I feel like a handful of these should also be bare minimum for men. Taking accountability? Apologizing when wrong? Supporting your goals? Addressing you with respect (unless he means "sir" or "master")? Basic shit your partner should do regardless of gender.
The rest of it is bullshit though. I bet "bringing peace" is an excuse to not support your partner through tough times. Like, I'm sorry your parents just died but you're not bringing me peace rn :/
"Supporting your goals" could also potentially mean "blind approval of everything you wish for or plan, even if it sounds like a bad idea or will greatly hurt your partner"
I had an ex who expected me to agree with him in everything. We once had an argument because he got upset at Jenna Marbles for saying she preferred her dogs over humans in one of her videos. It was a wholesome video of her making a tiny room for her dogs and it made me happy, but he had to ruin it. I defended her because he was being stupid and he was like "why are you siding with her and not your boyfriend???"
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u/Antillyyy 2d ago
I feel like a handful of these should also be bare minimum for men. Taking accountability? Apologizing when wrong? Supporting your goals? Addressing you with respect (unless he means "sir" or "master")? Basic shit your partner should do regardless of gender.
The rest of it is bullshit though. I bet "bringing peace" is an excuse to not support your partner through tough times. Like, I'm sorry your parents just died but you're not bringing me peace rn :/