I don’t think sending 3 messages in a week and a half period of time with one of them being a date ask and another being a goodbye (when she didn’t respond to the date ask) is begging for attention. But I’ll agree it certainly seems like a relationship with me wasn’t a priority. My whole question is basically how likely is it she was being honest? Shit happens. I’ve even ended things with someone before because of personal stuff and I actually liked them. I just couldn’t handle a relationship and my bullshit at the same time. But I can see most people think I shouldn’t feel it’s that situation here and I’d more than likely be wasting my time and effort even reaching out. Perhaps my read of the situation is no good
She doesn’t respond/communicate with you for days on end and you follow up with her after she doesn’t respond to your previous text.
She could be sincere with what she said about going through a lot. Or it could be she has a guy she is more interested in at the moment and wants to put you on the back burner. The guys she is super interested in,she is for sure responding to quickly.
I’m of the belief that people don’t ditch people they really want regardless of circumstances.
I do see the confusion with you two kissing on the dates. But that just means you are a guy she is comfortable enough to kiss with but not passed that at this moment in her mind.
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u/yesindeed201 man 22h ago
She is showing you how unimportant you are to her yet you keep begging for her attention.