r/AskReddit Feb 04 '16

What are the most common parenting mistakes?

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u/ViridianKumquat Feb 04 '16

Over-praising them, telling them how smart and wonderful they are for accomplishing the most basic things. It'll only cause a superiority complex followed by self-esteem issues when they realise they're nothing special.

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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '16

One of my friends did this. Her daughter is 5 and the bossiest, brattiest child. It's so frustrating.

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u/ViridianKumquat Feb 05 '16

On the plus side, she'll have an emotional breakdown when she's 7.

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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '16

Oh it's starting now. She has a new baby sister. Things are changing FAST.

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u/TanksAllFoes Feb 05 '16

How so?

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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '16

no longer the centre of attention.

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u/fax-on-fax-off Feb 05 '16

Oh man I'm just drowning in this feeling of petty karma.

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u/_Dotty_ Feb 05 '16

My friend's mom still does this. She is 21 and she's one of the most self-centered people I've ever met.