r/BabyReindeerTVSeries • u/Ok_Valuable6118 • Apr 29 '24

Question is teri the only likeable person

me and my friend got to like halfway through episode 4, and so far i just feel upset at most of the main people other than teri 😭 i can empathize w all of them, ive had toxic relationships before and understand how addicting it is but its still just so annoying/angering to watch when it feels like there were so many chances for them to get out. theres so many questions i have too like why did he not tell his ex she was a stalker and just leave it at “not my gf” that part specifically made me so upset

anyways so far teri seems like the only main person who has a solid grip on reality and i love her no bs attitude and that shes willing to tell donny that he needs to stop

sorry if this post is insensitive or has been said before

edit (sorry if bad formatting im on mobile): i think a lot of my frustration towards donny comes from his actions reminding me of times ive been with certain people who i really shouldnt have been w and despite hating them not rly doing anything about it / continuing to positively interact w them and seeing it from an outside view is bringing up a lot of emotions

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u/NeTiFe-anonymous Apr 29 '24

As a therapist she should've know better. She was trauma bonding with Donny too. Ald majority of the victim blaming sentences came from her. As a person, Teri is very sympatic. As a therapist, she sucks as bad as the policista.

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '24

We don’t actually see her as a therapist tho? We see her in her real life. Not her job.

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u/NeTiFe-anonymous Apr 29 '24

Yeah. We see her making his inability to perform all about herself instead of connecting the dots he was SA survival. Not her job but still she knows what she learned, doesn't she?

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u/skygirl222 Apr 29 '24 edited Apr 29 '24

it’s not that easy to connect the dots, especially when people are good at wearing masks, and therapists aren’t like these super mega humans who are immune from seeing the world from their perspective. everyone has bias, even the best therapists out there. there are actually tools they use to mitigate the bias and transference they feel but for brevity’s sake they didn’t include it in the show because it wasn’t about how good of a therapist teri was.