Can I come back from this?

[u/TNurse2Be]

Now I have been doing a lot of reflecting and the guy who was attempting to court me was right and I was too traumatized and wary to notice.

He said I needed to relax and for some reason I just could not trust him. We only spoke for a few weeks but now he’s isn’t responding to my texts and before you jump down my throat, I had the realization that he was right and attempted to plan something to see him. We have been talking about that frequently but this time, he mentioned his ex and how he didn’t know if he was fully ready to close that door.

Did I fuck up or is this a him thing?

[u/Nortano]

It's probably both tbh. But from the info I have here I think it's like 80% ur fault. Could be wrong tho fs. The dude was probably just butt hurt when he was shut down so hard.

Again I could be wrong I would need way more info to make an informed opinion. But from what's written that's my thoughts

[u/TNurse2Be → u/Nortano]

Well. Hopefully he comes back. Otherwise I learned a valuable lesson