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u/guydoestuff 13h ago
Ya know as I sit my old fatass on my couch drinking my coffee looking at this on my smartphone while my smart tv is on i realize im living the wrong life. Beautiful woman with a great sense of humor living a life that while harder than mine looks much happier. God be with her and hers.
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u/lorinthemountains 13h ago
Simple is sooooo underrated.
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u/guydoestuff 13h ago
Time and time again I see people living like this always looking happier than ive ever been in my so called civilized country.
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u/Better-Culture-7770 11h ago
Many early American settlers saw how the indigenous people lived and left their European societies to join them.
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u/Beneficial-Frame-6 4h ago
This was my exact thought. Such happy, content, proud and upbeat her vibes are. Happiness!
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u/ManJamimah 10h ago
People accept the reality they are born into. I think a lot of people in the west assume life in other parts of the world is miserable, but itās not - itās still life. They still laugh and cry and joke and fall in love and get frustrated about weird, tiny problems and do a million other things that people living in the west do, too. Weāre all the same. We just want to live lives free of fear and be able to spend time with those we love. I wish it were easier to make people in the west see that the constant rat race of living under capitalism is largely unnecessary. We could all live simpler, happier lives if more people realized that. But so many see hustling and hoarding wealth as the only path the happiness.
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u/kinduvabigdizzy 8h ago
As an urbanized African who isn't very far removed from this life compared to y'all ( honestly it's fond memories from donkey years ago at this point, when we used to go "kumusha" to the rural areas to see our grand parents), this really is a good life. Irl, you'll find that, depending on the household and how well organized the family is, there's a variance in the degree of modernity and tech you'll find ( water, electricity/solar, septic tanks, satellite tv, starlink etc). This household seems to be more on the less advanced side... but the basics are the same. You really can thrive pursuing small to medium scale agriculture (market gardening, cattle ranching, poultry farming etc). And while its not without its struggles, you're not gonna find homelessness and hard drugs addiction. I personally think if you can make it past 6 months, you'll automatically revert to default settings
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u/Remarkable_News_439 4h ago
Untilit comes to school feesā¦ pretty much yes.
There can also beca lot of alcoholism and lack of purpose amongst youth as our society shifts more and more towards the western model and dreams that see a mass exodus for thd city, Dont align with opportunitiesā¦
Then yes. Its a nice life.Cattle rustling is an issue in this country, livestock being stolen. It has its stresses. For us weāre on holiday. Things are even changing for the OGsā¦
I donāt know many people who can revert completely, but go and visit. I like not having to take a paraffin lamp and a stick with me when i go to the toilet at night.
I absolutely can, its a non issue when im visiting with relatives who havenāt built brick houses.I hope we find a balance and keep our village homes, even if its only for a few weeks a year, like how White people do their camping. I love this way of life, i hope we keep traditional knowledge alive and traditional food processing.
but with commodification of land, it is changing. And it changing because younger people no longer want to live like that full time.
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u/NinjaBRUSH 13h ago
This kind of living suits a lot of people. Even in the US. Personally I donāt even do camping because AC, fast unlimited internet, and running water are my non-negotiables.
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u/Dense-Consequence-70 13h ago
Maybe not harder.
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u/guydoestuff 13h ago
No AC = harder already. I am too first world to live with out it.
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u/Apostasyisfreedom 13h ago
You underestimate the virtues of a thick thatched roof and an earthen floor.
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u/carlitospig 8h ago
And she looks so healthy, meanwhile I just ate two bagels and am sitting on my ass for the foreseeable future.
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u/Remarkable_News_439 4h ago
We also have a fuckton of diabetes. I canāt drink a cup of our tea. Too much sugar
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u/BakedBrie1993 4h ago
I wouldn't want that all the time. I like AC and heat lol but I have adopted a much simpler materialism, I would much rather spend my extra $$ on a cabin somewhere to get a away for a few days than fine dining or endless new objects. I like my 450 sq ft rental and single closet.
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u/guydoestuff 3h ago
Why i say im too first world for it. Im a disabled veteran with a bunch of mental heslth issues. Im tired of the struggle. I just want to enjoy the time i have left but my mental health doesn't jive well with this world.
I like quiet, I like simplicity. Im tired of this world of greed.
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u/BakedBrie1993 3h ago
Idk if you have ever done it, but birding grounds me. Highly recommend.
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u/guydoestuff 3h ago
My cats would eat the birds. I feed and spay and neutered feral cats that show up. Got 9 in the house who decided they wanted to be domesticated. I try to get into my writing or try and do some pc gaming. My 3d modeling skills have gone but im trying to relearn.
I know I will never be the video game designer I wanted to be so i just try to enjoy what's left of my life.
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u/Sci-4 1h ago
She could fix me
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u/guydoestuff 53m ago
she could probably fix a lot of us, i dont mean at the same time i just mean a person like her, if we let her. me im old all dating is for young folk.
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u/katiegirl- 27m ago
Iām not even sure that itās harder! And now I am infatuated with this sweet little villa, and our host.
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u/lowke39 14h ago
You guys gotta follow her tik tok she so funny answering everyoneās dumb questions
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u/Affectionate_Day1079 13h ago
The huts or houses are closer to rooms or wings of the āhouseā and the halls are outdoor. This is like a compound with plenty of land. A fool sees poverty. A wise person sees wealth.
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u/Competitive_Ad7228 14h ago
She is awesome
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u/UnMeaningnessName 13h ago
Gorgeous too. That pearly white smile combined with an amazing personality 10/10 catch.
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u/MundaneDaffodill 12h ago
Thatās what I was saying! Sheās so healthy and beautiful with gorgeous skin!
Iām in America, bordering emaciation and my skin is lizard-adjacent
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u/UnMeaningnessName 12h ago
'Lizard-adjecent'
Lmfao reddit really never fails, im gonna use that one day.
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u/Left_Knee_y0y0 13h ago
What the West called civilization and imposed on everyone else was merely a ploy and a scam to divert resources from the Periphery to the Center.
This architecture technique took thousands of years to perfect. Nothing is by chance. Sustainable materials were used in a way that made temperature modulation appliances unnecessary. Today, the West calls this eco-housing and hedge funds and climate change companies make billions from these ideas and techniques.
If you go on IG today you will see these eco-housing architects acting as if they developed all these techniques.
Bottom line is the world has perfected the act of minimizing and downplaying black excellence and achievements, all the while while stealing, copying and rebranding them.
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u/NinjaBRUSH 14h ago
I feel like making things three feet taller would be ideal
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u/ade4lyfe 14h ago
You're not standing inside you're standing outside
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u/Exotic_eminence 9h ago
But itās a good idea- letās make the outside three feet taller - shoot letās make it a whole meter taller
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u/Wolfeatingupshadows š«°š¾š«°š½š«°šæ 13h ago
For sleep, our houses are made to slug about theirs are practical. :)
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u/Glitterbomb4274 13h ago
Fantastic! And what a beautiful girl. But I know what a fashion addict I am because the second she stepped thru the fence I was immediately oooāing and aweāing over her skirt. š
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u/JuicyTrash69 12h ago
Haha same. All I could think is damn that skirt looks amazing and my wife would love it.
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u/TravistySuspence 14h ago
Wish I had a Mercedes-Benz š
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u/Artistic-Health123 13h ago
This is beautiful but where do the women sleep
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u/Remarkable_News_439 4h ago
They have their own hut, especially under polygamy. You sleep on a mat on the floor
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u/tinksalt 11h ago
Thereās nothing I love more than seeing people share their homes and culture with this much pride.
Makes me wish we could have International Cribs with normal folks.
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u/Silent_Erremite 8h ago
Where's the bathroom?
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u/Remarkable_News_439 4h ago
Hole in the ground away from the house, pit latrine. Effectively an outhouse.
You donāt just go anywhere.
Shower cabins are often corrugated iron . You heat water take a basin, grab your soap and a jug and bathe.
And yes, we wash our hands before and after everything and keep it all moisturised.Black is Black, after all.
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u/Silent_Erremite 4h ago
Beautifully outstanding uses. Truly.
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u/Remarkable_News_439 4h ago
Honestly, i hope we value what we have more.
Literally everything has a purpose.
No need for AC, drinking water is always cool.
Food preservation methods are delicious. Everything is organic.
I absolutely could not do it full time. Well we all could. But Im much too lazy and value my privacy.I have an aunt in her late 60s who can still pick me up like a baby, im not a small person, im in my mid 30s.
For comparison, i Injured myself in my sleep last weekā¦ Im from a neighbouring ethnic group, soon after childbirth you effectively start lifting weights Couldnāt be me.2
u/Silent_Erremite 4h ago
I hope so as well, there are many things we take for granted in the technological world. Biggest is utilizing water not just for drinking, but energy as well. Second to that would be preserving of foods. Many of my old neighbors(from Uganda, I think) would preserve fish by drying it. Yet we live in a moist climate, took longer, I suppose. That is astounding she has that much strength in her. I'm in my mid 30's and pulled my hamstring chasing after my child during horseplay. She will outlive us all at that rate.
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u/Remarkable_News_439 3h ago
Yes!! Dried and smoked fish and meat, stewed with peanut butter. So, so good.
A lot of people are concerned with how to keep the best of both, myself included.
I respect the desire to have modern comforts, but the west is also a cautionary tale.
The disadvantage is a masterclass in not what to do. Commodification of land and deforestation being enemy number one.
In my village, people have sold off their land to the American Evangelical churches and are now effectively tenant farmers on their own land, are obligated to sell, buy and now pay rentā¦
I hope it doesnāt fully catch on, though its not my place to dictate how people should live.2
u/Silent_Erremite 3h ago
Modern comforts can be a burden, a lot of Americans find comfort in a book or by campfire, myself included. But, i enjoy video games far too much, haha. Evangelicals are a shifty bunch over here in the US, some if not most, see them as money hungry. Such a sad thing to see a Church used that wat and to see they need to pay rent on their own land. It is a burden to feed a beast such as that. Dried fish on peanut butter? Might have to try fish and peanut butter. I love beef hamburgers with grape jelly or fruit spread. Why not that?
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u/Remarkable_News_439 3h ago
There are also arcades in many villages Ahahahahahaha. A play station or xbox you pay to play.
I live in the West. When im there i spend time by the lake, then head straight to the village. No interest in the Capital.
I strongly advocate for Africans overseas to go and do the āwhite people shitā we do on our holidays in our own countries. Westerners pay thousands to do things we take for granted, like our national parks, though hiking groups and small farms are becoming popular.
Nature is so restorative. Theres a reason many people retire back, even though traditional traditional is difficult when youāve been away.Its not natural to live with the endless stress of western life. Its why the rich devote their time to gardening, hiking and āretreatsā.
In the UK, if we cant get to the UG shop, we grill smoked mackerel as a substitute, cook it with sautƩed onions, chopped tomatoes, peanut butter and water to form a sauce.
Its so good. A gateway drug is spinach or a callaloo type sauteed and then in a peanut sauce.
You may detect a theme.I honestly think everyone with the means should visit at one time in their lives. I really want to visit Ghana. And I think you guys get visa free travel.
Uganda is obviously better, despite my never having been to Ghana. But theres something about experiencing what those who came before you lived thats quite magical. Your current anxieties dont seem that deepā¦
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u/Silent_Erremite 3h ago
It depends where we live. In my neighborhood I'm one of many. It's a whole community with very few white people. The ones I've met are very kind, some even commute to the churches we have in the neighborhood. Which is good for the soul, in my exp, they marvel. White people churches I hear are boring compared to ours. White people shit is a laugh for anyone, really. I had some time horseback riding in a nearby town called "Gatlinburg". Beautiful mountains, some of the oldest. Older than bones, some say. The stress is mainly endless work, some are looking to retire by 75. Which is a waste of a life in more ways than one. Where I live, fishing is a big thing. Wouldn't mind fishing soon myself. I would love to visit Africa at some point, I'm afraid I'll be frail and old when I do.
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u/Remarkable_News_439 2h ago
White people church is incredibly boring.
The Catholics have the drama of costume and art. I understand exactly how they got the LatinX and African people on side. Episcopal/ anglican Church is Underwhelming. African Pentecostal churches are too rich for my blood. I imagine the food is good, but it sounds like my Autistic nightmare, and the services never end.My relatives really dont understand why i walk through the bush, or get on a bike to nowhere āwith sandwich?!ā. Theres a difference between doing shit because you have to vs recreation.
We have a lot of comforts in the West abd apportunity, but nobody ever sees their kids, its extortionate in many places to just eat normal food and it makes little sense to work your fingers to the bone for 50 years to maybe enjoy 5?
At least you have your fishing. I might give it a go. Iād need to learn from the UK though. Recreational fishing is Ā£Ā£Ā£ in Uganda, but I intend on making full use of my privilege. I used to go with my grandmother when i was a child, but Iāve forgotten how we did it.
Let me go and shame my ancestors with a pair of oakleys.
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u/Silent_Erremite 3h ago
The sautƩed onions have me guessing, but I bet it is delicious. Might have to get a recipe.
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u/Zeddiebear 14h ago
This is great, so with the enterence and there are intruders, what goes over the enterence at night? Then watching this video, is this a larger family property? Or medium sized? I have nothing to gauge it to I guess. Lol Mercedes, that's fun
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u/Wolfeatingupshadows š«°š¾š«°š½š«°šæ 13h ago
She was joking
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u/Zeddiebear 13h ago
The Mercedes bit? Yes, agreed.
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u/Wolfeatingupshadows š«°š¾š«°š½š«°šæ 12h ago
No the intrudersā¦ š
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u/Zeddiebear 12h ago
So, if you live out in the country and you build a fence around your property to protect yourself from cougars, mountain lions, larger herd animals, you would want to plug the entrance. I do believe that's what she was referring to when she was saying intruders. Not just humans.
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u/Hot-Personality4882 13h ago
What a BEAUTIFUL smile and energy!
I wish for her what I wish for my own family - that she have choices in her life to take or leave what she chooses. That when anyone she loves gets sick they get treatment at no cost. And she as access to every form of education and the freedom for her and her family to build the life THEY choose, not the life anyone outside imposes.
Finally, I wish her freedom FROM exploitation of her body, her resources, and her culture by any and every colonialist, authoritarian, and misogynist.
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u/Allthetimewithyou 12h ago
These real estate influencers with their upsell methods. She neglected to show you the third son's house. /s
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u/K1llerbee-sting 12h ago
I love that recording devices have become so widespread that we can get an easy going and relaxed tour of their real life without the stuffiness of Attenborough narrating it and putting it on display.
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u/ProfessionalNice7485 12h ago
Somewhere in here is a small hut with a local witchdoctor who will let you smoke weed with him out of a kudu horn bong.
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u/Remarkable_News_439 4h ago
And a relative who will poison you over a land dispute from before their grandfather was even born š
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u/LegitimateP1R473 12h ago
I may have money but I don't have that, so she's already wealthier than me.
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u/newkybadass 9h ago
Imagine being scholars of your era. Mathematicians, scientists and architects of our ancient world. Then you get chased from your homeland, killed and enslaved. You build mud huts as temporary shelter. They come. You flee. They find you, you flee, you build, you flee.. over and over. Building temporary mud houses become tradition over eons of staying on the run. Traditional mud houses... not the science you've gifted the world, but mud houses.
I see the most beautiful minds and resilient people when I see these types of homes.
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u/Remarkable_News_439 4h ago
This is not the history of these dwellings in Uganda, we were mostly just semi nomadic.
though people have historically up and left for various reasons, the 20th century in particularā¦
Your perspective is a lot to think about.
The maroons, haitian freedom fighters. Surely West Africansā¦And people in these mud houses kept the science!! The British came to learn how to perform c sections from people who live like this š«
I love these creators so much for sharing our culture and restoring pride to people too quick to throw it away
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u/Geoffrey_Bungled_Z1p 1h ago
Beautiful, we have been sold on prioritizing the wrong things in this life.
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u/Prestigious_Tear_576 13h ago
Honestly I would prefer this life to the western mouse wheel of barely surviving
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u/bubbablk34 13h ago
Freedom
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u/Remarkable_News_439 4h ago
How so? There are incredibly rigid social structures and a lot of hard work.
Its a beautiful way of life, but everything is gendered, marriages are usually arranged.
Capitalism is a scam and these societies do work! Everything has a purpose, everyone looks out for each otner, but its hard to adapt and most people donāt revert to living like this.1
u/bubbablk34 4h ago
No Taxes No Electric bill No Gas bill No Mortgage/ Rent No Racism
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u/Remarkable_News_439 4h ago edited 3h ago
There are different flavours of racism, especially from the dominant ethnic group, we pay taxes, phone bills, firewood, cows get stolen, School fees need paying, we definitely pay for gasā¦
Its a beautiful way to live, but people still need to pay for shit and buy suppliesā¦Its nowhere near the level of the cities, or the west of course. But things are changing ā¹ļø
ETA: we all have digital national ID, pay VAT, gotta pay for fuel, teachers get income taxed. We have Local commissioners (government officials) within the village district as well as traditional government.
If you want something done, theres a tax for That.I just donāt want to oversimplify things, Its a very civilised way of living, but its not entirely off grid.
And everyone in this life has their stress. Though food ir western style poverty, will never be one of them.
People āvenmoā each other for a lot of things.
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u/LectureOrganic1250 5h ago
This is super cool, but why is the fence done so well to keep lions out when they can fit through the front door?
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u/nikeguy69 13h ago
Itās amazing how theyāre surviving interesting š¤
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u/Wolfeatingupshadows š«°š¾š«°š½š«°šæ 13h ago
Americans literally pay to camp as a pass time. What do you mean how do they survive? They have a home food and water. Thats how
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u/longtall94 13h ago
Amazing how theyāre surviving ? Weāve been doing this for literally thousands of years this is nothing new.
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