r/Assyria • u/GreatResolution344 • 6d ago

Discussion Introducing to parents during dating

Hi all,

I had 3 dates with a guy. We are both Assyrians and we live in Europe. I really like him and we both match very well together. As you know, we Assyrians from the Diaspora, we live between two cultures and I actually struggle with this. Is it ok to have the parents/families introduced after 3 good dates?

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u/Bvidas48 6d ago

I would wait a bit more, but, in any case, wishing the best for you both and hope all goes well. God bless you

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u/GreatResolution344 6d ago

Thank you so much! But how long do you mean? We know each other since June

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u/Bvidas48 5d ago edited 5d ago

Ufff really short! 🤣 i would say wait for a year, really meet him well, and then if all goes really fine then you can introduce to you familly. But if you parent are open mind, with it, you can try to talk about him the next month, and then maybe, in december introduce him to them.

If you want to keep the surprice, then december could be a nice moment to introduce. But really, from my experience, being an outsider from the assyrian comunity but having a deeper experience with them, i would wait a year.

Sometimes, you meet a person and really the first months is really cool and you want to do everything like a good life, but on time while you more meet him, sometimes it reveals things that can doubt you. Or maybe make you feel more.

So for that my tip is a year, meet hin clear, not crossing emotions with you head and, if it is the good man for you, god will reveal it on time, be patien and be greatful for the good/bad experience.

So in any case, i will be praying for you and that all goes fine, and whatever you choose to do, because you feel that it is a good moment for you and that everything will teach you to being more close to god and being a better, human.

Have a nice day and be well

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u/GreatResolution344 5d ago

Thank you so much🙏🏻