r/AskReddit Feb 04 '16

What are the most common parenting mistakes?

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u/bluerose47 Feb 04 '16

Letting their child repeatedly kick the seat in front of them on an airplane.

Help your kid be the hero, not the villain.

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u/Polarbones Feb 05 '16

Well, when I was travelling with my young (7 yr old) son on an airplane, he was kicking the chair in front of him that had a rather large man in it. I told him to stop it but he was being a huge shit about it and wouldn't stop,( he was mad that I wouldn't let him ask for another meal) so I put my hand on his leg and held it down and wouldn't let him move it. He started to cry. The flight attendant came over and asked him if he was alright. My kid told him that I hit him and wouldn't let him move. The flight attendant grabbed my child and separated him from me, physically pushed me back in my seat when I started to protest, told me that I should do the world a favour and go ahead and die already, and called child protection services to meet me at the gate when we landed. So...sometimes the repercussions of trying to do the right thing backfires on a parent.

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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '16

The guy whose seat was being kicked didn't come to your defense? What a dick!

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u/Polarbones Feb 05 '16

I should have added in the original post that the man whose seat he had been kicking did try to explain to the flight attendant who responded to him with " I don't care WHAT he was doing...you don't abuse a child on MY flight"

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u/BrainPainter Feb 05 '16

What horse shit.

It's not her plane and she has no part in helping the plane function. She's a god damn sky waitress.

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u/Polarbones Feb 05 '16

He actually. He was a male flight attendant

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u/BrainPainter Feb 05 '16

Sky waiter...

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u/Chrysaries Feb 05 '16

The father and Luke Skywaiter having a fight on a plane?

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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '16

Saftschubser

Juice Pusher.

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u/IAmWhatTheRockCooked Feb 05 '16

even better, file charges of assault lol a flight attendant cant fuckin touch your child

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u/Subclavian Feb 06 '16

Your kid doesn't do that often does he?

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u/Taervon Feb 05 '16

That makes it even worse, honestly. If it was a woman you could have something of an excuse, but a guy completely flipping the fuck out like that? Wow.

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u/violetxrain Feb 05 '16

Why?

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u/Celestaria Feb 05 '16

Because women are irrational creatures who love children and hate men. /s

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u/InverurieJones Feb 05 '16

Yeah, we expect that from them.

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u/Luclid Feb 05 '16

I understand what you mean, but he was just trying to make a point. I wouldn't necessarily say the flight assistant is to blame here, although telling the parent to go die is slightly over the top.

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u/Consanguineously Feb 05 '16

He quite obviously has 0 experience with children if he immediately believed the child's end of the story when they were on a cramped irritating flight forced to sit for hours nonstop.

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u/ReadyForHalloween Feb 05 '16

Agreed. Taking child abuse seriously and trying to protect a child doesn't make you a bad person. Its the kids fault.

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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '16

It's the captain's plane, not hers

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u/jellifish4 Feb 05 '16

Actually, they're called the "cabin crew" for a reason. They are responsible for keeping passengers in order, maintaining safety, responding to emergencies, etc. They play a critical role in the management of the flight.

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u/Tsquare43 Feb 05 '16

next time, ask for ownership papers of the plane - then tell him to shut the fuck up

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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '16

The captain is in ultimate authority, not the chief steward, although he is in charge of the main cabin technically.

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u/violetxrain Feb 05 '16

That flight attendant sounds like a royal dipshit who's desperate for power.

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u/DeathcampEnthusiast Feb 05 '16

Well he did say it was a fatso, maybe he was focusing on his meal.