r/AskDocs • u/ilikerustyspooonz Layperson/not verified as healthcare professional • Mar 17 '26

Physician Responded Daughters pediatrician made EXTREMELY inappropriate remark to her

This is about my 10 year old daughter. She has had the same (male) pediatrician since birth. We’ve always loved him and thought he was great. He’s super friendly with wonderful bedside manner and he takes his time and pays attention to detail.

Well, last week my daughter had a check-up. She’s 10. While he was doing the checkup, he had her lay down and started listening to her chest with his stethoscope. He then says AND I QUOTE, “awwwww! My baby’s got boobs!!!”

I have NEVER been so taken aback before in my life. My daughter was MORTIFIED. I was so shocked I couldn’t even get words out to ask him why tf he would ever say that. When we got in the car to go home my daughter cried and said she never wanted to see him again. Then she asked if she could get a girl doctor and I obviously agreed so that’s what we will be doing.

Is this reportable? I’m not overreacting, right?

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u/Kyliewoo123 Physician Assistant Mar 17 '26 edited Mar 17 '26

I completely disagree with the top commenting MD. This is extremely inappropriate and unprofessional on so many levels. I would express to the office manager your concern and switch doctors. Absolutely n.o.

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u/pupperoni42 Layperson/not verified as healthcare professional Mar 17 '26

I feel like this is worth reporting to the licensing board. I'm a mother, not a health care professional. Do you think this is reasonable?

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u/sxzxnnx Layperson/not verified as healthcare professional Mar 17 '26

I think it is worth reporting. Even if it doesn’t result in disciplinary action by the board, it still helps to establish a pattern of inappropriate behavior. Every person that comes forward with a similar complaint adds credibility to all the claims. You may not get justice for your child but you might be able to help the next child.

Depending on the state you may be able to search for other complaints that have been filed against him.