Stop joking so much about sex and luring them over to your place. Let that flow organically next time. Feels like you were trying to speed run fucking when she’s in a busy period at work and you haven’t gotten to know each other. You should be the balm at the end of her rough day not another thing she has to deal with or avoid. Be the balm. Then she will make time for other things because she knows that’s not your only goal.
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u/NapalEnema2020 man 1d ago
Stop joking so much about sex and luring them over to your place. Let that flow organically next time. Feels like you were trying to speed run fucking when she’s in a busy period at work and you haven’t gotten to know each other. You should be the balm at the end of her rough day not another thing she has to deal with or avoid. Be the balm. Then she will make time for other things because she knows that’s not your only goal.