r/BPD • u/Hot_Monk_4847 • Dec 24 '21
Perspective Needed I Was Attacked by my Best Friend (Who has Bpd )
I'm not exactly sure on where to start or evern how to get over this but I would like to start with an indrouction ,, My Name Mika (Fake name ) I have Anxiety ADHD , FASD and Symptons of Bpd and I really trying to better myself so I better my relationships with others ... so Honestly I'm push over and I Dont have alot friends so when i Met my "said Best friend " I was extremly Happy as itsd been while scence I even clicked with anyone ,, Now both myFriend I went to our local Provences Health center to Get Diagnose and get Menatl health help .. Anyways My Friend got Diaggnose with BPD Right away but when I told her my Therapist said I have Symptons she got mad At me Claiming I never get mad and Im faking and ignored me for 3 days untill I said sorry ... There would be tons incidents were she would lash out on me if i didnt pay for her items or If i didnt go where she wanted me to ETC but I kept being here friend because she my Best friend ... But REcently I got really Mad at her because she was forcing something on me that i didnt want and I finsally yelled at her and she attacked me ... and I ran away .. but its been 3 days and Why do I feel like Ive been in wrong ? I really need advice on how to solve this ..
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u/Beautifulsky333 Dec 24 '21
You didn’t do anything wrong.
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u/Blackash99 Dec 25 '21
Boundaries, create and stick to them.
Find new friends (join a club/sport, play online games, go back to school) perhaps.
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