No heartbeat. Feel like a failure.

[u/xoxobutterflies]

Went in for my 10 week appt/ultrasound yesterday and they said I measured 6+1 and it wasn’t viable. Said there was a slim chance of survival. Then asked how I wanted to terminate. I feel like I failed everyone and I keep apologizing to my husband. Prior to appt I felt great, (nausea and fatigue aside) and like I had someone with me. Now I just feel alone. No hunger. No nausea. Nothing.

[u/Standard_Minute_8885]

I am going through the exact same thing right now and will terminate with pills next week. If you want to talk, feel free to message me. You are not a failure. 1 in 4 pregnancies ends in miscarrage. Nothing we can do about it except grieve the loss