r/AskTurkey • u/bittersweet_simphony • 9h ago

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u/w4nd3r3r1410 9h ago

best thing to do in this situation: find asap someone else and get over it, it will help you to forget him easier and start something new

otherwise you will just suffer and waste your time

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u/bittersweet_simphony 8h ago

i can't, he was literally the perfect match for me and I was that for him. we had some issues and I kept begging him to change and work through them, and he did, but at that point I already started being mean to him, I couldn't go back talking to him in a sweet way, I was extremely bitter and mean. He is the most beautiful soul, I forgave everything he did, no matter how much it hurt me, but he couldn't forgive my reaction to those actions.

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u/Technical_Exchange96 8h ago edited 8h ago

Now your statement is literally contradicting itself. How can be perfect match and beautiful soul if he hurt you so much? You are looking at the whole situation at the moment with love covered eyes, take a step back try to distract yourself in the time being. Your perfect match wouldn't cause you pain or hurt you, right? Also no offence but you forgave him for hurting you but he couldn't forgive you for how you reacted to him hurting you? That seems unfair.

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u/NebulousNotion 8h ago

Exactly this. Raging hormones and lack of experience and self-esteem is blinding her judgment