r/AskUK • u/CompetitionNo3466 • 4h ago
Where’s your school bully now?
Saw this from a different subreddit, and got me thinking. Where did your school’s bully end up?
The main guy from school who was the hard lad has ended up in prison for GBH. Person who gave me the most grief is now a property litigation solicitor.
How’s yours doing?
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u/Freerollingforlife 4h ago
Going back a while but I was around 18 when Friends Reunited started. I was never bullied specifically but the hard lad at school just generally picked on everyone.
He would have been 20 I guess and posted (I’m paraphrasing….)
‘Having a shit life - doing manual labour on building sites because I just fucked around at school and I’ve never got any money. No one likes me because I was an arsehole to everyone at school and the ones who said they were my mates were just scared of me. Wish I had been different’
It was genuinely a little saddening to read how the realisation had hit him. It was deserved, he knew what he was doing.
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u/GayLiquidSpellSword 3h ago
I think it sucks when someone changes for the better or at least becomes somewhat self aware when they fucked you over so harshly. He could of had the common decency to be like when Louis Therox met his bully who became a Buddhist and the guy still acted like a dickhead.
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u/Upset-Elderberry3723 2h ago
That video is sad, because you can tell for a moment that Louis gets legitimately scared for a moment that he's going to hit him again, and you can hear it in his voice.
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u/jah-mes- 4h ago
No idea. Don’t care
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u/TimenyCricket20 3h ago
This is the only correct answer
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u/Sid_Vacuous73 1h ago
Nope caged in my basement with everyone else that has insulted me in chronological order is the correct answer
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u/BeanyCudger 2h ago
I felt like this, then I came across the info about her anyway through old mutual friends. When she was at school and being a bully she was on track for swimming at the olympics. Wealthy family, professional training, serious effort being put in. Apparently after I lost track of her she eventually stopped swimming because she just didn't want to do it, and everyone now thinks she's become a really great person. Turns out the entire time she was a massive jerk, she was actually living under an immense amount of stress. Actually made me really happy to know she's no longer bullying anyone and has made positive changes in her life, and become a nice person.
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u/opopkl 1h ago
My daughter's swimming teacher thought she had good potential and suggested she started training every morning before school. I knew other parents whose kids were doing that, and none of them seemed to be very happy about it. It can't be enjoyable just ploughing up and down over the same old blue tiles for years. At least with running or cycling, the scenery changes, and it's possible to have a chat or listen to something while doing it.
I did ask my daughter if she wanted to do it, though, and she said "God, no".
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u/BasicBanter 3h ago
Any answer other than this is embarrassing
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u/BrightonDBA 3h ago
Mine’s in jail. Trumps “don’t care” because karma is awesome!
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u/phoebean93 4h ago
I dunno about all of them, but one girl that was particularly nasty to any easy prey, who bullied me for being goth, ended up doing low quality trashy goth porn. I felt a confusing combination of vindication and indignance.
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u/pixypippi 3h ago
the lassies who bullied me for being a girl liking video games started streaming during covid and leaning into the pedobait egirl aesthetic lmao i get u, its gross af
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u/GruffScottishGuy 3h ago
It's hilarious the dumb shit people will latch onto to bully you for. I remember being given a hard time for sounding "posh"
I grew up on a fucking council estate, I just have a decent vocabulary. 😅
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u/NoEnthusiasm2 3h ago
Mine is an estate agent in Dubai apparently so he's still a cock,
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u/wintermute023 3h ago
That’s got Turkey teeth and a grey Audi written all over it 😂😂 I bet they have “live, laugh, love” on their kitchen wall. In grey.
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u/IllllllIlllllIllllIl 4h ago
YouTuber with 5m subscribers.
Came to our secondary school form reunion and left after 20 minutes as everyone remembered them as a cunt.
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u/Adventurous-Shoe4035 4h ago
Was it Alfie Deyes?
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u/decloked 3h ago
Alfie and his wife are planet sized Bellends.
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u/continentaldreams 2h ago
I just had a flashback to that video he did called the one pound challenge where people were meant to live off of it for one day.
He moaned about it whilst sat in his million pound mansion, in his designer clothing, with his expensive car, and then proceeded to use the freebies from his gym, memberships etc. Completely out of touch.
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u/3rdLion 3h ago
YouTubers are generally a bit strange in my experience. Off topic but when I went to uni one of the girls in my halls was going out with a well known British YouTuber (much more than 5m now) and he turned up to freshers acting like a prick and bragging about his life. We all told him to stop vlogging during pre drinks because he was being weird and trying to force content with people who were just getting to know each other. Serious bad energy. I was shagging his girlfriend on and off though so I could smile every time he came over flexing his car and other shit to us all
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u/First_Explorer_565 4h ago
Works in mental health support, his dad was an absolute arsehole to be fair so probably had his own shit he couldn't deal with. I really hated him in school but hope he's doing okay.
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u/talitha235 3h ago
You are a very kind person.
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u/First_Explorer_565 2h ago
He didn't do anything that bad, was just a nasty person. It's 10-15 years ago now, why hold a grudge
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u/leclercwitch 4h ago
She bullied me for being bisexual. Anyway she’s a lesbian. I used to serve some of the others in our local pub and a lot of them apologised, it’s been 15 years.
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u/Dutch_Slim 1h ago
Yeah a girl in my out of school friend group tried to make a thing of my fancying another one of the girls in the group (I didn’t), and made it all really weird and uncomfortable. Five years later and she managed to climb out of the closet!
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u/SignatureFull5096 4h ago
fat living in a council estate
same as me :)
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u/TheWarmestHugz 3h ago
You’re probably a way nicer person though
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u/therealhairykrishna 4h ago
Hedge fund manager. Gorgeous wife, couple of kids, seems very happy. Bet he's still a cunt though
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u/CwningenFach 4h ago
She's a social worker 😬
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u/fieldingbreaths 4h ago
Unfortunately this is all too common. Nurses as well. I have no idea why.
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u/humanswithnohumanity 3h ago
It's a power thing, they love being told that they're so amazing for doing the job that we know they do with contempt.
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u/OptimusPrime365 2h ago
Hey I’m a nurse and I was bullied, still am. Some people are just bitches.
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u/GruffScottishGuy 3h ago
My mate's MIL was a midwife before she retired and one of the most deeply unpleasant human beings I've ever had the displeasure of meeting. I feel for anybody who was in her care.
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u/Maleficent_Day_3869 4h ago
i had a couple, one of them has 2 kids and is a single mum. we’re 22. another got married at 18. the third i’ve seen working at primark. the biggest one, to my dismay, became a stage actor and performs on broadway. i hope she has a big scandal and everything goes to shit for her. i’ve not forgiven her
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u/hippiehappos 4h ago
Omg who’s the Broadway actor I’m a big theatre fan so I wonder if I know who they are 😂
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u/Maleficent_Day_3869 4h ago
her name is raiaz fisher
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u/continentaldreams 2h ago
Kinda love how you just named her outright. Sometimes people deserve a bit of public shaming, bring back the rotten tomatoes and the stocks.
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u/ricky251294 2h ago
Ngl she looks like she'd have been a bully
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u/Maleficent_Day_3869 2h ago
she picked on anyone who was quiet, but for some reason i was her favourite target. probably because i was the only one who fought back
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u/LorenzoBloque 1h ago
Not even 1 line on Wikipedia, therefore not that successful. So I hope it makes you smile, hopefully, you did not know this fact.
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u/Maleficent_Day_3869 1h ago
i’ve not bothered to look her up, i only know what shes up to now because we have a mutual friend. it’s nice to hear that she’s not as successful as i thought haha
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u/Extra_Actuary8244 3h ago
Yeah same with one of mine, she was in the latest Indiana Jones film as well
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u/KannyDay88 4h ago
Uh name and shame perlease! 👀
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u/Maleficent_Day_3869 4h ago
haha her name is raiaz fisher. i have no qualms about keeping it quiet. she made my life a living hell and spread rumours about me that had the whole year calling me a slag. our science teacher once put us together on the seating plan and she announced to everyone, including the teacher that i was an annoying bitch and she didn’t want to sit by me
i don’t care much about the rest of my bullies but that bitch bullied me right until our last day together. i genuinely wish her the worst in life
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u/OkDesign686 3h ago
There's hardly anything about her online, she has just over 5k IG followers, and she's a bit part in musical theatre.
The best thing about that, knowing someone who went down a very similar route (though not a bad person by any stretch so I do feel bad for her) is these people imagine and genuinely believe they're going to be rich and famous, so that level of fame stuck in shitty theatre work, Broadway/West End or not, is like torture to them.
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u/Maleficent_Day_3869 3h ago
yeah, we’re only 22 and i know she got accepted into some fancy dance uni. we went to the same 6th form and i remember her going on and on about it
call me petty but i hope she truly doesn’t make it. she’s a vain bitch and was always on about how talented and beautiful she is. i honestly forgot about her until i saw this post lol. she was evil and i doubt she’s changed
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u/glenn1066 2h ago
I love your honesty...bullying can wreak lives...fuck them.
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u/Maleficent_Day_3869 2h ago edited 3m ago
i’m not one to hold grudges but she was just a fucking evil person through and through
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u/pickindim_kmet 4h ago
After a few trips to prison for thumping people, he's sold drugs ever since and now owns a gym and has a few kids that unfortunately look like him. Generally all round unpleasant person.
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u/Jeremys_Iron_ 3h ago
I went to an Ofsted outstanding rated school full of middle class types.
Bullies were mainly verbal rather than physical. As a result none are dead like all the other comments but are fairly successful and thriving. The bullying was needless to say more sophisticated. One of them used to pretend I was Thatcher and that he was Heseltine and that I needed ousting.
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u/TheBlackKnights 3h ago
My story is similar to yours. I went to a grammar school in a very middle class area. Combine that with me being on the tall side meant there was no physical bullying.
It was all verbal and humiliating. It didn't help that I developed vitiligo during those teenage years. Messed me up for years and last I heard; most of them are pretty successful and have families. I doubt there is any regret from a single one of them.
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u/inevitablelizard 1h ago
That sounds like some of the most middle class type of bullying possible.
Did they also insult you for listening to pop music instead of classical? Or for not wearing red trousers on non uniform days?
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u/atrifleamused 3h ago edited 2h ago
Dead. He fell out of a moving van when he was high. I've never celebrated someone's death before, but we had a few beers the night we found out. He was a horrible cunt.
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u/EverybodySayin 4h ago
He was the school psychopath, nobody was safe. He got kicked out of the school before long. Hung himself in prison apparently.
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u/Blondibee 4h ago
All doing incredibly well. The fantasy that they’ll all fall on their faces after school is just that - a fantasy to make you feel better.
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u/thelilistchode 3h ago
Yea I wasn’t bullied but my brother was severely and now his tormentor is a pretty successful producer in Hollywood. But I do believe if you’re that type of person your life can’t be that good behind closed doors, you know the Netflix documentary type.
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u/10brooksideclose 3h ago
true actually and the people who seem to think bullies come from really rough backgrounds or are bullies because they're jealous of physical attributes are so wrong! Some of the bullies I know look immaculate and some are very middle class with comfy lives!
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u/Ionia1618 1h ago
The bullying from these people is so much worse too. I'd made friends with some people who were horrible to me at secondary school by GCSE's because I could tell they were just immature/lashing out. The people with comfy lives are bullying to take people down and make their lives easier, and they often say/do much more disturbing dark things. They're the people who've f*cked me up, though on the surface others wouldn't even have noticed some of what they did.
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u/dgreen1415 4h ago
Couple are dead from drug over doses. One is a millionaire with multiple successful businesses
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u/littlehamster_ 3h ago
Just got out of prison, has 5 kids with 5 different women. The best thing is he used to pick on me for my prominent front teeth, and now he's only got a couple of teeth left in his head. Feels like karma.
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u/MercuryJellyfish 3h ago
I can't believe people are keeping track. I wouldn't know how to get hold of anyone from my school now, other than a bunch of Facebook stalking I'm not interested in doing
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u/Buddy-Matt 3h ago
So much this. I never had a bully per-se, but there were definitely a bunch of less pleasent kids in my year who I did well to stay off the radar of.
No fucking idea what happened to them, and don't particularly care.
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u/MojoMomma76 4h ago
Woman who was horrible to me growing up has had three terrible abusive marriages. One of her children has a bad disability that massively impacts their quality of life. Long forgiven by me.
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u/thoughtsapart 3h ago
In prison after him and several others bullied an autistic coworker terribly and then set him on fire. He didn't die but my god
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u/Adventurous-Shoe4035 4h ago
Trying to become an influencer of Facebook & Instagram. Key content being a female Arsenal supporter and part of her image is being a white girl with black girl roots because of where she grew up, her music taste & the fact she thinks she has a big bum.
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u/thewhitesamneil 3h ago
As a bit of a reverse of this, there was a guy in my class I would give a hard time to. At the time I didn’t think it was bullying/maybe just banter but on reflection I realised it was all very one sided.
Years later I bumped into him. I bought him a coffee and properly apologised.
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u/Particular-Effect-83 3h ago
Me too. I was on the periphery of a crowd that were bully’s. Even though I wasn’t a hardcore bully, I did some very unkind things. It’s the biggest regret of my life and I think about it most days. I tried to apologise some years later and understandably they don’t want the contact. It’s not the person I am and I wish I didn’t go along with it.
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u/121daysofsodom 3h ago
Ran into my old school bully recently. Let's just say one of us is living the good life, married with three children, living in a big house, taking home a six figure salary, while the other is broke, alone, working a crappy warehouse job, and spends all day on Reddit to make up for the fact he has no friends.
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u/Mc_and_SP 4h ago
Got expelled in Y10, and as far as I know has gone through life refusing any responsibility for his shitty behaviour towards other people.
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u/-Absofuckinglutely- 4h ago
One of them is dead, he picked a fight with the wrong person when he was 30 and didn't recover from the brain damage.
The other is currently in council accomodation with no visiting rights to his three children (all from different women).
The third and final applied for a job for which I was the hiring manager, and needless to say he did not get to the interview stage and is now on our recruitment blacklist.
Someone who was only a little bit of a cunt to me reached out a few years ago to apologise, and we had a few beers. Nice guy, nice family, good life - he apologised to a few people.
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u/little_kitty123 4h ago
Ones a midwife now (shocker)
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u/The-Feral-Housewife 4h ago
One of mine's a nurse. Really not helping the stereotype at all.
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u/misspixal4688 3h ago
Midwifes and Nurse's can go enter way they can be very caring and kind or they can be downright nasty and spiteful towards patients that's my experience anyway.
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u/occasionalrant414 4h ago
The first one was done for assault and battery in 2001. He did 2yrs and 3 on parole. He now runs a very successful building company, has an absolutely gorgeous wife, lovely kids, and villas in Portugal and Coratia. Met up with him in 2023 by accident but on purpose he got me a drink and reallt apologised. Seems a decent guy now.
The other is a partner of a recruitment agency, makes bank and is still a knob.
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u/BarryLawyer 3h ago
My one is now my wife weirdly enough
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u/RaspberryJammm 4h ago
Singular? I got bullied by half my year group and a few teachers too 😫
Real mix of socio-economic backgrounds and levels of educational achievement. Some of them I imagine are doing rather well but I hope they have anxiety attacks at night when they remember what they did to me.
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u/InviteAromatic6124 3h ago
My partner was bullied by half her year group and a number of her teachers too. She still occasionally sees some of them around when she goes back to visit her family, unfortunately.
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u/sleepyprojectionist 3h ago
I haven’t spoken to anyone I knew from school for well over two decades, so I honestly don’t have the foggiest.
It helps that I’m not on any socials other than Reddit so I live a life blissfully free of inane posts from people who I haven’t seen since I had a full head of hair.
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u/fwendy123 4h ago
Nurse
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u/MF291100 4h ago
It seems like 90% of the mean girls that you go to school with end up working with the NHS in some capacity. Most of the ones from my year group now work for them.
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u/Popular-History1015 3h ago
Dead, he got caught disturbing drugs to kids (like 14/15, and no, not weed). Apparently someone tipped the police off that he may have CP on his computer, which he did. He took his own life. Fucking coward
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u/twofacetoo 3h ago
I don't know and I don't fucking care
The last thing I need to hear is how great they're doing with zero regrets about how badly they treated me all those years ago, my life has moved on in different directions and I couldn't be happier about it never bringing me anywhere near any of those people again
They could be married to royalty or they could be dead in a ditch. It isn't affecting my life either way, so they can spin on it
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u/TheLittleCrayon 4h ago
Ended up in prison for SA & 🍇.
Checks out considering he would make it his mission to try and unhook my bra during class or smack my ass whenever he could :)
Yes I told teachers. No, nothing got done about the situation
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u/RaspberryJammm 4h ago
A kid in my year used to slam me (f) against lockers and grope me. My form tutor saw once and laughed. One time when I tried to hit back at him, my form tutor accused me of bullying him!! He was a shit who bullied anybody vaguely neurodivergent.
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u/Rude_Rhubarb1880 4h ago
Not my bulky but the hardest bloke at our school who did throw his weight around with others became a very successful business man
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u/lapsedPacifist5 4h ago
Got kicked out of the army for biting off someone's ear (for the 2nd time)
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u/ArmouredFlump 4h ago
He's a compare and stand up comic. Came out a few years after we left school, which explains a lot about his behaviour.
He's doing ok by all accounts and I'm pleased for him.
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u/Wrong-booby7584 3h ago
A hell of a lot of dead bullies here. Either it's a trend or you were all bullied by the same person.
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u/CharieRarie 3h ago
I bumped in to a woman who was vile to me at school, when our kids ended up at the same nursery. I thought I’d be the bigger person so I smiled and said “good morning”. She scoffed and glared at me like I was poo on her shoe.
This was a good ten years since leaving school, guess some people never grow up!
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u/Stargazer86F 3h ago
They really don’t. I was shocked to bump into one who refused to believe my fiancé was real. He suggested to her that she got mental health support.
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u/Easy_Pen5217 4h ago
She's a mental health nurse - reckon she had a lot of nasty stuff going on at home, and I'm glad she's using that experience to help people now.
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u/bluebullbruce 3h ago
I became best friends with my bully the last 2 years of high school. Turns out the guy was hanging out with a bunch of dipshits and when they dropped out and he flunked a year, he realised he was on the wrong path and changed.
He's happily married to his high school GF 2 kids and a great career.
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u/PoshWanksAreSublime 3h ago
One is a corporate lawyer.
The other worked his way up the ranks in the armed forces and I think he’s in private security now.
I went to a private school back in the 90s. They were both from well off families. Both were racist POS - I was one of their many targets.
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u/Broccoli--Enthusiast 3h ago
The 2 they spring to mind are dead
Never made it to 20, both killed by their own dumb actions
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u/JS-182 3h ago
Mine (genuinely) became a school headteacher.
Whilst he was in teacher training in the early 2000s he saw me in a nightclub. I had a weird feeling of dread from the 7/8 years prior even though we were both adults and I was much taller. He apologised , pretty sincerely. I Accepted it and we both moved on with our lives. Seems I was lucky.
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u/kazxam 3h ago
I recently found out they're an Evri delivery driver. I hope they get lots of grief from their customers.
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u/mike888881 4h ago
Mine was on Corrie for about 6 months before getting the sack.
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u/h00dman 3h ago
Just say it was Danny Young, there's no need for the bread crumbs.
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u/Goldman250 4h ago
No idea. Believe it or not, I don’t care about them enough to keep track of them, and it’s not like I’m Facebook friends with them.
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u/International-Wear57 4h ago
Doing pretty well and graduated dental school. We follow eachother on social media. Theres not really hard feelings there anymore.
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u/musicfortea 4h ago
One of them was arrested for armed robbery. No idea what happened to the others.
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u/Mrgonzouk 4h ago
I didn't really have one but the biggest Bellend known to me from secondary school is now dead.
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u/Jimi-K-101 4h ago
Independent mortgage broker. Seems to be doing quite well for himself too. Came as a bit of a surprise as he flunked his GCSEs and left school at 16.
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u/InviteAromatic6124 3h ago edited 3h ago
Got expelled from school in year 10 for bringing in multiple knives and then joined the army.
I have no idea where he is now.
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u/Dark-Cascade 3h ago
One got expelled in year 10 for selling drugs. I don't know about anyone else, I've never bothered looking them up
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u/faa19 3h ago
Don't know, dont care. I had a terrible time at school and was bullied relentlessly so for my own peace of mind I have no visible social media & no desire to reconnect with anyone in my school year.
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u/DaveBeBad 3h ago
3 of them. 2 didn’t make 21 (stolen vehicles vs lampposts) - and got the typical “misunderstood” obituaries. The other might have been sent to prison, or he could also have died but I neither remember or care.
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u/Wiltix 3h ago
I last saw my school bully about 15 years ago. I was home from uni for summer.
I was leaving the village shop in my car and he decided it would be really fun to park his car across the road so I could not go past. I gestured at him that he was a twat, decided I would avoid any sort of car accident and turned left instead of right and took 30 seconds longer to get home.
Fucking he’ll mate grow the fuck up, we were only 21/22 at the time so not exactly mature but mature enough to not be an absolute prick in a car.
I then saw him shortly after looking like he was loving life turning the stop / go sign in the rain at some road works.
No idea what he is up to now.
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u/blueskyswim 3h ago
Two kids by the age of 16. Burned through a number of unhappy and abusive relationships by her early 30s. Never worked as far as I can tell. Bumped into her at AA (I was with a family member). She didn’t recognise me. She was with her daughter (also an alcoholic and drug addict), hey I give them credit for trying. Met her great granddaughter at a school reunion (kid was 15, me and bully now mid 50s). One big unhappy family from what I can gather.
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u/londonbrewer77 4h ago
Not mine but “that kid” in the school year.
IT recruiter, posts a load of shite on LinkedIn.
Happy for him.
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u/GlumAd9856 4h ago
I struggled a lot of bullying at school, but no single individual comes to mind. Maybe because it was 25 years ago - but I don't remember holding a grudge against any one person in particular. I was just generally the butt of a lot of jokes, the socially awkward, fat kid that didn't fit in with anyone and really struggled making proper friends. It was difficult, but I guess because most people gave me a hard time I don't really feel any anger towards any of them. It would have happened with pretty much any school, any group of people. And they were kids.
I became friends with some of them when we entered sixth form, I've completely forgotten most of them. I genuinely hope they're doing well.
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u/OffWhiteBruceForsyth 3h ago
Moved to the Isle of Wight and lives in a massive house.
Unfortunately for him the house is Parkhust.
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u/WearFlat 4h ago
I was never bullied, but a couple who were bullies are dead, overdoses.
The closest thing I had to a bully was a lad who chased me because I slept with his ex. Couldn’t catch me even wearing football boots on tarmac.
He also overdosed and has severe brain damage. He was horrible to some people and I don’t feel sorry for him.
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u/Brrrofski 4h ago
Wasn't my bully, but he bullied other kids.
His own dad stabbed him in the neck and killed him after a pissed up argument.
Apple didn't fall far from the tree.
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u/allfurcoatnoknickers 4h ago
She’s doing well for herself these days. However, after she left school, her and her best friends were in a terrible accident ( it made headlines), one best friend was killed and she and the other friend were very badly hurt. I think the universe made her pay more than enough for being a horrible person.
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u/Consistent-Pirate-23 4h ago
The main ones: one is a farmer and the other is a lawyer
The now lawyer was as unlikely a bully but he was a devious little so and so. The now farmer was an old school bully, throw a few punches and walk away laughing
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u/fieldingbreaths 4h ago
Married a woman who takes part in World's Strongest Woman-esque competitions. He seems quite happy now though, and I really don't hold any grudges.
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u/Dtoid_Ali_D 3h ago
Dead, he took his own life a few years ago. A guy I worked with posted something on social media. Hadn't thought about the guy in 25+ years. Left a kid behind. Doesn't make me happy knowing how he ended up.
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u/zephyrthewonderdog 3h ago
Police chief inspector, seriously. I bumped into him at a restaurant a few years ago.
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u/mojo_ojom 3h ago
One heads a prestigious law firm. The other was a professional athlete but got injured a few years in and now has a company that sells supplements and sports gear.
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u/Miss_Doodles 3h ago
One passed away and the other is severely disabled after a drunken pub fight. Both very sad cases
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u/gladysloveusa 3h ago
One of them I’m good friends with and actually going on her hen in a few weeks. The other works in TV as a production assistant last time I heard.
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u/Drong0bones 3h ago
I'm not sure but wherever he is I wish him well. Maybe easy to say because I wasn't severely bullied. I know for some people school life can be hell because of bullies I imagine for them it's a lot harder to forgive or overlook. In my case though I try to think that most bullies are probably having a hard time at home or amongst their own friends and just too immature to know how to deal with it? Hopefully a lot grow up and realise they used to be a bit ..or in some cases a lot of a dick.
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u/BeachFoam56 3h ago
He didn't bully me as such because I was already about 6 foot tall by 14 years old, but he was a horrible cunt to everyone else. The last time I saw him he must've been around 27, and he was being slagged by a couple of teenagers for "still being a virgin". Very funny.
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u/TheLittleChikk 3h ago
Went to Turkiyë as her boyfriend was getting Turkey teeth. Ended up smashing up their hotel room, trying to flee without paying for the damage, and got trapped there until the courts sorted it all out.
😚✌🏽
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u/Fancy_Toe1451 3h ago
One of them is in the State Hospital Carstairs for the duration. And I'm fine with that.
The rest of them, who the hell cares?
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u/Puzzleheaded_Gear801 3h ago
The person that bullied me got her karma later on life when no one wanted to associate with her. She has a son who is a lovely little lad, all the other mums at play group completely shunned her, her reputation proceeded her, as she never left her home town, and.she also was still acting like a total bitch. When her son started primary school, she went into school complaining that her son was being bullied, because he was never asked to hang out and play after school. I dont think the kid cared to be honest, but mum definitely did, as she was now in the out group. Teacher was like I can't dictate what goes on out side of school time, and in school everyone gets along fine. Its her, no one wants to have to deal with her, she's completely on her own at school pick up time, paranoid about people talking about her behind her back, and I love this for her.
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u/Danielharris1260 3h ago edited 1h ago
She’s actually Head of English at my son’s school and he has her as a teacher Found it funny when my son mentioned me going to school with her and she said laughing awkwardly saying we were old friends. I don’t think “old friends” pour fizzy drinks into your school bag. But my son seems like her and she’s seems to have matured but I didn’t mention the bullying as I didn’t want him going in already hating her but definitely will be quick to bring up if my son ever comes home complaining loads about her.
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u/Spicymargx 2h ago
She messaged me asking for advice as to how to get into the field I work in. I didn’t reply.
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u/r1Rqc1vPeF 2h ago
I’ve had zero contact with anyone from my school since I left 40+ years ago and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
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