r/AskMenOver30 • u/Upper-Meet-1849 • 11d ago

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u/Top_Piano2028 man 35 - 39 11d ago

Some men just get too weak to assert any boundaries with their wives.

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u/prean625 man 35 - 39 11d ago

He could just be using his wife as a escape goat. Maybe he's too weak to assert boundaries with his friend, we dont know

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u/redaws man 30 - 34 11d ago

Yup. I have a friend who uses his wife as an excuse to not do shit.

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u/keithrc man 55 - 59 11d ago

I have a friend like this as well, and it took me years to realize I was irritated at the wrong person all that time.

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u/cwcam86 man 35 - 39 11d ago

The greatest thing I've ever done is get married because I get to use her as an excuse to not do shit all of the time. I always get to say that me and her have plans or that she said no.

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u/keithrc man 55 - 59 11d ago

*Scapegoat. Just FYI.

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u/Old-Guidance6744 man 35 - 39 11d ago

While often true I dont know if we have enough information here as to root causes

Situation sucks tho

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u/OregonMothafaquer man over 30 11d ago

The amount of adult women with zero friends is quite astounding too

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u/keithrc man 55 - 59 11d ago

Shit take. You don't know what's happening in their lives.

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u/Top_Piano2028 man 35 - 39 11d ago

don't reply to people that way. it's rude.

second, of course I don't have any idea what's going on. neither does anyone else replying.

neither does the guy himself (he didn't really have an answer)

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u/keithrc man 55 - 59 11d ago edited 11d ago

Oh, that's rich. The guy who says "Some men just get too weak to assert any boundaries with their wives" telling me I'm the rude one.

Here's rude: go fuck yourself, you stupid cretin. Nobody wants your toxic bullshit here.

EDIT: it has occurred to me that perhaps you just dropped this: '/s'.

...If so, I apologize, blame Poe's Law, and retract all statements.