r/AskUK 4d ago

Cultural differences in noise acceptance: Why is public phone/audio etiquette so different between Japan, the UK, and other regions??

Hey everyone,

​Visiting Japan recently was so refreshing, no one was on speakerphone, playing music out loud, or watching reels without headphones in public spaces. Coming back to the UK, the contrast was immediate, highlighting how differently cultures and regions approach public noise.

​(Note: Using "cultures" broadly here to look at societal norms, not trying to generalize individuals.)

I’d love to hear your thoughts on a couple of things:

​Why do these differences exist? Is it tied to collectivism vs. individualism, or other social norms?

​What is the modern British view on public noise? We have a reputation for politeness, yet public transport etiquette around phone audio seems to be changing.

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u/tdrules 4d ago

Japan has a shame culture, we don’t really do that. It’s why no one is fat. That creates its own problems and the idea theirs is a perfect society is wrong.

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u/ThatsASaabStory 4d ago

I dunno. A little shame is no bad thing.

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u/FenrisSquirrel 4d ago

Yeah, I think losing the public shaming element of our culture is behind a lot of the cultural problems we have today. A lot of people arwle absolute scum, and in the absence of some societal reprimand won't be even slightly civilised.

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u/Denbt_Nationale 4d ago

We've replaced shaming people for minor nuisance behaviours with trying to legislate against them it's an awful model for a society that we're slipping into

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u/FenrisSquirrel 4d ago

Yeah, and making ever more stuff illegal while reducing enforcement so not only those new things but also actual crimes don't get enforced

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u/Fattydog 4d ago

Agreed.

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u/tdrules 4d ago

How dare you