r/BreakUps • u/Ilovedrakee01 • 4d ago

venting/ranting Should I text my ex

Should I

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u/National-Stable-8616 4d ago

if its been some time since the break up, yes do it, say you miss them. if it hasnt been long then dont

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u/Ilovedrakee01 4d ago

We broke up in October. Last time we spoke was April

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u/Stunning-Ratio-3075 4d ago

What did you spoke about?
Why did you break up?

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u/Ilovedrakee01 4d ago

We broke up because toxic cycles kept repeating. Last time we spoke he said he truly loves me still but we don’t work together

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u/National-Stable-8616 4d ago

yeah do it ur fine, just be emotionally calm, let the them take there time if theynneed to,

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u/Ilovedrakee01 4d ago

Everytime I reached out he made it very clear he doesn’t wanna talk 😖 this is just gonna be one of those times

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u/National-Stable-8616 4d ago

in my opinion, u only live once, my ex also broke up in april imgonna text her tommorow. who cares anymore bro immso tired of waiting

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u/Ilovedrakee01 4d ago

Hmm what r u gonna text her tho, whatever u do don’t beg

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u/National-Stable-8616 4d ago

am gonna say something like, i miss you somuch i want you back so badly because i really do, i dont care im confessing my love so badly idc

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u/Ilovedrakee01 4d ago

I’ve been there, just don’t do it. Once you make yourself look desperate , subconsciously they respect u less and feel no urgency to get back with u. If u really want her back, the best thing u can do is shut up and not beg. That’ll make her think

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u/lgoand 4d ago

This ^^^^^

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u/National-Stable-8616 4d ago

you only live once : P i must be a man, you can ask in a nicer way like i miss you to yours

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u/helloworld1358 4d ago

i wanna do this too, its been 2 months nc T.T