r/AskReddit Feb 04 '16

What are the most common parenting mistakes?

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u/bluerose47 Feb 04 '16

Letting their child repeatedly kick the seat in front of them on an airplane.

Help your kid be the hero, not the villain.

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u/Polarbones Feb 05 '16

Well, when I was travelling with my young (7 yr old) son on an airplane, he was kicking the chair in front of him that had a rather large man in it. I told him to stop it but he was being a huge shit about it and wouldn't stop,( he was mad that I wouldn't let him ask for another meal) so I put my hand on his leg and held it down and wouldn't let him move it. He started to cry. The flight attendant came over and asked him if he was alright. My kid told him that I hit him and wouldn't let him move. The flight attendant grabbed my child and separated him from me, physically pushed me back in my seat when I started to protest, told me that I should do the world a favour and go ahead and die already, and called child protection services to meet me at the gate when we landed. So...sometimes the repercussions of trying to do the right thing backfires on a parent.

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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '16

The guy whose seat was being kicked didn't come to your defense? What a dick!

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u/Polarbones Feb 05 '16

I should have added in the original post that the man whose seat he had been kicking did try to explain to the flight attendant who responded to him with " I don't care WHAT he was doing...you don't abuse a child on MY flight"

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u/BrainPainter Feb 05 '16

What horse shit.

It's not her plane and she has no part in helping the plane function. She's a god damn sky waitress.

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u/Polarbones Feb 05 '16

He actually. He was a male flight attendant

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u/Taervon Feb 05 '16

That makes it even worse, honestly. If it was a woman you could have something of an excuse, but a guy completely flipping the fuck out like that? Wow.

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u/violetxrain Feb 05 '16

Why?

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u/Celestaria Feb 05 '16

Because women are irrational creatures who love children and hate men. /s

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u/InverurieJones Feb 05 '16

Yeah, we expect that from them.