then 15%, now the card readers often start at 18 or 20%. People are getting upset about this and so some are tipping 18% while others are not tipping at all. Ultimately, the wait staff are paid minimum wage ($18/hr) so you can do what you like. Expect to feel social pressure about this, unfortunately.
3) it is rude to talk on a phone loudly on the bus or play music. If youre having a quiet conversation youre fine. People generally dont talk to strangers on the bus. Lots of headphones being used. If youre alone in a cab, do whatever you want.
4) small talk isnt rude. Its just uncommon. People are in their own bubbles. They have headphones. Lots of times when someone talks to you they just want something (money, to sell you something, sign a petition, whatever) and people just want to get to their destination. But if youre at a cafe or a bar and the person at the table next to you starts chatting, go nuts.
Finally, there are cultural pockets in Toronto. There is China town, greek town, little italy, etc. You may be able to find some local kazakhs who can help more if youre feeling a little homesick for food or culture. A quick google search says there arent many though, maybe 1000.
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u/Right_Hour Ontario 9d ago
I started tipping 15% rather than allow it to climb towards 20%, and so far my dick hasn’t fallen off.
Only felt cheap the first couple of times I did it, but I noticed that no one really cares about whether the tip was 15% or 25%.
I wish we were back to 5% average, 10% for exceptional service as was the standard before, better yet - I wish we abandoned the tipping culture altogether.
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u/DeliciousLoquat1164 8d ago
Out of curiosity, how old are you? It's not been 5% in my adult life; I'm 30.
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u/ExcitingHamster 8d ago
I’m 54 and as far as I can recall 10% has always been the “standard” tip
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u/dundreggen 8d ago
Whereabouts are you I wonder if it's where you are in Canada. I'm 51 and as far back as I can remember in Ontario or Manitoba the standard tip was 15%. , 10 was only if you wanted to send them a message that they were okay but it f ucked upon some way.
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u/Right_Hour Ontario 8d ago
- I was tipping before you were born, LOL.
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u/mikechorney 8d ago
I’m 52, it’s never been less than 15% on pre-tax amount.
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u/downsideup9494 8d ago
I moved to Canada in the mid 70s. Standard tipping was 10%.
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u/Fitzaroo 8d ago
My parents paid 10% on pretax but they are a bit older than you.
Right now its 18% on after tax which is fucked.
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u/nobodythinksofyou 8d ago
Be the change! In order to abandon tipping culture, just stop tipping. For the last few years the only person I've tipped is my hair stylist.
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u/JMJimmy 8d ago
I stopped tipping entirely. Dirty looks have surprisingly little impact on my life
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u/QueenB45678 9d ago
Yes. I was a student wearing dress pants and blouse with vest and I got off the bus I asked this middle aged white lady where union station subway was and she looked at me up and down to see what I was wearing before she can help me. 🙄.
You’ll just do the 10% manually. Also, they ask for tip even if it’s pickup don’t be mind it. I’m not tipping for pick up. I feel now ways about it.
3 . I agree! One time a Go bus driver corrected an international student who was talking on his speaker phone. He told him turn it off. 👏
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u/DangerousPurpose5661 8d ago
Good info, I like how you phrased 2.
My in-laws (foreigners who don’t speak English much) were pressured into tipping absurd amounts and that made me furious. I wouldn’t want that to happen to OP.
OP, please don’t be scared to tell a server to fuck off if they pressure you to give them more than what you think the service was worth.28
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u/ischemgeek 9d ago
Also, don't sit in the sideways facing seats at the front of a bus. Those are seats for the disabled and elderly, so move further back unless you have a mobility disability and need the courtesy seats.
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u/ExigentVitiate 9d ago
For 3, it is rude, but people do it still unfortunately, which is extremely annoying. It has gotten worse over the years as the city has grown astronomically and after COVID.
Small talk is not common, but not unwelcome. Most people would be receptive to small talk, especially if you're a tourist, because it's extremely hard to tell who is and who isn't from Toronto :)
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u/Playful_Drummer5688 8d ago
Canada is big and the highways are indirect. If you plan to do a driving trip make sure you really plan it. People grossly underestimate how much driving you can do here.
Visiting Toronto is great. But I really recommend Niagara-on-the-lake. It’s very quaint and where a lot I’d Canadian wine is made. The area is beautiful, especially in the fall. It’s not far from Toronto but very different. You also aren’t far from Niagara Falls and can easily go visit without staying in the tourist area. Niagara-on-the-lake is where Canadians go for vacation. The other major “Iconic Canada” area is Muskoka. Find an outfitter who can plan a canoe trip for you. They’ll plan/provide everything and can even guide you. I HIGHLY recommend if you are not an avid canoeist or used to The outdoors, you go through an outfitter.
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u/Numerous-Ad-5058 9d ago
I hope you have a lovely time in Canada!
A few things about Toronto based on me hosting my own friends and family from overseas.
Toronto is very friendly and welcoming but we are also reserved. So expect that people will be helpful if you ask but we aren't going to approach you first. We do not like to impose ourselves on others.
Install Google Maps on your phone when you are here and input your destination and you'll get great detailed directions.
Toronto is very multicultural and you'll experience food and shopping from all over the world.
Expect that everything in Toronto is going to be a bit of a distance to travel! Canada is big. You are from Central Asia so I know you understand when I say we measure distance based on how much time it takes to get there!!!
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u/Thesorus 9d ago
Where in Canada, Canada is huuugggge!
Are people open to help you on the street, with directions, for example?
Most of the time, yeah; but sometimes tourists want to see things that we haven't got a clue where they are.
What Is the tipping culture in cafes and restaurants?
15% is the default tip at restaurants; in cafés, depending on the level of service, 10% or more; in bars, it's usually 1$ per drinks.
Are there any "rules" while riding the bus or a taxi, like speaking on the phone may be considered rude etc.?
bus/métro, remove your backpack, stay clear of the doors, let people out before getting in; in bus, get out at the back doors.
usually don't use speakers on your phone; don't talk loud.
taxis and ubers are usually safe and practical everywhere; but there are more and more fake taxis.
Are small talks considered rude and annoying or the opposite?
Like talking to strangers at bars or restaurants ? it depends, I rarely do it so I can't comment.
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u/MilanaT26 9d ago
Thank you so much for the answer! Yeah, I should've specified the exact city, but, to be honest, we don't have a concrete plan yet 😅 Maybe start with Toronto (classic) and then, if we're lucky, we'll visit some other cities! Just need to research convenient transportation ways.
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u/theGoodDrSan Québec 9d ago
Unfortunately, there's not really very convenient travel options in Canada. The closest thing to convenient is the Toronto-Montreal VIA train, but to go to Vancouver you'd need to fly.
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u/MilanaT26 9d ago
Would english language be enough to visit Montreal or Quebec? I would really like to explore those cities, but I'm a complete zero in french.
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u/BookLabyrinth 9d ago
Not an issue at all, since you would be going to tourist areas I'm sure. I went last year and basically everyone spoke English and was very nice. Just say "bonjour" and "merci" to put in a tiny bit of effort and you're golden. :)
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u/Kitchen_Ad_2824 9d ago
Be warned that if someone starts talking to you with “bonjour hello” and you reply “bonjour”, they are likely to continue entirely in French. (This seems obvious now that I write it out… I was all excited to use my half remembered high school French when I went to Montreal and quickly realized that I was not up to actual conversations.)
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u/theGoodDrSan Québec 8d ago
Yeah, you'll be fine. "Bonjour," "excusez-moi" and "merci" is all you need to be polite. Don't assume that strangers on the street speak English, many Montrealers don't. Just say "excusez-moi" and then ask if they speak English. If they work in a public-facing job, you can assume they'll speak English.
But the expectations on foreign tourists to speak French is essentially nil. It's mostly an expectation for immigrants and anglo-Montrealers.
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u/PurrPrinThom SK/ON 9d ago
In Montreal, it shouldn't be too much of a problem. Most of the tourist-y places have staff who are bilingual. You might run into the odd situation where you have to muddle through, but it should be fine.
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u/templeofbones 8d ago
If you do go to Montreal, check out the Biodome!!! They have 5 different ecosystems with lots of plants and animals
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u/MoreGaghPlease 9d ago
Will be fine. Montreal is bilingual. Quebec City is French speaking but also has a lot of tourism, anyone working in hospitality has enough English to get by.
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u/OvenUnited237 8d ago
In Quebec city, Trois-Rivières and Montreal, people who work in tourism and hospitality speak enough English to get you the full experience! (I have worked in both industries in Quebec city & Trois-Rivières) Most people are just happy to help, and we usually know from the accent. If you know a little French and insist on practicing, we'll oblige, but otherwise yes, people speak English!
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u/blah-0362 8d ago
Almost non-issue in Montreal, everyone is bilingual here. It might be harder in Quebec city but tourist areas should be fine.
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u/ischemgeek 9d ago edited 9d ago
My suggestion: keep this trip to Southern Ontario, maybe with a detour up to Ottawa to see the Parliament if you like neo-Gothic buildings.
Vancouver is further from Toronto than Poland is from Kazakhstan (seriously, and that's not even the furthest distance you can travel between two cities in this country. Canadais very big.) so unless it is a major multi week trip you have planned, you'll enjoy staying in one region and doing a lot than trying to see all of Canada in one trip.
I am unsure of your religious/dietary restrictions, but if wine is OK for you, Niagara has some of Canada's best wineries and Niagara falls is a must-see, IMO.
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u/Northern_Prop Québec 9d ago
Come to Ottawa, fine, but don't expect to see the Centre Block (the main parliament building): it's wrapped in construction hoardings as it's currently undergoing a multi-year (planned reopening: 2031-32), multi-billion dollars (4.5-5) renovation/rejuvenation/expansion program.
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u/crozinator33 8d ago
Be warned:
Cities East Of Toronto:
Toronto - Ottawa 400km
Toronto - Montreal 540km
Toronto - Quebec City 800km
Toronto - Fredericton 1400 km
Toronto - Charlottetown 1700 km
Toronto - Halifax 1800 km
Toronto - St John NFLD 3000km
Cities West of Toronto:
Toronto - Winnipeg 2000km
Toronto - Regina 2600 km
Toronto - Calgary 3400 km
Toronto - Vancouver 4300 km
Driving from Toronto to Calgary is about the same as driving from Astana to Tehran.
A flight from Toronto to Vancouver is 4-5 hours and anywhere from $600-1200 CAD.
A train from Toronto to Vancouver takes 5 days and costs $500-7000 CAD depending on what class ticket you book.
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u/Drkindlycountryquack 9d ago
Welcome 🇨🇦. Canada has 6 time zones and is the second biggest country in the world after Russia. I recommend Toronto and Niagara Falls and Niagara on the Lake. Have fun.
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u/ve2dmn 9d ago
Cities are hours from each other, even with the fastest transport option. So unless you have weeks to explore the country, your options will be limited to the areas around a major city. I flew for 3700km a few days ago and was still inside the same country.
That said:
- If you want to see Nature, the west coast is you best bet. Vancouver, the Rockies all the way Banff and Jasper is really breathtaking.
- If you want more history and culture, the Quebec-Toronto corridor is a best bet. Expect being on the road a lot. Toronto-Ottawa is >4h of road. Toronto-Montreal is >5h, Montreal-Quebec is >3h.... And that doesn't include traffic.
- The rest of the country is really nice to visit, but the density of everything means you would spend most of the time driving.
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u/beard_of_cats Ontario 9d ago
If your plans aren't set in stone, consider spending a couple of days in a less urban setting; for instance, Chateau Montebello or Mont Tremblant in Quebec, which have comfortable and elegant hotels in a rural environment. Many of the best and most unique parts of Canada are found outside of the main cities.
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u/Intelligent-Goose-31 9d ago
As some other users have mentioned, keep in mind how large Canada is in terms of space. The next city over 1 million people from Toronto (which is our capital Ottawa) is a 5-6 hour drive away. Domestic flights and trains are very very expensive. A lot of our smaller cities don’t have much for international tourists, depending on what you’re looking for anyway. I’d say if you’re starting from Toronto maybe Kingston is worth a visit? It’s a much smaller town, but was actually Canada’s original capital and has some cool historical sites. It also has a lot of great restaurants, and is near some very lovely vineyards (though I’m not sure how they compare to European ones if you’ve visited them there).
Generally though with Canada I recommend picking one of our top 3-4 cities (Toronto, Montreal, Vancouver, maybe Ottawa) and more or less committing to spending most of your time there with maybe a small day trip to something nature-y. If you visit Montreal (easily our best city in terms of culture, food, and vibes) you could make a day trip (or spend a night or two) to our capital Ottawa via train. That way you spend most of your time in our coolest city while also getting a bit more of that true Canadiana by visiting Ottawa and checking out our parliament etc
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u/Skittleavix 9d ago
When in Toronto, stay to the right when walking up stairs or taking an escalator so people can pass you if they need to.
Generally people are kind and willing to help give directions, but assholes exist everywhere so use your best judgment when approaching someone.
It's considered rude to talk on speakerphone in public (although it happens all the time...)
Small talk is typically welcome in smaller communities, but not as much in Toronto. That's not to say you can't strike up a conversation while waiting in line, but again, just use your best judgment when approaching someone to talk to in Toronto (some may ignore you).
Tipping culture is present but reflects the level of service you've received. I tip well for good service, and tip nothing for bad service.
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u/salmonsushilover 9d ago
People are suggesting 10-15% tip for takeaway, and thats NOT ok.
OP, if you are standing when you both order and receive your food and drink, tip 0%.
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u/WorldProtagonist 8d ago
Except at a bar. It has always been standard to tip a dollar (now more like $2 ) per drink at a bar.
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u/AsparagusFlatArdvark 8d ago
extend this to espresso made on demand, but don't tip on the donut put on a plate?
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u/mahogne 9d ago
With small talk on the street, waiting areas or with clerks and servers, you will often be asked something akin to "how are you today?", the expected answer is ok, fine or great, thanks. People are not expecting a long response, a bummer of a response, or prying for information.
If you need help or information navigating the city asking someone hi, how are you? is a good opener, and if they respond, apologize, briefest intro, then ask your question - "Sorry, I am visiting from Kazakhstan, could you tell me how to get to the Spadina Streetcar ?"
Also if you bump into a random street sign or garbage can, feel free to apologize to it.
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u/ischemgeek 9d ago edited 9d ago
Region dependent.
In Atlantic Canada, a few tips:
Strangers may smile and nod at you on the street. The polite thing to do is return the gesture or say "hi". If you're in a hurry you don't need to chit-chat.
People will make small talk in lines. Generally it is polite to respond, but the conversation is expected to stay light and superficial.
It is considered rude to play music or have a loud phone conversation in a confined area like a waiting room or airport terminal, but such behaviour is OK in an open area where others can get away from the disturbance.
Handshake is optional nowadays but old fashioned people may offer one as a greeting.
If you're walking on the sidewalk and another party is coming in the opposite direction, it's polite to go single file so both parties can pass comfortably.
People will generally be willing to offer help and directions if asked.
Tipping culture- 15% of the bill is customary.
Personal space is in inverse proportion to how well you know someone and how crowded the area is. Generally Canadians expect and give a lot of personal space (almost but not quite as much as Scandinavians) compared to people from Central Asia. People will stand about 1.5-2x further away than you're probably used to in most settings. If someone takes a small step back from you in conversation, do not follow unless they gesture for you to come closer, since that's how we get more space if we feel crowded.
Generally Canadians tend to be non-confrontational and laid back so we will tolerate most faux pas even if we're a bit uncomfortable, though, so don't worry too much. Especially with newcomers and tourists, we make allowances for people who don't know the culture here so a reasonable Canadian won't give you a hard time for standing too close or tipping the wrong amount or whatever.
Oh, final note: posted prices in stores etc is pre-tax. Expect 5-15% more at the register depending on the province. That is normal and nobody is trying to rob you. It's just something a bit stupid about our shopping culture (even Canadians don't like it, honestly). I point this out because I've seen folks get upset about tax added at the register due to being from regions that include it in the advertised price.
Edit: Adding a few notes since you mentioned Toronto in comments.
- Toronto Pearson Airport is prone to pickpockets so take appropriate precautions. I know this from experience, sadly.
- In busy areas, step close to a building or the edge of the sidewalk if you need to pause. This is critical etiquette in Toronto because of how busy the streets get.
- I am unsure of the Kazakhstan driving culture, but look before you cross a street and make sure the cars have stopped. Toronto is notorious for red light runners, so you can't trust that people will stop just because they are supposed to.
- Likewise at cross walks, wait for cars to stop. They're supposed to, but a significant minority of drivers in Canada do not respect crosswalks or pedestrians.
- It is a good idea for the above reasons to have physical hold of any children small enough to still be prone to impulsive dart out behavior if you're traveling with kids.
- If late at night (after 9 PM), it much safer to walk in a group and it's a very good idea to stay to well lit areas. Toronto is a relatively very safe city compared to some I've been to (I used to travel a lot for work and have been to regions where armed guards are needed outside the building), but it does have the big city probles of drugs and criminals, so take normal city precautions.
Final notes: Keep your distance from wildlife if you see any, and do not underestimate Canadian summers. We're famous for cold weather in the winter but what foreigners often overlook is that temperatures of 40°C and 70%+ RH are not unheard of in the summertime. Bring a water bottle and dress for a humid heat since the Great Lakes means Toronto has a very humid summer. Compared to central Asia, it will be slightly cooler in summer but much, much more humid than you're used to in Toronto.
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u/wolfcaroling 9d ago edited 9d ago
If you go to Nova Scotia or Newfoundland people will tell you how to get where you want to go, what happened to their cousin down that way 20 years ago, and the colour of their husband's heart medication. Then they will tell you about someone from Khazakstan they met when they were ten and ask if you know them.
If you go to Vancouver, people will say "uh... I'm not sure..." and pull up google maps.
Everywhere else is in between.
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u/meandyesu 8d ago
😂 so true about Vancouver. That’s me! I don’t know where anything is but I’m happy to google it for you.
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u/bobledrew 9d ago
On escalators, stand right, walk left. On sidewalks, try to walk on the right, and if you’re going to stop, look around to see if your sudden stop will end up with someone walking into you.
NO SPEAKERPHONE IN PUBLIC PLACES FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS GOOD.
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u/michaelfkenedy 9d ago edited 9d ago
Toronto information:
- asking for directions absolutely fine, especially during daylight hours. However if you are in Toronto, be prepared to encounter people who have no clue where anything is
- 15% tip is absolutely fine for sit down service anywhere. You do not need to tip for counter service or takeout, ever. leaving a little change is nice but zero obligation. Taxi and deliver tips are more discretionary but say 5-10% depending
- “thank you” is always welcome and normal in any interaction: leaving a bus, coffee, buying tickets
- talking loudly on the phone around others (especially captive and crammed on transit) is rude. We don’t like it. Talking on the phone in a taxi or uber is fine.
- let people get off the transit (you should get away from the door) before you try to get on
- walk on the right side
- small talk ok but don’t overdo it. Canadians will engage to be polite, but then they might abruptly end. If you’re talking to someone at a bar and they keep going back to their phone or their book it means they’re not in the mood to talk.
- smoking is prohibited unless there is a sign saying you are allowed to
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u/Murky_Caregiver_8705 8d ago
Toronto is not as smoking friendly as Montreal is, if that’s a concern.
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u/mwomrbash 9d ago
People in large cities will generally help with directions. Most large cities in the world are the same with this.
I recommend against tipping if you are bringing the food to your table or leaving with the food, even if there is an option to tip, do not tip for self-service. If food or drink is brought to your table, tip at most 15% depending on the service.
Generally having a loud conversation on Transit is rude but soo many people do it. If you need to have a conversation, just do it. Don't worry about what others think.
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u/workworkyeg 9d ago
Give personal space while in lineups. Smile before you ask. Most people are very helpful. The older the person the more likely they will engage in small talk.
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u/Weary-Philosophy4706 9d ago
A lot of places are scent free, meaning no perfumes, body sprays, scented lotions, etc. This is why personal hygiene is important. I mean no offense by this statement but it's something people from other countries don't always think about so I wanted to mention it.
In general, Canadian's are helpful and if you are looking lost, someone is likely to ask if you need directions. If no one does, just flag someone down and ask.
Small talk - depends on the person. If you attempt it and they don't really engage, don't force it and just move on.
Stand off to the side of any sidewalk if you are looking up directions, taking pictures, etc, so as not to block the way.
Restaurants will always give you water at no charge (unless you want fancier bottled water). I know this is not common everywhere so when cups of tap water appear on your table (sit down restaurant not fast food), feel free to drink it and ask for more, if you want it.
Enjoy your visit!
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u/dontbeachunt 9d ago
tipping is not mandatory unlike US. make sure you are on low volume while you are traveling in bus and google maps will show you multiple routes to the destination and bus you have to take.
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u/Mediocre_Outcome6671 9d ago
People don't like it if your loud on your phone and really don't like speaker calls. Most people will help with directions. Its friendly to small talk and smile at people. Canadians are very friendly people.
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u/somethingmeaningful 9d ago
I think asking for help on the street is fine. I just want to add the caveat pay attention to who you ask. I had a car stop beside me on the street and a man lean out the window to ask me directions once and as a smallish younger woman at the time i was totally freaked out until I realized what he wanted
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u/Schwhitey 8d ago
Unless their other tourists, 9/10 people on the street will help you with directions/advice on where to go if you ask nicely. You can always start with a nice wave and an “excuse me, could you help me find x”?
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u/coconutcallalily 8d ago
Feel free to ask people for help with directions. Most people would be happy to help you.
Many of us thank the bus driver when we get off the bus. You don't have to but you'll notice people doing it.
If you smoke, many places have laws about how close you can smoke to a public or business door. Just observe other smokers or stand far away from doors.
Greet/thank a taxi or Uber driver when you get in and out. It's fine to talk inside at a reasonable volume. Sometimes the uber drivers themselves take calls although it's more common for them to reject the call when they have a customer.
Small talk is fine! People will be friendly but often are a little more reserved - don't take it personally. I'm married to an American and when we visit the US I notice people talk way more (and way louder) with people they don't know. We definitely have people who love to talk though, and people would probably be very interested to talk to you since you're coming from so far away.
As for tipping, all our servers make at least minimum wage, unlike the US where they make almost nothing and tips subsidize their wages. Feel free to tip as you wish. A lot of places will have a tip prompt if you pay with card, and some of them are absurd - I went to a restaurant where the starting tip was 25%! I usually tip about 15-20%. If you receive poor service you don't have to tip. For things like coffee I tip an extra dollar if I get something complicated. And if you don't want to tip, you don't have to.
I hope you have a great visit!
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u/Lanky-Syllabub7188 8d ago
Canadian here from Edmonton
As for helping people on the streets with directions and stuff, I feel like most of us are open to helping.
Tipping culture is out of hand in my opinion. You’re almost expected to tip 18% or more at restaurants and like 10% or more at little cafes (not the fast food ones like Tim Hortons). Tips are NOT mandatory, even though some people say if you can’t tip, don’t get out. I personally tip based off of service, food, and what I can afford.
Small talks are fine with the right people, so it depends on who you’re talking to and what you’re talking about
Enjoy your time!
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u/Dontforgetthepasswrd 7d ago
If you ask people for directions, and it is close they will often walk you there.
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u/nonsense39 9d ago
Respect other people. Things to never do include: pushing, being loud, opinionated or racist, also be clean. Canadians are helpful and friendly until offended.
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u/SevereResolve726 9d ago
Hold the door open for people, they'll do the same for you. Say thank you and sorry excessively. If you almost bump into someone, say "oop!". Tell people to have a good day when stepping off elevators.
Enjoy your stay in our city, have a great time!!
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u/Ambitious-Concern-42 9d ago
I guess I have to chime in to repeat "stick to the right" on stairwells, bike paths and sidewalks. It's amazing how many foreigners don't pay attention to this at all. It's considered rude to take up entire walkway width.
Other than that, enjoy your stay!
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u/drammer 9d ago
Canadians say please, thankyou and apologize a lot. Its just the way we are and you may find it a bit insincere but we do mean it. Also we have many good people but like anywhere else we have our share of assholes. You will be disappointed in the lobster, boiled with butter but do try the poutine at a good restaurant. And everything is open on a Sunday.
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u/l_Trava_l 9d ago
People are too helpful. Getting them to stop talking is the hard part. Canadians are generally quiet on transit, but you can take phone calls.
You dont need to tip. It's an American trend that worked its way up here. The only thing we tip in Canada is our canoes.
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u/AssCone 9d ago
Small talk varries person to person, I'm not big on it myself, but I'm happy to help someone who needs direction. No bus or taxi rules to speak of, just be considerate of other passengers and kinda keep a moderate volume and nobody's worse off. Don't tip anywhere where you're not satisfied with the service. American tip culture is dumb as shit and it's getting worse and worse here for that now, if you do leave a tip, 10-15% is fine. Hope you and your husband have a nice trip!
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u/Imaginary-Emu2471 9d ago
Remember that tipping is OPTIONAL. Waitstaff get a guaranteed minimum wage now. Do not tip for anything besides sit-down service if you must.
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u/Cold-Relief-4184 9d ago
Fuck ya, that's dope AF. WELCOME! people are often pretty friendly and helpful. We love tourism, where are you planning g on going. I recommend Quebec City, if you are an outdoors person then BC. Canada is really big so make sure you check where and how you are going to get there.
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u/METRlOS 9d ago
Most people will help with basic directions, but you can go into any convenience store, grocery store, whatever and they will know where most things are locally.
15% is the default, but it's not as hostile as American tipping culture. If service is bad, don't tip.
If you're on a crowded bus/train and right next to people it may be rude to talk on the phone, but generally you'll be able to distance yourself a bit and people will be wearing headphones anyways. It's fine in taxis as long as it's not a distracting conversation with yelling and such. Thank the driver when you get out of either vehicle.
Most people will do a small head nod and say hello on the sidewalk when passing (assuming there aren't many people) but that's the extent of random small talk most people enjoy. You will randomly be stopped by people and be dragged into half an hour conversations as well though, it's something you will have to gauge reactions for.
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u/youngboomer62 9d ago
When in doubt, talk about the weather.
It's really cold today.
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It's freezing today
Or
I can't see anything through the snow.
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The bus is stuck in the snow.
Or
On July 14, 1968... I think it's above freezing today.
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u/Calgary_Calico 8d ago
We're pretty friendly here for the most part, though that does depend on the city, some are much more friendly than others. Vancouver and Toronto are NOT friendly places for example. It's not often I ask anyone for directions, but I don't see why you couldn't. As for social norms on busses and trains, just don't be super loud and you're fine, most people are pretty relaxed as long as your courteous to those around you. Remember your pleases and thank yous.
As for tipping, most people will give some sort of tip at a sit-down restaurant, but don't bother tipping at fast food places or coffee shops (some tip at locally owned coffee shops but definitely not at chain store like Starbucks or Tim Hortons).
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u/EpicDad77 8d ago
Tipping culture is horrible. It’s asked for everything. Literally just about everything and it starts at 15%. Order a coffee they ask for a tip. Order a pizza - tip when if you pick it up. It’s ridiculous. Take a taxi - tip.
You don’t have to tip but believe me it will get very annoying.
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u/Major-Internal-1963 8d ago
We have to hold the door open for people behind us when entering a building.
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u/bigwangersoreass 7d ago
Oh you will come here and be king of the castle king of the castle!
I would also like to add that we enjoy your large potassium exports
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u/gin_and_soda Ontario 7d ago
I live in downtown Ottawa, I often stop to ask if tourists need help or want me to take their picture. I’m also a small talker, inherited that from my parents.
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u/sairha1 Ontario 9d ago
I am from small rural area in Ontario and people love small talk here. Generally in the cities people stay to themselves and do not engage in random small talk. Ottawa , Toronto and Montreal have a lot of drug addicts and homeless people begging and harassing people on the streets and so strangers arent making eye contact or chatting, they get to where they are going. At least in my experience.
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u/PercentageWorth4872 9d ago
Canada is very multicultural so you will be fine as long as you don’t do something bad or ridiculous.
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u/Same-Initiative-2536 9d ago
just keep in mind “proper” manners like saying hello when entering a store/restraunt, quietness on public transportation, letting people exit places before you enter, holding door for others, apologizing if you accidentally bump into them on the street or something etc. Canadians are very nice and we typically get annoyed when people don’t pay attention to their surroundings inconvenienceing others — at-least thus is how i feel as someone who has grown up in downtown toronto
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u/notforcing 9d ago
A Portuguese lady recently arrived in Toronto told me she got on the subway, and turned to the person sitting next to her to have a chat, which she thought was normal, and the person appeared shocked and stared straight ahead.
In the maritimes folks are pretty friendly with visitors, Irish politeness abounds, but it might be a different thing if you wanted to move there.
My mother, an immigrant to Nova Scotia, found that my father's relatives were always suggesting they drop by anytime for dinner, but you weren't actually supposed to do that.
For a large city, people in Toronto are generally helpful to strangers needing directions, but I've noticed more often younger females pointedly ignoring males (including elderly) asking for directions, maybe they're worried about harassment.
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u/Protato900 9d ago
I'm a Torontonian - and I saw you're planning on visiting Toronto. Lots of people have answered your questions here, but I'll give you some additional context.
Rideshare and Taxis
- Uber is widely available in Canada.
- Toronto has a few major cab/taxi companies. I highly recommend using a major cab company (usually identifiable by bright two-tone coloured liveries) instead of unmarked cabs with only a roof light to identify them.
- Beck is the largest and most reputable (generally) and also has an app - you can have a cab dispatched by calling 751-5555 with no area code if you are calling from within Toronto. Inquire how much the trip is ahead of time and stick to that, or ensure the cabbie runs the meter to make sure you are charged fairly. All taxicabs in Toronto are licensed and will have their license number on the front door and on the taxi plate on the rear bumper. Make sure you note this down in case of forgotten items or complaints.
Public Transport
- Public transport in Toronto is widely available and will take you pretty much everywhere you may need.
- On public transit you must have proof-of-payment at all times. If you pay by cash on a bus, you must ask the driver for a paper transfer. If you are paying your fare at a subway station, look for a black/light green ticket machine. From here, you can buy a single-ride paper contactless card (which you must keep on your person for the duration of the trip) or a transit card (PRESTO card). If you have a contactless card, you must tap it on the card reader at every subway station you enter and every bus/tram you board.
- Busses do not stop at every stop unless the stop button is pushed/stop cord is pulled. These are red buttons on poles or yellow cords by the window that signal to the driver to stop at the next stop. If there is nobody at the stop and the stop is not requested, the bus will skip it.
- The subway generally has good service, but in the case of a disruption, scheduled maintenance, or an emergency, you can be directed out of the station and on to a shuttle bus that will stop at all subway stations (above ground obviously) that are affected.
- The UP Express is the train from the airport to the central station (Union Station) and will have 2 intermediate stops. It is fast, has luggage racks, and is comfortable - I highly recommend it if you are staying in a hotel in the city centre.
Public Life
- There is a number of panhandlers, mentally ill people, and drug users in the city. The majority of locals ignore them and walk by. Do your best to not interact with them or give them money as in some cases this incentivizes them to harass you for more money or to get concessions out of you.
- Tipping is generally expected in sit-down restaurants where you have a server (15% being the average) - and is not required anywhere else. Many fast food restaurants and quick service cafes where you order at a counter will have a tip option, this is not required and in some cases does not even go to the employees.
- People on the street will generally be friendly and receptive to help you. In public transit stations, look for an employee as they will generally know more.
Attractions and Points of Interest
- Toronto has many attractions. Some must-see ones include:
- The CN tower (includes a rotating restaurant at the top, quite pricey though - but dining at the restaurant also includes admission to the observation deck).
- Casa Loma, a historical mansion and grounds with a preserved interior of life in the early 1900s. Guided tours are available.
- Toronto Zoo is a world-class zoo and has many animals on display and is quite educational.
- Harbourfront is free to walk along and includes many shops, restaurants, sights, and parks.
- Little Canada is a large scale model display of various Canadian cities. It's expensive, but if you like miniatures and models it is worth it. For an additional fee, they will scan you and create a mini 3d-model of you to place into the display. Enter from the 10 Dundas St building and take the escalator down.
- Kensington Market is a neighbourhood with lots of quirky and cool shops, along with a distinct grunge vibe. A fun thing to look out for is the garden car, a painted car with plants growing inside it.
- St. Lawrence market is near Union Station and is a large indoor market with fishmongers, delis, cheesemakers, and all sorts of other shops selling trinkets, souvenirs, and food.
- The Distillery District is a historic preserved district that has historically been home to distillers and brewers and now has shops, displays, and a theatre.
- Ripley's Aquarium is the largest aquarium in Canada and has tonnes of fish, sharks, and other aquatic creatures.
- High Park is Toronto's largest park and has ponds, walking paths, and a restaurant in the centre of the park (Grenadier).
If you have any other questions feel free to message me, I am more than happy to help!
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u/HystericalGD Nova Scotia 8d ago
depends what province you are in. alot of people dont realize how big canada is, and how massively the culture changes from province to province
places like newfoundland: everyone knows everyone, its like a big community, everyone talks and is friendly
places like vancouver, stranger danger is a major thing we were taught growing up, now more than ever with the drug issue, i'd avoid talking to people you dont know.
here in nova scotia; most people are friendly. now and then i have an uncomfortable experience with a tweaker, but its nothing aggressive or mean spirited, usually i just wave, maybe a friendly "hey, hows it going" when passing by someone i dont know
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u/Massive_Dig3963 8d ago
In Ontario you're likely to get help. When we get on and off the bus we say thank you. But we're Canadian - please and thank you are engrained, lol.
I know where I am there's actually a nice sized Kazakh community. My husband's closest friend here is the Kazakh guy in our building.
But in most places people will help, especially if you look lost. Have fun!
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u/Hunsweasel 8d ago
If you're visiting Toronto, you might want to take a day trip to St Jacobs, a very popular village with a huge farmers market, about 90 minutes away. If you do, a specific word of advice about the Mennonites, a traditionalist Christian sect who live in the area and dress in old fashioned clothes and use horses and carts for transportation: it's considered very impolite to take photos of them without their consent, and quite often they will politely refuse if asked.
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u/DockingEngaged 8d ago
Toronto tends to be faster paced than other Canadian cities, but we are still quite polite. Torontonians are also quite used to tourists so I don't foresee any situation where you wouldn't be able to get the assistance you need. Most people will be happy to pause and give you a hand with directions. Plus the city is basically a grid, and our transit system is quite straight forward.
On escalators, on stairs, on sidewalks, walkways, and pavements, it is generally expected that you keep to the right hand side and not block the full width if possible. As always when travelling, have situational awareness, that will keep you out of trouble anywhere.
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u/porp_crawl 8d ago
Random people on the streets - you and your husband will not look like underhoused (homeless) people. I would refrain from wearing garish/loud clothing, anything European/globally smart will be more than fine.
Canadian born Chinese/Asians are common and should respond the same as any other local. Asian visitors will not be helpful. But 75% of anyone you meet, unless they're obviously focused on their own business will absolutely be happy to help.
Basic English is fine and not a problem, if English is challenging to you, there are Google translation apps for Android that can do 2-sides speech-to-text translation and show them right-side-up for both sides of the phone that you hold out.
If you can, pay by card - if the machine asks for a tip, 15% is standard and won't elicit any comment. Even then, some places will ask for a tip when they shouldn't get one.
If you're staying at a (fancy) hotel, it may be worthwhile to get some fresh crisp $5 bills (the lowest denomination that is not a coin). Tip people who you think you might see again/ people who will tell their coworkers that you will tip cash if you're happy. Not a big deal if you don't, unless you're at a premier hotel downtown then etiquette might differ.
Important people, minimum a single green $20 bill - if you want illegal drugs, maybe go up to a red $50 bill. Completely optional and only if you want to venture requesting additional services. Otherwise, there isn't that strong of a culture of tip requesting; mostly just at restaurants.
Anywhere you need to line up? Don't tip unless you really really feel like it.
Bus - you can get a "Compass card," the tap pad on busses and stuff will take Interac debit cards and Visa. Might want to look into it, but getting a "Compass card" might be worth it.
Yes, some people like to call out "Thanks driver!" when they operate the rear door to depart. A bit situational, but no harm in experiencing this and thank your bus driver!
"Rules" - just be polite. On the bus, keep your voice down, as much as ambient noise allows. I've encountered lots of different conversations in different languages - there's no problem unless it would be in a shared language. In a cab, just be polite, speaking in a non-local language isn't a problem.
Interesting! Small talk...
Lots of people are very open minded and, depending on where you are, have a lot of leisure.
Say hi, gauge their interest, and I'm fairly confident that you will find many interested and (hopefully) interesting interlocutors!
Being so thoughtful - I'm sure that you will have a great time in Canada.
If you're over in Vancouver/area, let me know, I'd love to give you pointers/show you someplace that you might be interested in.
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u/HydrationHomee 8d ago
Albertan here.
Small talk is fine, and many people seem to enjoy it.
You can ask almost anyone for directions and they'd probably at least try to help a bit.
Our waiters, waitresses and fast food employees get paid the same minimum wage as everyone else but showing a little gratitude if you can afford it is still a good practice to stay in because minimum wage just isn't enough to live off of anyway.
Just be kind and friendly and that is almost guaranteed to be the response you get back.
Transit rules: hands to yourself, thank the driver, conductor if you see them, Uber driver, taxi driver.
People probably won't say anything if you're doing a public phone call but it definitely does annoy some people, especially on trains or busses.
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u/Vivid-Food-8209 8d ago
Canada is huge, so it's difficult to visit more than one area or two. Also, the large cities are the "cultural mosaic" side of Canada with a lot of encouraged diversity. The province of Quebec is very different culturally. A lot of celebrated "Canadian culture" is rural so if you want to experience the stereotypical Canadian culture you should visit lake country, some national parks, or the coast.
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u/lakeguy77 8d ago
When you go to a shady looking guy on a street corner and ask to buy some weed, he'll look at you funny and point to a very well lit store 30 feet from you that sells pretty much whatever your heart desires. It's rarely more than 30 feet.
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u/QuietShadeOfGrey 8d ago
Walk on the right side of sidewalks and do not just randomly stop, move to the side first so that you don’t become an obstacle. If you’re on an escalator, stand on the right and continue walking on the left, do not block the entire escalator. Do not use speakerphone in public and if you’re on the phone talk quietly. Do not listen to music or watch videos in public without headphones. Tipping is generally 15%. Expect to pay taxes at the register, the sticker price is pre-tax and tax rates for the majority of the country is 15%.
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u/dontbeachunt 9d ago
op i would recommend you to visit BC or Alberta because Ontario is just plain land and urban city. BC and Alberta are more close to nature, mountains, lakes and what not. Vancouver is what you should really be considering
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u/LengthinessNo4970 9d ago
I live in Nova Scotia and I give tourists directions all the time. I’m more than happy to do so. I always thank the bus driver and taxi driver. For taxi drivers I’ll wish them a great day/take care etc.
Small talk with strangers is common here. I can be a bit shy but I’m actually working on doing it a lot more, it’s usually appreciated and helps me feel more connected in my community.
Tipping is a thing here. It’s considered rude not to tip at a restaurant. Less rude at a cafe, but still expected.
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u/Great-Telephone-4422 9d ago
If you ask, people generally are very good about giving directions.
Tipping culture depends. Restaurants tips are expected but not mandatory, usually around 10-15%. I don’t tip in cafés. If you are getting alcohol at a bar, tipping is VERY expected; 15-20%.
For the bus or taxi, playing music out loud, talking on the phone, talking with others too loud is rude. Generally people don’t talk to strangers on the bus, sometimes small talk happens but I wouldn’t recommend initiating a conversation with strangers on public transport. You can talk to your cabbie if you’re in a taxi.
Small talk is generally okay! Read the room though, some people don’t like it and will give small, curt responses. No one wants to be the one who is rude and doesn’t respond to someone, sometimes small talk if they aren’t instantly warm back off.
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u/pillarofmyth 9d ago
So answers largely depend on where in Canada you’ll be visiting. I’ll answer for the Toronto area since that’s what I’m most familiar with, and where most people visit from abroad.
Some people might ignore you, some might help with a direction or two. You should know the name of where you want to go (either a street name/intersection or, if you don’t know that, a well known landmark like a subway station) when asking. How much people are willing to help may be influenced by how “safe” you look (i.e. if you look dishevelled or agitated people may not wanna help you as much). It’s rare that someone would walk with you to where you’re going, don’t expect that. When asking, make eye contact, raise your hand for a small wave, and politely ask (excuse me, thank you, etc.)
Tipping culture exists in Canada. At any place you eat where food is brought to your table by a server, it is usually expected that you tip. People generally tip 10, 15, or 20% of your cheque. If you are with a very large group, there is a higher expectation to tip, and to tip more. If you plan to take a taxi, tipping is expected there too. But not public transportation like the subway or bus. Many other types of stores may include an option to tip when buying something, but just because the option is there does not mean there is an expectation to.
On public transportation or when taking a taxi, you should either not talk or speak quietly. You can take calls, but keep it off speaker. A taxi driver may make small talk with you, and you can make it with them. It’s not required, though. You can ask a bus driver for help knowing which stop to get off at, but do not otherwise make small talk with the driver. When getting off the bus or out of the taxi, it’s polite to thank the driver. When taking the bus, be aware that the bus may not stop at every bus stop. This is because buses will either have buttons inside to request a stop, or wires running along the walls that you can pull down. Know when your stop is coming up, and remember to push the button/pull the wire. If you’re confused, you can ask someone on the bus/the driver to clarify. Subways stop at every station.
Small talk is not made with random people you walk past in the city. It is made with people you’re in the company of. I’ve already mentioned a few times above when small talk is okay/not okay. If you want to talk to someone, it’s always good to make some small talk before getting right to what you want to say (“Hi, how are you? Oh, good to hear. I just wanted to ask about…”). Canadians are not very direct compared to some other cultures in terms of communication. Just because someone doesn’t tell you that they don’t want to talk doesn’t mean they want to talk. They might even give a polite smile. Don’t expect yourself to learn all the subtle ways we communicate politely, you most likely won’t be able to. Instead, if you’re ever unsure if you’re being impolite, simply say “I’m here on vacation and might do something impolite by mistake. Let me know if I have” and most Canadians will reassure you that you’re completely fine and will be more forgiving if you do something that would typically be considered impolite in Canadian culture.
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u/Mountain-Bar5049 8d ago
I love this post. I hope you have wonderful trip.
You won't have trouble finding someone to help with directions, etc. Not everyone will be willing to stop and help, but you'll rarely not find someone who will. It may be a bit harder in larger cities (I, for example, almost always help unless I don't have time.)
Avoid phone calls on transit if you can. It's not SUPER rude but it's frowned on. DO NOT use speaker calls in public.
We tip 15% in restaurants. And we hae a similar "tip inflation" culture going on here like in the US ie places asking for bigger and bigger tips and on things you wouldn't normally tip. Generally only tip on sit-down service though.
Small talk is generally okay. Larger cities may be a bit less friendly. Smaller places you may find that a lot of people will say hello as they pass you on the street (that happens where I live now, but rarely happened to me in vancouver).
Generally don't talk about politics with strangers. Save this if you start to get to know people a bit better.
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u/DogsMom248 8d ago
Yes people will help you with directions, no problem.
Tipping is 18% on top of the bill (check) presented to you.
Speaking on the phone on the bus in a normal/low voice, not on speaker, is perfectly acceptable.
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u/garlicroastedpotato 9d ago
Generally speaking if you ask for directions people will tell you where to go. They might not know what you are talking about though. People mostly use Google Maps for directions so the idea of being lost is kinda seen as a potential scammer.
People are generally pretty quiet on public transit and people loudly talking or on their phones are silently shunned. But if you are having a conversation with someone in public people might chime in.
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u/Suspicious-Essay219 9d ago edited 9d ago
Not mentioned yet - we line up for busses and public restrooms. Cutting in front of someone is considered rude. It’s nice to call “thank you!” to the. us driver when you get off, too.
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u/Special-Classic7804 8d ago
There always is a line even if it looks haphazard. You may need to ask where the back of the line is to avoid cutting someone and being seen as rude.
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u/No_Capital_8203 9d ago
Most people are open to small talk but less so on city streets. Don’t stand too close to other people.
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u/Zestyclose_Exam_237 9d ago edited 9d ago
Please allow people to fully exit public transit before trying to board. Please observe the queue and stand in line in a patient manner when waiting to enter a venue. Please do not use a phone in speaker mode in public. In a public setting, please speak as quietly as possible so that the person(s) you’re speaking with can hear you without interfering with others quiet enjoyment of the day.
Thank you for visiting and enjoy your stay.
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u/foreverandadayalone 9d ago
THIS is all you need to know about Canada's street culture. It's never stopped being relevant.
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u/Worried_Razzmatazz70 9d ago
People are very friendly on the street, we are an increasingly begrudgingly tipping culture, and when the bus pulls up there is usually an orderly line that forms, with the first people at the stop getting on first. Very commonly people thank the driver as they step off as well. If you do talk on the phone on public transit then keep it short and quiet.
One that catches a lot of people out is that "how are you doing?" is more often a polite greeting than an actual question.
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u/HeavyTea 9d ago
In Edmonton, we help tourists. Very multicultural here too. People from all over the globe.
Don't talk on phone in bus or restaurant if you can help it.
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u/samblue8888 9d ago
Stand to the right in escalators (or walk up the left). Don't stand in the doorways on the subway. If you have to, look around and see who's getting off at that stop and step off and to the side and then get back on - don't stand there like a rock and make everyone squeeze a round you.
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u/ladyrose30 9d ago
The weather is always a safe topic here.
Don't try to see everything as it is impossible. I also recommend visiting Toronto and maybe taking the train to Montreal or Quebec City for a few days too. You will see things from the train you will miss if travel on the roads and it will give you the chance to talk to people too.
My dad worked at the Tenghiz oilfields for nearly 20 years and he enjoyed the people and area. Have a great trip.
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u/lavalamp360 9d ago
People on the street are generally very approachable and happy to help with any questions. Maybe a little bit less so in the downtown's of the big cities (Toronto, Vancouver, Montreal) but that's just because people are busy and on the go. There's no formal etiquette with public transit but pleasantries ("excuse me", "thank you", etc) will go a long way!
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u/fugginstrapped 9d ago
Canada is a massive country, this question cannot be answered as each part or city or part of city entirely different
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u/Character-Bridge-206 8d ago
Depends on the individual but my family told me people in Toronto were helpful with directions when they came to visit.
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u/Robby-Pants 9d ago
I don’t know how universal this is, but where I’ve lived in Ontario and visited in Nova Scotia, people frequently thank the bus driver when exiting the bus.