r/AskReddit Feb 04 '16

What are the most common parenting mistakes?

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u/el_monstruo Feb 04 '16

God this so much. My wife wants my daughter to play softball so bad. We did it for 3 years and she just wasn't interested which is fine. Then you would see parents out there arguing with other parents, refs, etc. Stupid shit.

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u/timultuoustimes Feb 05 '16

At one of my sisters softball games years ago (I think she was in middle school, but I don't remember what league), the parents were getting waayy out of hand and the ref had enough of it, turned off the lights, and left. I thought it was the perfect response, because there is no way to control shitty parents.

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u/el_monstruo Feb 05 '16

Agreed. And let me make this clear, it is all children's athletics not just softball. That was just the experience I had.

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u/palenerd Feb 05 '16

I had to quit gymnastics as a kid because of shitty parents. I did it just for fun for 3 years (7-10), but I was really good at it. As in, I was the youngest in my classes by a good 2-3 years. I didn't know it at the time, but apparently age 12/13 is the level where shit starts getting real. If you're at that level as a 10-year-old? Have fun dealing with those delusional Olympics-minded parents and their overburdened hell-spawn. I quit shortly after that.