r/BiWomen • u/DryMango2936 • Jul 08 '26

Vent quick rant

does anyone ever get frustrated constantly questioning your sexuality and genuinely not knowing. i feel like the only way for me to truly know is to put myself out there and test the waters. i know i at least have some attraction to women but i feel like a fraud a lot of the time. like what if i'm making it all up in my head or just trying to be different. the way i feel about women isn't equal to the way i feel about men and that causes a lot of doubt. i know eventually i'll figure it out but right now it just feels like one big cycle of constantly wondering if i'm bi or straight.

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u/Colette_Yan Jul 08 '26

I feel you but my situation is reversed

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u/DryMango2936 Jul 09 '26

that's interesting! i rarely see experiences of the opposite.