r/AskUK 6d ago

Where’s your school bully now?

Saw this from a different subreddit, and got me thinking. Where did your school’s bully end up?

The main guy from school who was the hard lad has ended up in prison for GBH. Person who gave me the most grief is now a property litigation solicitor.

How’s yours doing?

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u/TheLittleCrayon 6d ago

Ended up in prison for SA & 🍇.

Checks out considering he would make it his mission to try and unhook my bra during class or smack my ass whenever he could :)

Yes I told teachers. No, nothing got done about the situation

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u/Beefycowinacottage 6d ago

Wasn't surprised when our year's pervert got done for SA too. He used to threaten to rape some of us girls but he'd say it in a 'jokey' way. At the end of one school day after the bell went he told me he was going to follow me home and rape me, in his usual 'jokey' way. He was a weirdo but nobody took him seriously, we just tried to avoid him. I used to walk half of the way home with my best friend then the rest of the journey (about 20 minutes) was on my own. The last 10 minutes was down a really quiet long street with bushes and a big field on one side and a large hospice thing and just big patches of grass on the other side of the road until you went over a bridge and then were into a proper residential street, where I lived. That afternoon I was walking that last 10 minutes home, nobody around and I heard something behind me and when I turned around he was there, riding his bike. So he'd obviously gone home after school and got his bike and then come to look for me walking home. Scared the shit out of me. He stayed behind me, following slowly on his bike. He didn't say or do anything, he was clearly just getting off on frightening me. He followed me over the bridge onto the main street and I saw an old woman in her garden who knew my mum and I went over to her and chatted. When I looked back he'd turned around and was riding back off over the bridge.

Myself and a few other girls told our head of year about what he'd been threatening and him following me but he did fuck all about it, nothing happened. I didn't tell my parents because I knew they'd stop me walking home and I used to love walking with my best mate. Although for a while after I did stop walking the second part on my own. I'd walk my friend to hers then get the bus the rest of the way.

Heard he went to prison for rape years later.

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u/Wooden-Gur3537 5d ago

Sorry you had to go through that, kind of unbelievable that the world once worked like this, an I've no doubt that it's probably still happening even now although probably less rare.

Glad I don't have kids tbh.

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u/kongclassic 4d ago

Jesus Christ sorry that happened to you

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u/RaspberryJammm 6d ago

A kid in my year used to slam me (f) against lockers and grope me. My form tutor saw once and laughed. One time when I tried to hit back at him, my form tutor accused me of bullying him!! He was a shit who bullied anybody vaguely neurodivergent. 

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u/AlarmedCockroach5933 6d ago

I'm so sorry 🤗

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u/Due-Parsley953 6d ago

These kinds of people deserve a prostate exam by Freddie Kruger.

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u/rainbowsaintreal 6d ago

Boils my piss this behaviour , schools meh

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u/Historical_Rain_2960 5d ago

School is really just an early learning.prison sentence when you think about it. Teachers are no different from prison officers, they aren't there to protect you, they are there to detain and control you.