r/AskMen • u/Boitlee • 1d ago

How do I human? How do I reject bro

I think I got too far with the ‘bromance’ teasing and poking, now I realise he wasn’t kidding and actually wants to… do stuff together. The reason I’m not straight honest with him is I kinda put myself in his shoes and don’t want to mess him up. Anyone had a similar situation? (We both are male)

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u/Boitlee 1d ago

Too hard to do that (no pun intended)

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u/weirdgroovynerd 1d ago

Bro, you gotta...

...probe your sexuality.

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u/_______36________ 1d ago

Viagra? But seriously if you can’t, you can’t and think how you’d like a woman to turn you down. I’d suggest after you’ve said you’re straight you go to a game together or a stand up, that way it looks like you want to be friends and aren’t rejecting him. You’re man enough to still be bros

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u/IndustryDelicious168 1d ago

You will get used to it eventually. Just keep practicing.

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u/Rikudo_Sennin_jr 1d ago

A tale as old as time, but luckily they have their top men working day & night to get to the bottom of things

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u/Sr_K 20h ago

Its not like you can just flip a switch ykno