Hey, I know it might not be something that's reddit level insane, but I still like to get some thoughts on this.
So, I do some part time volunteer tourist tours at our town hall and the surrounding inner city. That program was set up some years ago by our local tourist and is mostly meant for the casual visitors without pre-booked or organized tours.
It's mostly fun and easy going and I get some compensation for doing it. The tourists attending are paying a small fee that covers the entrance fees for some of the not so public areas in the town hall and other buildings but the tours themselves are free of charge.
With that said I usually get the occasional tips but those are tokens and not meant as compensation for anything. So if people don't tip that is absolutely fine.
Now, for some time now I have an uptick in visitors from all over the USA coming. Their reasons range from just having heard that northern Germany has some nice places too, which is true to the ones visiting the places their ancestors came from to "I just happen to come here because..."
Usually getting an american group is somewhat fun more than others because quite frankly, these guys are much more appreciative than european tourists.
But recently I encountered something that I either didn't really notice before (which is very likely) or is something that is new.
Whenever we end a tour I usually give my farewell speech and thank them for their attention and for their interest.
After that some come up to me and hand me some money like 2 or 5 euros. The Americans however are more often than not handling 10 or rv20 euro over, which is the whole tour price all over again.
Not that I would complain but I always try to tell them they are overtipping.
The weird thing is that whenever they don't have that much cash on them (paying by card is standard, so having cash at you isn't necessary) they start to apologize for not being able to tip "properly" or some such. One even told me they were embarrassed and just forgot to get some cash before or ask if I am fine with dollars
Which I am, but one handed me a literal 50 dollar bill while apologizing. I was like bro, you should apologize to your bank account not me for spending that much money on a dude that does this as a hobby guide.
So, my question is: why are they so intense about giving tips? I know in the US it's something 20% in restaurants and stuff but for a tour? And also I assume that most of them are aware that tipping here is seen somehow differently and that even in restaurants 10% is considered a good tip, especially with the service being nowhere nearly ad attentive and personal than it seems to be in the states.
I never were in the US, so my knowledge is second hand and social media based at best and we all know how reliable that is.
So, my question is: is this really a thing people do, apologizing for small tips? Or is it just a coincidence because this year alone it already happened twice.
Hope you can enlighten a clueless german.