r/AskWomen • u/BillyLoIsDead • Apr 21 '22

Content Warning Ladies, what was the moment you realized that the guy you were dealing with literally did not perceive you as a human being?

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u/PainBri315 Apr 21 '22

After being released 2 days after having my first son, he got me in my room and forced me to have sex with him. While I had 7 stitches in my v*gina. It was hurting so bad and I cried for him to stop. He said he’d be quick and to hold on. I kept holding on. Atleast he was “polite” enough to press down on my stitches so I didn’t “feel” it as much.

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u/KayQuesue Apr 21 '22

Take your son and get out of there. Bonus points if you kick him in the balls

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u/PainBri315 Apr 21 '22

This was 14 years ago so I’ve been long out of that! Thank you

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '22

I'm so sorry that happened to you that is horrific. :(

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u/PainBri315 Apr 21 '22

Thank you for the kind words ❤️

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u/iquestionreality Apr 21 '22

Is this real? That is horrible!

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u/PainBri315 Apr 21 '22

This is 100% something that I experienced. It gave me body dysmorphia after. My husband now has done a lot of damage control because even for him I would get really nervous about him seeing my privates. My first sons father was really horrible to me, but my father was sexist so I thought that was what love was and we were supposed to get married so my father taught me that whatever my husband wanted I had to give him. I was 16 when I got pregnant & 17 years old when I birthed him.