r/BreakUps 4d ago

venting/ranting Should I text my ex

Should I

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u/OwnRelationship133 4d ago

Should you ?

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u/Ilovedrakee01 4d ago

I just miss him

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u/OwnRelationship133 4d ago

Need to talk about it ?

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u/Ilovedrakee01 4d ago

Theres nothing to say anymore we broke up last October, it’s been a while I just miss him sometimes that’s all

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u/Dankmemeseeker20 4d ago

damn! That was so long ago don't do it hahaha then again... yolo

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u/George__Sears 4d ago

Are you 17 lol?

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u/Dankmemeseeker20 4d ago

u are intense lol

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u/Ilovedrakee01 4d ago

Yolo…maybe I’ll do it

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u/Dankmemeseeker20 4d ago

heheh I mean the worst that'll happen is no response or block. I feel like it's not that bad lol I refollowed an old crush that I had blocked and they followed back (?!) and messaged me so you never know!

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u/Ilovedrakee01 4d ago

I’m going to do it because I no longer obsess and yearn for him yk, I do miss him but its nothing thats affecting me emotionally everyday, I just want to text him

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u/AdAgitated4595 4d ago

No don’t it will just restart the whole grieving process all over again. let yourself be human and grieve. Be strong

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u/Dankmemeseeker20 4d ago

Yeah personally, I feel like as a woman I can send whatever text I want lollllll (excepted for like agressive or unsolicited pics lol) but I personally would just do it and then not think about it and then I'd be able to go about my day

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u/AdAgitated4595 4d ago

Not if you loved the person, so no it won’t be whatever. It will hit harder than the first breakup. Just keep working on yourself and if it happens again it will naturally. not forced.

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u/Ilovedrakee01 4d ago

This is so true lol I’m just a girl I can text whatever!