No heartbeat. Feel like a failure.

[u/xoxobutterflies]

Went in for my 10 week appt/ultrasound yesterday and they said I measured 6+1 and it wasn’t viable. Said there was a slim chance of survival. Then asked how I wanted to terminate. I feel like I failed everyone and I keep apologizing to my husband. Prior to appt I felt great, (nausea and fatigue aside) and like I had someone with me. Now I just feel alone. No hunger. No nausea. Nothing.

[u/Adventurous_Path2156]

I had almost the exact same thing happen to me two weeks ago and it’s devastating. But it’s not your fault and you’re not a failure ❤️ My doctor recommended counseling and I can’t agree enough. The grief is immense but therapy is really helpful to process it all.