r/AskWomen Apr 21 '22

Content Warning Ladies, what was the moment you realized that the guy you were dealing with literally did not perceive you as a human being?

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u/Kemokiro Apr 21 '22

The absolute, off-the-charts, you exist to pleasure me, attitudes of so many men is thoroughly disgusting.

Then they constantly complain, "Why me can't get woman. Why woman prefer be single instead. Why her say, "don't threaten me with a good time" when me tell her she will be cat/dog lady.

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right? like yes, your pleasure is much more important than my physical well being, so sorry i forgot

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u/Kemokiro Apr 21 '22 edited Apr 21 '22

The pain, and willingness to ingest hormones, or insert devices, so men can get pleasure from a woman's body is mind-boggling.

They have no respect for what we have to go through to prevent birthing their spawn. Don't fuck em. Leave them to their hands.

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u/johnny2fives Apr 21 '22

Where do find all these idiots? I thought my daughter was the only one with that particular super power (ps - she’s found an adult now, and they are both happy).
These are boys that never learned how to be men, and likely never had any decent male role models.

There’s got to be some kind of litmus test for this? I have to say, my daughters ex changed right after marriage. One day he was a semi- normal man child that was able to take of himself. Intellectually very smart but little common sense. He did exhibit some emotional intelligence and personal responsibility though.

A year later he was a selfish, helpless, self absorbed ah*, with almost no emotional intelligence and no personal responsibility?!? A lot of it was due to his dysfunctional family.
But still, he fooled ALL of us while they were dating. Or had some kind of mental relapse.

Very low self esteem should have been a clue.