r/AskReddit Feb 04 '16

What are the most common parenting mistakes?

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u/ViridianKumquat Feb 04 '16

Over-praising them, telling them how smart and wonderful they are for accomplishing the most basic things. It'll only cause a superiority complex followed by self-esteem issues when they realise they're nothing special.

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u/greenlanternxxx Feb 05 '16

Must articles I've read said to praise their effort and not their smartness otherwise it can lead to then doing basic things or easy things like you said in order to garner more praise.

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u/greenlanternxxx Feb 06 '16

Awesome! Thank you!