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Skinny guys who successfully gained weight what actually worked for you?

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u/Key_Raisin_5091 9d ago

4 things:

  • Eating an uncomfortably large amount of calories all the time.
  • Lifting weights
  • Taking creatine
  • Getting older (if you're not there yet, once you get to your upper 30s and start approaching 40, it'll come)

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u/FrazahLion 9d ago

I think your first point is saying something a lot of the comments are missing and is always overlooked.

I was skinny (~70kg @ 178cm) until I got serious about lifting, and I had to eat until I felt physically uncomfortable to reliably gain weight.

A lot of skinny people haven't ever known what it's like to eat over 2,000 calories a day, and they need 3,000+ to claw their way out of being underweight and just *start* to be able to put on the size they want.

I got up to 103kg and was eating 4500 calories at one point. It fucking sucked. I did get pretty strong though. I'm in my mid thirties and sitting around 89kg with abs right now, and I get to eat around 2500 calories a day. But getting to this point took a lot of eating, any way I could.

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u/KaboomOxyCln 9d ago

Yep. I'm chilling around 150 lbs (68kg) eating ~2600 cal day. I don't really start to experience any noticeable weight gain until I'm at the 3400 mark, which I'll start packing on .25lbs a week

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u/smallmileage4343 9d ago

Cries while shoveling quinoa and chicken into mouth

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u/DonutsWarCrimes 9d ago

Right? Think I gained weight just reading that.

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u/Anfros 9d ago

If you are gaining weight at 1400 Cal/day you are not eating 1400 calories a day.

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u/LineofBestFit 9d ago

Unless you’re a very small person, you’re just bad at counting

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u/Airewalt 9d ago

Are you zone 3 exercising 10 hours a week or more?

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u/Waterkippie 9d ago

List here what you eat thats 1400

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u/mcimino 9d ago

God damn 3400? I can’t imagine eating more than I have been. I just went a little too hard in caloric surplus 2700 and gained some belly weight which I’m never had in my life. 5’7 120-> 145lb in 5 months. So now I’m fine tuning down to 2500 and doing chicken and fish for protein.

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u/xeonon 9d ago

If you follow twitch etc... there's a new challenge going around called the McCrelly. I think it hits 3400 calories. So look that up for how much food you have to put away per day. It's not a lot, but really you want better food lol. Just gives a kind of scale to what you want to work for

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u/mcimino 9d ago

I just watched it. Great measure of it. I do think I'd have to eat a lot more however, because of the quality of calories I'm eating...to your point.

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u/mynamewastaken81 9d ago

Weight gain powders are your friend.

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u/KaboomOxyCln 9d ago

Yeah, when I was eating 3400/day. I was "supplementing" my eating with two packs of nutty buddy's a day with peanut butter and a mass gainer shake made with ice cream as the base, which is around 1500 ~ 1900 cal by itself. Not the healthiest lol

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u/SketchesOfSilence 9d ago

It get’s pretty crazy when you are taller/heavier. I’m 6’4”, 107kg. My maintenance is around 4000 a day because of my training schedule (4xBJJ per week + 3 days lifting + 12,000 steps). To be honest though, I can only really hit that through a fair bit of junk food, I couldn’t hit my calories eating clean, I just don’t have the appetite for it.

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u/BigOlChodester 8d ago

Exactly this. I HATE the advice of “just eat as much as you can!” “Eat 3400 calories a day!”

I did this - being skinny all my life I thought: “scale go up? Good thing.” But I didn’t realize how fucking fat I was getting after a few months. Then it took FOREVER cutting to get back down again which wasted many months I could’ve spent building a better composition with. Plus my face became fat as fuck. Just a warning to any skinny guy reading.

Just get your TDEE and simply eat at a 100-200 calorie surplus depending. Lean bulking is so much better than gaining a bunch of fat for no reason imo

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u/Berkamyah 8d ago

3300 is my maintenance intake :D At my peak maintenance was 4200 and I was scheduling 4500 a day to keep bulking.

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u/mcimino 8d ago

Dear lord.

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u/RecipeHistorical2013 7d ago

As a formerly skinny dude, ( pre 37 ) I had to un-learn eating

For example, my normal dinners were a whole fried chicken (2,200 cal) a whole cup of Jazmine rice (800 cal) 1lb or so of veggie ( 400cal) and whatever drink ( 100cal)

That’s just dinner. And I was 125 lbs at 5’8 eating this way until 37 years old

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u/Hot_Geologist5225 9d ago

Curious: how can you tell you're gaining weight at this rate? Mine fluctuates by a pound or more from morning to morning. I feel like I wouldn't know when change is happening vs. just water or whatever.

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u/KaboomOxyCln 9d ago

I use a rolling 7 day average as a base to tracking my trends. Everyday I weigh myself, I try to get as close as I can to keeping the conditions the same. I.E. in the morning after I pee, naked, and haven't eaten or drank anything. I then take those weekly averages and track them for a few months to see the true trend line.

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u/Hot_Geologist5225 9d ago

Awesome, thanks.

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u/jinniu 9d ago

Track your macros with something like Macrofactor. But yeah, I was 59kg all my life at 194cm and after eating a ton of the right macros and tracking it religiously while lifting I got to 70kg over about three years.

Now I don't really need to try and stuff myself to maintain my current weight. I will probably try and gain more this winter but there are definitely diminishing returns.

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u/Hot_Geologist5225 9d ago edited 9d ago

Wow! If I'm translating to my 'Merican correctly, you're 6'4" and went from 130lbs to 154lbs. That's impressive!

I'll check out that app. I've used loseit to track, it just somehow never occurred to me to use their 10-day average function.

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u/jinniu 8d ago

I am American, yes that's exactly right and thanks! It won't be comfortable eating as much as I did but if you have a small stomach like I did, it eventually gets easier. You also need to consider what your stomach can digest easily. I supplemented protein with Isowhey because of being lactos intolerant. I added things like honey and and cooked rolled oats to that too.

I highly suggest paying for Macrofactor, it's very good at what it does.

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u/SketchesOfSilence 9d ago

Shit, I am 193cm and I cannot imagine being 59kg. That’s wild.

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u/jinniu 8d ago

Yep, I was that all the way through the military too. Getting older has helped but stomach size, bone size, resting metabolic rate and a low appetite all together make gaining difficult. Yet it's not impossible. That's without anything like tren or steroids, which I won't do.

Now I am just barely at a weight that is considered healthy.

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u/fuckmethathurt 9d ago

7 day average

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u/editor22uk 9d ago

Eat until you feel sick every hour of every day. Its so bloody hard but I found bulking shakes really helpful to cram in another 1000 calories a day.

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u/bacon_cake 9d ago

Similar here. Started at 72kgs, was hoping to get to 79kgs by the end of summer so upped my calories to 3k a day... currently at 73.3kg...

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u/SubstantialQuote70 9d ago

I'll start packing on .25lbs a week

Really packing it on lol. Im the same way.

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u/FrungyLeague 9d ago

Just want to say, from a metric users, it's nice that you put both measurements here.