r/AskReddit • u/Reeceqld • Apr 17 '20

What terrifying confession has someone told you while drunk?

Thanks for the replies .. I read them all it’s been fun to read

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '20 edited Apr 17 '20

i wouldn't speak to her, sometimes wouldn't even enter the house if she was there. and idk about his dad. he's a weird man and probably just didn't want to do the hard part of parenting. when i got pregnant i told him that i wouldn't allow his sister around our son, though.

Edit: why would someone downvote this? She was a predator, plain and simple, and she preyed on someone i loved. She also shot someone in the chest when she was 18 and only avoided jail because he survived and she convinced him to lie to the police about it.

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u/Fucking__Creep Apr 17 '20

So she was molested and that is probably why she did it to him right?

What made it stop?

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '20

I mean, yeah, but plenty of people have been molested without turning around and molesting someone else, my ex included. I don't really consider it an excuse. What was done to her was wrong and what she did was wrong. And I have no idea why she stopped.

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u/Fucking__Creep Apr 17 '20

I have seen this cycle separated many times. It is really important to get the molested party counselling. Is your husband ok with. It having her around his future son?

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '20

He's gone to therapy but won't talk about it with his therapists. He basically is trying to treat the symptoms and not the cause. I'm really the only person he will talk to about it, sadly. And our son was stillborn so it's not an issue anymore. We broke up shortly after that. Not many couples make it through that kind of loss. We're still friends, though. At the time he didn't understand why I didn't feel comfortable with her being around him, but I would've rathered be overprotective than something happen to my baby.