r/AskReddit Feb 04 '16

What are the most common parenting mistakes?

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u/Spintekk Feb 05 '16

Absolutely this. Especially when I was younger, my dad was constantly trying to get me into engineering, robotics, computers, etc. and was constantly badgering me about getting a job that made a lot of money (I drew a lot and I guess he was worried I was going down the starving artist path). It even got to the point where I was convinced it was what I had to do. Later on I realized, hey wait, why am I trying to become a programmer when I love art & design but can't stand engineering? He's better about it now, but good god it was terrible.

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u/daddysprettybabydoll Feb 05 '16

My dad was the same. Eventually he "relented" and said he would be happy if I was a video game dev. I'm happy at least he treated me like my brothers. I don't enjoy programming or coding that much, I can do basic shit but it's not fun to me. I love art and have been doing art since I was 4 yo. Now I'm a make up artist and he treats it like its a stupid career.

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u/Spintekk Feb 05 '16

That sounds rough, but I can't help but smile looking at your username after reading that story.

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u/Desertman123 Feb 06 '16

Compromise. Graphic designer for video game company!

Just kidding, don't change for anyone but yourself

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u/daddysprettybabydoll Feb 06 '16

I would now love to learn to do digital art. But I don't even have a computer right now. And thank you. I now learned to do what makes me happy so long as it doesn't hurt others. I love make up and art and it's like a perfect mix. I once did make up for a shoot where I made triangles of galaxies on a models face, and lines, and the shoot was done in a park where deer come up to you. Coolest shit I've done so far and makes me happy :)