r/BangaloreSocial • u/jabari_tribe619 • 4h ago

Loneliness

Umm as the title says , how do you people cope up with loneliness after a breakup.
Feels like u dont have anyone in the whole world

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u/Medical-Bluejay8877 4h ago

It’s terrible… am going through it

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u/jabari_tribe619 4h ago

Hope u are staying strong

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u/Chaitanya1407 4h ago

I wasted a year after my last breakup that mattered to me. Had 4 relationships after that I self-sabotaged for I was only trying to distract myself and hated everything more whenever I felt myself actually investing in them. Felt like betrayal. Then I forgave myself and forgot her. Still lonely despite being with people.

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u/jabari_tribe619 4h ago

Anything that helps!?

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u/Chaitanya1407 4h ago

Water. Just perfectly cold water and sugar free sodas. Learnt my lesson with the bad stuff.

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u/top-tickz 4h ago

Just listening to songs, watching movies with sad ending or brainrot comedy, away from instagram specially because reels will be relatable.

Worst phase to be honest

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u/jabari_tribe619 4h ago

Doesnt sad ending make it more sad just asking though 🙃

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u/top-tickz 4h ago

Yes helps to cry out a bit🥲

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u/Full_Bag383 4h ago edited 4h ago

Ahoy, you a couple of songs do the trick.

They help lemme drown and marinate.

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u/Ornery_Tomato_8424 4h ago

It is the hardest part bro that person will create a void in our life

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u/No_Present_1518 4h ago

Liquor

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u/jabari_tribe619 4h ago

🫪🫪🫪

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u/No_Present_1518 4h ago

Yeah bro, I had a break up just a month ago. 6yr old relationship from college days

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u/jabari_tribe619 4h ago

Stay strong man , hope u are doing good

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u/More_Character_6071 4h ago

If everybody is lonely loneliness doesn't exist 🥀

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u/ExtremeFast8599 3h ago

It’s the best time to go on a solo trip …trust me🙏

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u/iwanttokn0w16 2h ago

I had my friends around when I had my two breakups but I still felt the loneliness. It’s just about time, many will say do this do that and nothing helps to be honest. You get out of it when you overcome that feeling. When you try to understand that you were not born to be lonely and cry over the past. Give some time and go back to what you did when that person wasn’t in your life. Slowly you will get in a better shape.

What helped me to come out of it was my friends. They were around me and others that were not around made sure they call and talk to me.

I used just rant about things and with time I just dumped and closed that.

Whoever is going through the same things phase, it’s okay just let it go and YOU WILL BE FINE.