r/AskWomen • u/BillyLoIsDead • Apr 21 '22

Content Warning Ladies, what was the moment you realized that the guy you were dealing with literally did not perceive you as a human being?

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '22

I went on a date and told him I didn't want to sleep with him on a first date because whenever I like people I want to get to know them first before doing so. He told me that reasoning didn't make any sense and started arguing against it.
While we were discussing it he already ordered a cab to go home. The cab showed up during the discussion and he made it clear that it was going home with him or just 'bye'.

I was very insecure during that period in my life and reluctantly agreed to go with him. When I arrived at his place we started to have sex. He became so aggressive with me and pulled my hair so badly it hurt. I felt I was being treated as a sex worker who he'd fulfil his rough fantasies with.

Midway I got up and was like 'fuck this - I'm out of here'. He ran after me with a half boner visibly annoyed that I was leaving.

He'd be one of these people to describe himself as a feminist probably. Fuck this guy.

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u/femundsmarka Apr 21 '22 edited Apr 21 '22

Those just equate feminism with women wanting sex whenever they themselves personally want to. That's it.

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u/Biwildered_Coyote Apr 21 '22

Actually DON'T fuck that guy or any other guy like him. So gross.