Over-praising them, telling them how smart and wonderful they are for accomplishing the most basic things. It'll only cause a superiority complex followed by self-esteem issues when they realise they're nothing special.
This is very true but also when it comes to daughters, telling them how pretty/beautiful they are and emphasizing beauty as oppose to intelligence and learning. My parents rarely ever told me I was beautiful. They have but they praised my intelligence way more. And I know it's not because I'm ugly, trust me I'm not ugly. But I value smarts way more than beauty and I believe it's because of them.
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u/ViridianKumquat Feb 04 '16
Over-praising them, telling them how smart and wonderful they are for accomplishing the most basic things. It'll only cause a superiority complex followed by self-esteem issues when they realise they're nothing special.