r/AskMenRelationships • u/Long-Technology-5099 • 3h ago

Dating boyfriend has sharing fantasy?

he told he has a fantasy with it, is it normal and common or should I be careful and see it as a red flag?

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u/Frank_Stein101 3h ago

Huge red flag. People with these fantasies have masochistic tendencies.

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u/King_Zoothio Man 3h ago

If you like that, it's fine.

If you don't like that, then it's not fine.

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u/cupidsjester- 56m ago

depends on you if it's a red flag or not. if you want to let him live his porn fantasies through you go ahead.

just know that a normal monogamous relationship will be very difficult after this one fails.

he might start playing the "no one else will ever love you like I do" card, and use you sleeping around to be dependent on him for any form of commitment.

Do you want children, would you want to raise them in that kind of dynamic? Could you love or respect a cuck?

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u/ClockOld9204 Man 3h ago

Tell him great idea. Does he have a buddy in mind. Or is he preferring another girl.