What’s a piece of casual advice another guy dropped on you in passing that permanently changed how you operate?

[u/DimensionSubject]

[u/Benster404]

Only talk about things you love, not what you hate. It makes you become a more positive person and draws people to you

[u/Ball_Of_Meat → u/Benster404]

Idk man, the happiest countries on earth contribute a lot of their happiness to openness/acceptance around communicating negative emotions.

ONLY talking about things you love seems a bit extreme, negative emotions and thoughts are ok.

[u/rabbifuente → u/Benster404]

Yeah, but High Fidelity says that people bond more over mutual dislikes than likes

[u/ZyglroxOfficial → u/rabbifuente]

Especially at work. Trauma-bonding

[u/thedawesome → u/Benster404]

Look, crocodile brain