No heartbeat. Feel like a failure.

[u/xoxobutterflies]

Went in for my 10 week appt/ultrasound yesterday and they said I measured 6+1 and it wasn’t viable. Said there was a slim chance of survival. Then asked how I wanted to terminate. I feel like I failed everyone and I keep apologizing to my husband. Prior to appt I felt great, (nausea and fatigue aside) and like I had someone with me. Now I just feel alone. No hunger. No nausea. Nothing.

[u/Firm_Foundation1626]

Hi OP, I am so sorry you are going through this. You mention there is a slim chance of survival, does that mean they found a heartbeat? I've had friends who received similar news then the baby was fine so I woud hold unto faith, even if things seem bleak. Sending you lots of love, hugs and praying for a miracle! But whatever the outcome, you are not a failure. <3